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i am so ashamed but where do i start basically im 19 i already have a one year old not with the father because i choose horrible men and he didnt want me anymore just the baby, ive had sex with about 13 people since i was 16 and ive cheated before i feel so ashamed of how my life has become and am looking for some reason to change but i cant find it please would you be able to help me? (link)
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You may not like to hear this, but I believe (If you want to do this) if you open your heart and let God in, it will help you. I'm not trying to persuade you to be a Christian or anything, but if you are open to the idea of learning the word of The Lord it will honestly make your life better. (In my opinion). If you are not into this idea, stop reading. If you think it's something that you would be willing to try, take my advice. Go to church. Find a friend who is religious, or a family member. If you go to church and honestly listen to what the preacher has to say, it can change your life. You don't even have to go. You could just open your heart, and pray. Pray to The Lord and ask him to come into your life. Once you build a strong relationship with God you can handle anything someone throws at you. You'll be able to forgive yourself of all the things you have done that you are ashamed of. I'm sorry if I offended you, but I Believe letting The Lord come into your life will make you a much happier person. This is just what I would do. :) if you are very against this idea, maybe see a physiologist or a counselor that you can just talk to and tell them why you feel the way you do. Talking about your problems, especially with a professional, can better your life. A lot. Hope I helped!
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I don't know this category lol ;p
I'm sure some of you guys have an app called 'Snapchat' ?
I just got it and I was wondering about the points/high score.
People say you get 12 points per snap but I get 2 points when I send and open.
And I have seen the 'best friend' thingy. Is it because you snap to that user a lot frequently?
Thanks! (link)
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The "Points/high score" thing is really confusing. My friends and I realized that every time you send a snap, you get a point. When you receive a snap, that is 12. (I think) There should be two numbers for your score. It should look something like this: 435|1209 (for example). The first number is the amount of snaps you have sent and the second is how many you have received X 12. The best friends are the people you snapchat the most. Hope this helped!
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I've been with my boyfriend for four years now. He has been having trouble getting me a gift (or so he says). He talked to his brother who said 'get her an engagement ring already'. He told me this too. Then he talked to his aunt and she said the same thing...and he said he was working on it. Mind you he told me about these conversations for some reason...as to get my reaction maybe? Anyway I got a text from him and his brother asking me my ring size...what do you think is going on? Opinions?
He had said awhile ago he wanted to wait for a little...I'm so confused not sure how to feel! (link)
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He probably wants to propose, even if he doesn't want to get married for another year or so. Give him your ring size if you haven't, but don't get your hopes up high. If you are expecting to get married and he doesn't propose, you'll be sad. Maybe he wants to know for future reference. Maybe he is planning on proposing later this year (the reason he said he wanted to wait) so he asked you now so it would be a surprise later. I think he will ask you sooner or later for sure! :)
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How old do you have to be to work at Mcdonalds ? (link)
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They don't really have an age limit. The older you are, the more mature they are going to see you as though. They don't really want to hire a 16 year old when there is a 17 year old applying. BUT, 15 is usually a good age. Just make sure you get a workers permit, you can usually go into your school councler and they will give you one. Hope I helped! :)
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Theres this guy i kinda like and I have his phone number. I've seen him staring at me a few times before and we have only talked like twice before. I want to text him but is he gona think I'm wierd for just texting him after all this time we haven't talked? (link)
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this has happened to me before. If he is in one of your classes be like "hey this is (your name). did we have any homework for _____?) and when he texts you back be like ohh alright thankss :) or something. or be like oh, well what are you up to?" haha. if you don't have a class with him, this is what your convo may/should look like :) (- means you) (* means him)
-heyy
*who's this?
-haha, guess
*(he guesses)
-yeah(: OR noo :b (depeding on his answer.)
*well who is it? OR oh cool, how did you get my number?
then you say -oh wow, sorryyy. My cousin/friend took my phone and started texting you! I think she took your number from he phone. my baddd. but what are you doing? hahaa
hope this helped!!! :)))
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i want to know how to sruch thick hair (link)
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I have VERY thick hair, and i scrunch it a lot! Well first thing first, If you want to make it go curlier/wavier than normal wash it under the faucet upside down, but if you dont care just wash it normally. Get some moose, hairspray, and spray gel for bet results. If you want ideas on what brands to get ask me to my inbox and i'll let you know what i do/use.
-first make sure you get as much water out of your hair as you can, so it isn't dripping.(you still want it fairly damp though)
-Next, squirt about a golfball size glob of moose into your hand and scrunch it through your hair using the "scrunching" motion. -then, spray the spray gel all around your hair and scrunch it again. When you are done, spray the hairspray in your hand and scrunch it a lot too. (or you could use gel at this point)
-THEN, spray the hair spray all over your hair.
Here is a video on how to scrunch your hair if you want more visual directions.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mtzr3OwixXg&feature=related
what she is doing at 3:55 is the scrunching motion. You can do it how i said or use this way. also look at other videos of youtubethat can help! whatever you like to do!! :) Hope this helped girl!
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Hi.
My dad has just come in off the farm and he got a bee sting in his mouth. Its under his tongue. I have removed the stinger. He has had an antihistamine but is there anything that will stop the swelling and spreading of the venom? He is also saying he has a metallic feeling in his mouth and round his teeth.
Please any advice would be much appreciated.
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They may sound weird, but whenever me or any one i know has gotten stung, we removed the stinger (like you said) and then get an old(ish) penny and tape it/hold it to the area where it has been stung. He could hold it under the tounge for about 15 min. I have also heard these things but since it is in his mouth they may be hard...But here is a few
-rubb egg white on it
-smear a paste of Meat Tenderizer mixed with water over the sting
Bee venom is acidic. so: Make a paste with baking soda and water and apply it to the sting.
Those are things i have used but in 'regular stings'.
Whenever the sting hurts, ice it until it is numb, it takes away the pain and numbs it and stops the swelling for a while. Also, honey helps sooth the pain. Yet again this is also on 'regular' stings. Take some advil or tylonol to calm the pain. Sorry I couldn't help that much but i hope what i did say helped! :)
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My nipples have been severely itchy for the past 5 days i was wondering if its a sign of pregnacny and or if there is any other reason for itchy nipples ????????? (link)
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If they are still developing then they could be itching. But if you are worrying about pregnancy than they have probably developed already haha. But if you are like 20 weeks pregnant your nipples usually itch. Some people have itchy nipples as their first sign of pregnancy so it just depends. So, if you have had unprotected sex lately then it is a possibility, but it that isn't the case, then it could be a yeast infection of your nipples or something they call Paget disease. All you need to do for these is go to your doctor and he will f=give you either a cream or an antibiotic; this usually isn't a big deal. Hope this helps good luck!
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I cuttently use Netflix. I have it downloaded on my Wii and our plan allows us to have one DVD at a time sent to our home.
My mom wants to switch to Blockbuster because it's cheaper. Do they allow you to download and watch movie on your Wii like Netflix?
Also, are their movie selections decent? (link)
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Netflix currently has over 110,000 dvds and tv shows. Blockbuster has about 90,000 at the time. Blockbuster has new dvds come out 28 days before Netflix BUT you can't watch the shows/movies on Wii yet. The only things you can watch it on is your laptop/computer, some smart-phones, and then physically order the dvd. The two are hard to compare because though Netflix can be watched on Wii, has more of a selection and downloads quicker, it is a little more expensive. If you wouldn't mind having to watch it on your computer or actually renting a physical DVD, go with Blockbuster. BUT if you use the Wii a lot with Netflix, I would stay with that personally. Hope this helps!!! :)
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okay so this is my first pregnancy. I'm not a skinny girl, but Im not fat either. I'm kinda in between so when I got pregnant i knew id gain some weight. But i didn't expect this to happen! I'll step on the scale and I weigh the same with maybe a few pounds difference here and there. but my belly is like huge. its not baby belly either its just jiggly ick!!! Is this normal? I can't fit into any of my clothes or my fat clothes I had on the side. My ass is huge and my boobs look like dolly parton. I hadnt to expected to look like a blimp so soon! (link)
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When your butt and boobs get huge, this is definitely because of the pregnancy. Your stomach getting larger is also because of it. ask your self these question:
-Have your eating habits changed a lot?
-Did you used to work out at all and now you aren't?
-Do you feel hungry all the time?
if you answered yes to any of these then it is def. because of the pregnancy. It is normal. It's just a part of the whole experience! haha :) well if you answered no to all of these q's, go see your doctor. It should not be a big deal, he may just tell you to watch what you eat but it is not anything serious :) Make sure you are taking prenatal vitamins as well, to keep yourself and your baby as healthy as possible. Hope this helps girl, feel free to inbox me any questions you have or e-mail me.
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i rubbed my boyfriend's penis on my clitoris..i was wearing my clothes..(three layers of clothing)..r ther any chances for me to get any STDs?? m scared.. (link)
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Find out if he has STD's. If he has had sex with other girls before it could be a possibility for him to have them. But, since his seaman didn't actually enter your body, it is highly unlikely that you have STDs. hope this helps! if you have any other questions inbox me :)
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im 11 goin to be 12 in 1 week i have seen white
stuff in my underwear and my tummy hearts
sometimes is my period close or what? (link)
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Well, i had discharge for about 3 years until i had my period. My friends however only had it for a year, or some even only a month. Even if your tummy hurts, it may be a stomach flu. Then again it may also be close to your period. If it hurts in the lower section (like where you pull your pants up to) it may be cramps from your period. My guess if you are close. 12 is around the average age to start your period. ask your mom and find out when she started hers. I would say you should carry some pads (about 3 or 4) in your backpack or purse in case it comes when you are out. You can start wearing panty liners so the discharge you are having doesn't get on your underwear, but that is up to you. :) I hope this helps girl! If you need any thing or have any other questions just inbox me! :)
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Every time I am in the company of boys my age, 15/16 years old, they never approach me. I am 5ft 9in, have long blonde hair and know that I'm a nice person, and I can say that I am attractive. I don't understand why boys my own age NEVER approach me; I can talk to anyone, whether they're 8 years old or 80 years old. What puzzles me is that boys of 20+ always approach me and chat me up, and I am able to hold a conversation easily. I am not self centred, or stuck up; I am simply confident. It has come to the point where whenever I'm out, or at a party, boys just avoid speaking to me. What do you think is the reason for this? I am so perplexed... (link)
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The reason older guys come and talk to you is probably because you look older. Also, a reason guys your age may avoid talking to you is because maybe they are intimidated by you. If you look older, they also may think you are older too. But, it is not necessarily a bad thing. This could mean these boys think you are cute and they would like to talk to you but like i said, are intimidated. Just go talk to them. :) hope this helped! please feedback. :)
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my mother has lots of fur coats & such, and i just found them. there is this one white rabbit fur vest, & i know the fake fur vests are in right now, and i really like it.
i want to wear it, but i'm afraid people will be able to tel its real & like beat me.
i know the mink ones & fox ones look obviously real, but i also don't think many people will expect a 19 year old girl to have real fur vest either..? right? (link)
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no, they probably wont be able to. if they see it they will most likely expect it to be fake like you said. :) If someone feels it and is like "is it real?" simply say "no, but it feels real right?" haha. hope this helped!
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Ok, this sounds kind of stupid and weird, but every day (almost) my friend says in spanish(shes NOT spanish) "For why are there no more green bathrooms, you cocoroach!?" And i wanted to have something to say back next time she says it. I decided on "What did you do with the purple swimming pool you jack rabbit?!" And i need to know how to say it. Please help me and pronoinciations would be helpful-i dont know to much about pronouncing spanish. Thanks! Any advice would help. Oh and this probably fosnt matter but i am 11 years old (link)
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¿Qué hiciste con la piscina púrpura que Jack Rabbit? and a way to pronounce this: Kay. E-Seesetay. cone. la. pe-see-na. kay. Jack Rabeet.
That is how it is pronounced. the person who previously answered is right, you can also go to google translate and hear how to pronounce it. hope this helped!
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Ok, so I'm taking the guy that I like to a dance in February. I really like this guy and I'm seriously considering kissing him. Should I wait, or should I make the move? If you have anything that's related to my question, please tell me. Any advice is appreciated. Thanks! (link)
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you should wait. Some guys take a girl to a dance but to them it doesn't mean too much. Keep texting him and start talking to him and find out if he really likes you. once you have given him a hug and all this and that and you have been talking for a while, when you feel the time is right to kiss him and you are like sitting beside him, look at his lips. if he sees you doing it then he will probably get that you want him to kiss you. look at his lips then to his eyes, give him a soft smile and wait for him to lean in :) hope this helped girll
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Hey!
So ive always had a dream to become a fashion designer since i were a little girl,but ive never really had the chance to apply to fashion school yet.So now ive finally got the chance!Ive been accepted into this "design a wedding dress" competition and ive got about 200 something likes on facebook so far and its only my third day!But,i need more votes!So my question is,if you guys think my dress is pretty,would you please help me by hitting Like at the picture??Please help me fulfill my dream =(
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i liked it :)
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Hi. I'm like rlly worried right now because today I admitted who i liked to girl i don't trust. She said that she would talk to the girl i like for me, and i'm really afraid to talk to her now. should I avoid her? i'm too young to date, and the nontrustworthy girl thinks I'm too old to not be dating. I'm 13. Should I avoid the girl i like? Please help. (link)
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no dont avoid her, if you see her smile or something. if you think she likes you too talk to her. be confident because if you avoid her she will think you hate her or something and ruin any chance of dating or something with her. Just talk to her like nothing has changed because maybe this girl you dont trust won't tell her, or you never know. hope this helpss! :)
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Okay so I'm new to twitter think i'm getting the hang of it!
Whenever I mention someone however they don't respond.. I think I'm definitely doing something wrong?
I don't think it's working. There is this australian star who's not that big but I love anyway she has only a couple of thousand followers but she literally responds to everyone.,and re tweets for people whoa sk ive mentioned her a few times in tweets but nothing!?
It's the same for like normal people too.
I'm sure I'm not being ignored. lol So what am I doing wrong?
I would type something like
"hey @Jake saw your show last night it was amazing..."
no reply..no retweet no mention.
someone else could do the same "hey @jake you were great last night"
and next thing its retweeted and responded..
this is driving me insane.
Please help twitter addicts? :)
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what i usually do is @jake , then his name or username will pop up under the box thing you are tweeting from. i Click on it (it being the username i am trying to mention) and then once you are done mentioning the name, put a space between the next word/letter and your mention. also, if you go to "home" then click "@mentions" it will show you if they replied. but you probably already knew that
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I'm 16/f he's 17/m
I'm talking to this guy Javier he just got back from his trip from Guatemala. He's also working as a handy man in this community outing thing tommorow. And we wante to see each other again there. I kinda wanna seduce him to a point to get him to leave. Note this is a public event , I want it to be sublte. Thankss. (: (link)
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Make eye contact a lot! smile for the first 3 or 4 times. then start giving him flirty eyes and flirty looks. i am sure you know what those are :). Next...when you talk to him...twirl your hair a bit. Not over exaggerating it but you know. this is ONLY IF YOU WANT TO!....sit down if you can...maybe on a table...but not all the way. be like half on the table half on. bend your torso down so 'your breasts' are able to be looked at! put your elbow on your leg so it looks like that is where you are resting. hah. if you don`t want to to that far. sit down half on half off a table and put your hand on your leg. if he sees you do it...look down at your hand and back to him then smile! *flirty eyes* :)
also, what to wear: if it is hot outside...go for the cut off jeans look. as in cut off into short shorts. not so that your but is hanging out...but yeah. please let me know if this helped!!!! feedack!
thanks girl
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