Q: sooo i was datin this guy for a year , we broke up , now im heart broken and dont know how to move on ! i feel like guys dont want to talk to me because i was with this guy for a long time, i would shut down anyone who would try talk to me . and now idont know how to get back in the gaaame! what should i do ?

Q: 14/f
So I posted a question awhile back asking if what my uncle was doing was weird or not normal. Here's a link to the question so I don't have to repeat stuff:
http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=606498

Anyways, since then, I've visited them 2 more times for thanksgiving and for new years. My uncle has been bugging me if I have a boyfriend too. He takes me phone and looks at all my contacts and the people I text. Personally, I think he's just trying to bug me, but I don't want to leave anything out.

2 more things happened during those trips besides what I talked about in my previous question. First, I was at a different cousin's birthday party and he stuck some trash in my back pocket. And so I was in this mind set that he was just being a normal uncle messing around, so I put it back in his pocket. He chased me around to try to give it back to me and shoved it down the front of my shirt. Of course, both times he touched my butt and my boobs, but I tried to ignore it. The last night I was there, I went down to the basement of the house I was staying in so I could spend some time with my cousins. They were down there with all my uncles watching a movie and the only open spot was by that uncle. I sat down and tried to relax. Later, most of my cousins left and eventually it ended up being that uncle's sons and my brother playing and my uncle on the couch by me. He slipped his arm around my waist while we were sitting there. and as I tried to move away a little, his hand ended up in the back of my sweatshirt. He just left it there, as my aunt came down and sat on his other side and kissed him. And he even told her that he hadn't been drinking. And the next thing I know, his hand was in my underwear. He didn't touch any where near down there, but he kind of just left his hand on my butt cheek. I felt really weird, and he tried asking me something about being curious (I don't really remember). I felt so violated that I got up and left. He followed me upstairs but I ran and hid in a bedroom for the rest of the night and avoided him.

I've been trying to rationalize how this isn't weird, but I know it was enough to make me feel uncomfortable. I was shaking for the rest of the night and I get these moments where I remember it and I feel like crap. It just made me feel so low and disgusting. I just don't know what's going on. I hope I'm not making something out of nothing, but this really bothered me and it still does. I'm not a very emotionally stable person. I used to have problems with depression and an eating disorder and I got over it by myself. But now I'm starting to slip back into a depressive state when I remember that night. I want to talk to somebody about it, but I can't bring myself to tell my parents what happened. It's just not fair to anybody. I'm just torn.

Q: I don't want stuff really sexual and private but I want suggestions tht r flirty ( I really like this guy )

Q: Hi its me,the 14 year old boy which you answered my question.i was just wondering if 4 inch erect is even too small for a handjob.will she laugh?my birthday is coming up and she says she wants to treat me for my birthday(blowjob).i really want to but is a 4" penis even too small for a handjob and is it really necessary to see a doctor about my tight foreskin...i can face telling my parents thanks;)

Q: Hi,

My best friend of 15 years is getting married next year.

To my surprise she posted up a facebook status the other day listing her four bridesmaids & I was not included.

I've never felt so hurt by someone in my entire life, I was crying all night thinking I had done something wrong & trying to figure out why she didn't pick me.

Now I don't want to be friends with her anymore or even go to her wedding. I don't have a boyfriend, never have so I will be by myself as usual. Also I don't want to be embarrassed in front of her family who I've known for years starring at me wondering why I'm not there.

She lives in Australia but is coming home to New Zealand to get married here then go back to live in Australia.

How do I tell her I don't want to be friends with her cause she really hurt me & that I don't want to go to her wedding?

I know it's mean but I am just so hurt. If I ever got married I would've picked her to be mine.

Her excuse was that she can't afford to have an extra bridesmaid.

I just want to tell her to f off & to go get stuffed.

Q: Im 14 years old and from britain.me and a girl have unofficially started dating.she told me that she would give me a handjob and blowjob if i want but i have a 4" erect penis and a tight foreskin which i can only retract about a centimeter or maybe two back.im scared she will laugh or tell people about my penis and will pull the foreskin too far back.how far back does the foredkin go during blowjobs?anyway i really want to do this but am i too small or will my tight foreskin get in the way?thans for your help;)

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Q: So I've been friendly and talking to this girl.ita been about 2weeks since we been talking and she has the same class as me and she sat by me this week And like she's really nice and I feel like I want to work my way up to dating her .because im being friendly to her i dont want her telling me she only wants to be friends but.. idk how i should build my way up to be able to date her .. And how could i tell she feels the same Im 17 shes 16

Q: so i've liked this guy for 4 straight years. and he's known that. i've never had a full on conversation with him. he now has a girlfriend and whenever he's with her and i come around he will kiss her in front of me, or tell her she's beautiful and that he loves her. oh, and he will say it loud enough for me to hear. before he has a this girlfriend he would look at me constantly and it seemed like he would always want to get my attention. he still does that now, but not as much. Do you think he's trying to make me jealous? is he trying to see what my reaction is? cause honestly though i'm not jealous.

Q: Ok so I am 14/f and Ive recently started liking this guy named Sam. He is a year younger than me (13). I talked to him on facebook throughout the summer and Ive come to really like him and I'd call him my friend. He acts different with me, a good different. He is really weird at school but he is super cute and nice and funny. We kinda flirted throughout the summer and I found out a few weeks ago that my best friend lives next to him! I told him a liked him the last week of august before I went to my cottage for a week. He told me he liked me too and I was happy. I came back from my cottage a week later and tried to message him on facebook or text him but he next replied. School came along and he still wouldnt talk to me. I asked my friend a favor to ask him because sometimes they do walk home from school together because they dont live far from school. She said that practically he is ignoring me because he thinks Im annoying or whatever and he doesnt like me anymore. I am kinda mad because I dont think I was annoying at all and I kinda wanna start fresh with him and pretend nothing in the summer ever happened. I know its stupid, but I like him ALOT! The first thing I think of when I wake up is him and I dream about him 24/7. Kinda creepy but I cant seem to get him off my mind for even a split second! It kinda hurts to be ignored and he wouldnt even look at me at school. Apparently people kept telling me that he thought I am hot. I want him to talk to me like he did in the summer but he continues to ignore me. Until, today. My bus is the late bus at our school so we have to wait outside for an extra 10 minutes while everyone leaves. No one is usually there by the time we board the bus. We waited for the bus and watched it roll up to the curb then I looked over and spotted Sam, he had stayed after school with 2 of his friends and waited for his best friend (Trevor) from the catholic school to get off our bus so they could go to Sam's house. I said "hi" to him for the first time in like forever and he said "hey" back and then I said, "picking up Trevor?" and he said "yes". That was the first time he had ever said a thing to me since august 19th.

Now for the story of Trevor. We've only been in school for 2 weeks now and Trevor is on my late bus from the catholic school. He is a cute kid but I dont think I would ever date him. A few of my friends on the bus were telling me to be creepy towards him as a joke because apparently Trevor likes me... So I sat with him on the bus and was creepy as they said and moved so I was shoulder to shoulder with him and watched his face so red and he was smiling and looking down. It was pretty obvious and hilarious. It was all a joke though and I didnt think I like him but now I think I might.... :/ He is Sam's best friend and I like both? What a mess I am. But when he got off the bus to walk with Sam at my school, he left his jacket on the bus and I didnt notice until a guy names Mark (also on my bus) pointed it out and started laughing histarically. He gave it to me and told me to put it on and I did and sarcastically sighed and smiled and laughed. Then I asked if he would take it to him and he said he had no clue where he lived. Neither did anyone on my bus. My bus driver is really creepy and I dont trust him with Trevors jacket and soon I was the last person on the bus with our 45 minute ride and I started freaking out and not knowing what to do. At my stop, I quickly shoved the jacket into my bag and left the bus. I dont know what to do with his jacket and I will give it to him on Monday but I dont want Trevor to freak at me for having it.

What should I do about all this? Opinions on everything? What about Sam? How do I get him to talk to me? How do I show Trevor I like him without being obvious or creepy? Advice please?

Q: Hi everyone (Also, i'm 12. You'll need to know that).

I just got home from school and I changed into some shorts.

I looked at my underwear and there was some white mushy stuff on it. It wasn't a lot, but only a little bit. Then, I looked at my...you know... And saw a little teensy bit of it. It probably got there from that mushy stuff on my underwear.

Anyways, what was that?! I really need to know.

P.S. It's not what you think it is. I've never done that before or was planning to.

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Q: 14/f
Okay, so my mom thinks I am a lesbian but I am completely straight. I've had three boyfriends and my mom knows that. But she is under the impression that I like girls because I don't talk about liking guys with her. When I got my first boyfriend, My mom asked me if I liked him and I was like "well you know, we're pretty much friends but people just like the title." Of course, I did really like him and was dating him for more than the title but I didn't want to tell my mom that because things would be so awkward. Trust me. If I talked about guy I like with her, it would be SO awkward and she would keep asking me questions about it. So I know that she thinks I'm a lesbian because today she was like "who do you like?" and I said nobody. She then said "do you even know what it feels like to have a crush on someone??" and I was like no, because if I say yes she will interrogate me about it!! And then she asked what male celebrity I find attractive, and believe me there are MANY male celebrities I find attractive, but I said nobody because otherwise it would be awkward. So then she's like "well you must be attracted to girls then. What girls do you think are attractive? You're that type." And I told her that I don't like girls!!!! But I don't want to tell her who I like because it will be annoying and awkward, but I don't want her thinking I'm a lesbian either! What should I do? Thanks :)

Q: I have been searching everywhere for the torrent for season 2 episode 1 of canada next top model but every torrent i use never works!

anyone know where i can find a working one or how to fix it?

i use VLC player and transmission

Q: My guy friend sends me goodmorning texts and every morning an I want to do it for him. But I want to do a really long sweet one that will make him smile while he reads it, and make his day better (:
Usually this wouldn't be too difficult, but I don't want to go "too far" with it, because i like him and he knows that, but he likes someone else. So I don't wanna make it weird it all.
He is my best friend and were both seniors.
Anything helps. Thanks (:

Q: so i posted a question here before about whether or not this guy likes me. he works at UPS and was in my geography class. well anyways he wanted me to come see him on the days that he working because i needed to send out my brother's birthday present. Well i went in and he wasn't there. I found out he hadn't come in yet, because i had casually asked. And then another employee was like yeah he'll be here in an hr, and the guy that was helping me started laughing, and I was like uh okay? and the guy that said that was like well he helped you last time you were here. and i was like oh im not going to wait on him that would be weird, since I had already been taken care of. I felt weird and i said oh i m just here to deliver my package. and the guy helping me was like i believe you. So I didn't get to see him and now he probably knows. So what should I do? I m just thinking about never showing up there again. Should I just do that?

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