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I like him and his best friend? :$ (sorry for the length)
Ok so I am 14/f and Ive recently started liking this guy named Sam. He is a year younger than me (13). I talked to him on facebook throughout the summer and Ive come to really like him and I'd call him my friend. He acts different with me, a good different. He is really weird at school but he is super cute and nice and funny. We kinda flirted throughout the summer and I found out a few weeks ago that my best friend lives next to him! I told him a liked him the last week of august before I went to my cottage for a week. He told me he liked me too and I was happy. I came back from my cottage a week later and tried to message him on facebook or text him but he next replied. School came along and he still wouldnt talk to me. I asked my friend a favor to ask him because sometimes they do walk home from school together because they dont live far from school. She said that practically he is ignoring me because he thinks Im annoying or whatever and he doesnt like me anymore. I am kinda mad because I dont think I was annoying at all and I kinda wanna start fresh with him and pretend nothing in the summer ever happened. I know its stupid, but I like him ALOT! The first thing I think of when I wake up is him and I dream about him 24/7. Kinda creepy but I cant seem to get him off my mind for even a split second! It kinda hurts to be ignored and he wouldnt even look at me at school. Apparently people kept telling me that he thought I am hot. I want him to talk to me like he did in the summer but he continues to ignore me. Until, today. My bus is the late bus at our school so we have to wait outside for an extra 10 minutes while everyone leaves. No one is usually there by the time we board the bus. We waited for the bus and watched it roll up to the curb then I looked over and spotted Sam, he had stayed after school with 2 of his friends and waited for his best friend (Trevor) from the catholic school to get off our bus so they could go to Sam's house. I said "hi" to him for the first time in like forever and he said "hey" back and then I said, "picking up Trevor?" and he said "yes". That was the first time he had ever said a thing to me since august 19th.
Now for the story of Trevor. We've only been in school for 2 weeks now and Trevor is on my late bus from the catholic school. He is a cute kid but I dont think I would ever date him. A few of my friends on the bus were telling me to be creepy towards him as a joke because apparently Trevor likes me... So I sat with him on the bus and was creepy as they said and moved so I was shoulder to shoulder with him and watched his face so red and he was smiling and looking down. It was pretty obvious and hilarious. It was all a joke though and I didnt think I like him but now I think I might.... :/ He is Sam's best friend and I like both? What a mess I am. But when he got off the bus to walk with Sam at my school, he left his jacket on the bus and I didnt notice until a guy names Mark (also on my bus) pointed it out and started laughing histarically. He gave it to me and told me to put it on and I did and sarcastically sighed and smiled and laughed. Then I asked if he would take it to him and he said he had no clue where he lived. Neither did anyone on my bus. My bus driver is really creepy and I dont trust him with Trevors jacket and soon I was the last person on the bus with our 45 minute ride and I started freaking out and not knowing what to do. At my stop, I quickly shoved the jacket into my bag and left the bus. I dont know what to do with his jacket and I will give it to him on Monday but I dont want Trevor to freak at me for having it.
What should I do about all this? Opinions on everything? What about Sam? How do I get him to talk to me? How do I show Trevor I like him without being obvious or creepy? Advice please?
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okay lets start with sam. best way to get someones attention is to be happy, have fun and act like everything is normal. sounds weird right? try it trust me. just talk to friends when he is around, laugh and be normal... don't over do it or you will just look weird :P. start simple just start saying hi as you pass or a small wave, or just smile. time will pass and he will get over it and feel silly for ignoring you.
trevor sounds like a good kid, and as for the jacket thing he is more likely to be happy you have it and not some random, plus if he likes you it gives him an excuse to talk to you and vise versa. Just get to know him more, become friends. chances are he will start talking to sam about how nice you are and sam will re think ignoring you.
to show trevor you like him just flirt. be goofy make lame jokes and just be you. dont go out of your way to impress someone it normally turns guys off. just hug him hello or goodbye, laugh at his horrible jokes,look at his eyes , make jokes with him ect. its not to hard
goodluck, i hope that helped
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For starters, you have exceptional grammar skills. I'm impressed. However, your mind is clearly that of a young girl and that's perfectly fine.
My advice to you is simple. These boys will NOT be the ones that will start a conversation or tell you they like you (in person). These guys are probably more shy than you are.
YOU NEED TO DO THE TALKING.
As for Trevor.. leave him alone. Don't mess with his emotions because you obviously like him because you found out her likes you.
Go after Sam. Leave Trevor alone. That is my advice.
Also, stop listening to everyone that tells you what to do. You should not have done what you did with Trevor and Mark is a terrible person for telling you to take his jacket.
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