Member Since: September 17, 2012
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Last Update: September 17, 2012
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I want to have sex with someone somehow but how?
I am 16 years old I am desperate and I am a male.
I try to look at porn and masturbate but I want to move on to the real thing.
I am not the guy how wants a girlfreied then sex. I just want to have sex but not a relationship. Please help give some advice thanks. (link)
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Are you ready for the possibility of having a child? I don't think so. You're thinking too much about yourself. When you have sex, it's going to affect the girl, it's going to affect the baby that might be born, it's going to affect your parents because they'll have to support you until you're on your feet. You need to chill.. show some self-control.. and relax. You're too young to be thinking about having sex right now. Get into college.. then you can start having thoughts about getting a girl. My advice.. for now.. focus on growing up.. and prepare yourself.
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Ok so I am 14/f and Ive recently started liking this guy named Sam. He is a year younger than me (13). I talked to him on facebook throughout the summer and Ive come to really like him and I'd call him my friend. He acts different with me, a good different. He is really weird at school but he is super cute and nice and funny. We kinda flirted throughout the summer and I found out a few weeks ago that my best friend lives next to him! I told him a liked him the last week of august before I went to my cottage for a week. He told me he liked me too and I was happy. I came back from my cottage a week later and tried to message him on facebook or text him but he next replied. School came along and he still wouldnt talk to me. I asked my friend a favor to ask him because sometimes they do walk home from school together because they dont live far from school. She said that practically he is ignoring me because he thinks Im annoying or whatever and he doesnt like me anymore. I am kinda mad because I dont think I was annoying at all and I kinda wanna start fresh with him and pretend nothing in the summer ever happened. I know its stupid, but I like him ALOT! The first thing I think of when I wake up is him and I dream about him 24/7. Kinda creepy but I cant seem to get him off my mind for even a split second! It kinda hurts to be ignored and he wouldnt even look at me at school. Apparently people kept telling me that he thought I am hot. I want him to talk to me like he did in the summer but he continues to ignore me. Until, today. My bus is the late bus at our school so we have to wait outside for an extra 10 minutes while everyone leaves. No one is usually there by the time we board the bus. We waited for the bus and watched it roll up to the curb then I looked over and spotted Sam, he had stayed after school with 2 of his friends and waited for his best friend (Trevor) from the catholic school to get off our bus so they could go to Sam's house. I said "hi" to him for the first time in like forever and he said "hey" back and then I said, "picking up Trevor?" and he said "yes". That was the first time he had ever said a thing to me since august 19th.
Now for the story of Trevor. We've only been in school for 2 weeks now and Trevor is on my late bus from the catholic school. He is a cute kid but I dont think I would ever date him. A few of my friends on the bus were telling me to be creepy towards him as a joke because apparently Trevor likes me... So I sat with him on the bus and was creepy as they said and moved so I was shoulder to shoulder with him and watched his face so red and he was smiling and looking down. It was pretty obvious and hilarious. It was all a joke though and I didnt think I like him but now I think I might.... :/ He is Sam's best friend and I like both? What a mess I am. But when he got off the bus to walk with Sam at my school, he left his jacket on the bus and I didnt notice until a guy names Mark (also on my bus) pointed it out and started laughing histarically. He gave it to me and told me to put it on and I did and sarcastically sighed and smiled and laughed. Then I asked if he would take it to him and he said he had no clue where he lived. Neither did anyone on my bus. My bus driver is really creepy and I dont trust him with Trevors jacket and soon I was the last person on the bus with our 45 minute ride and I started freaking out and not knowing what to do. At my stop, I quickly shoved the jacket into my bag and left the bus. I dont know what to do with his jacket and I will give it to him on Monday but I dont want Trevor to freak at me for having it.
What should I do about all this? Opinions on everything? What about Sam? How do I get him to talk to me? How do I show Trevor I like him without being obvious or creepy? Advice please? (link)
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For starters, you have exceptional grammar skills. I'm impressed. However, your mind is clearly that of a young girl and that's perfectly fine.
My advice to you is simple. These boys will NOT be the ones that will start a conversation or tell you they like you (in person). These guys are probably more shy than you are.
YOU NEED TO DO THE TALKING.
As for Trevor.. leave him alone. Don't mess with his emotions because you obviously like him because you found out her likes you.
Go after Sam. Leave Trevor alone. That is my advice.
Also, stop listening to everyone that tells you what to do. You should not have done what you did with Trevor and Mark is a terrible person for telling you to take his jacket.
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I've been feeling so down and so lonely for a while. I'm not the kind of girl that likes to express my feelings with people only cause I really don't want to worry them. I'd rather keep everything to myself. I don't think it's working cause it only makes me
feel more and more down each day. at first I started off with feel down, then i started to stay up late thinking, now I just wanna cry at random times of the day but I hold everything in cause I don't want to worry anyone and I cry myself to sleep a lot of the times. it's only gotten worse. I honestly think I should talk to someone but I just can't /.\ whenever I'm around people I always act like I'm alright but when I'm by myself I just cry a little , any advice would be great ? thanks /.\ (link)
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You don't have a parent? aunt? uncle? cousin? If your family members aren't around.. you could always talk to a school counselor! They're in school to help people just like you! Start off slow.. but eventually you'll feel better. =]
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Hi
I am thinking about to kill myself.
My life is not going well.I fill hopeless and everyone hates me.
I am totally dumn and arrogant person and I am s fsilure in USA. (link)
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You can't kill yourself because I love you. We might not know each other.. but I feel for you. I get upset and depressed at times.. but you know what I've always found? Live goes on. How are you going to know if things get better if you're not here? Think positive.. stay strong.. and never feel like you're so bad that you need to end your life. Someone WILL miss you, and you just can't do that to them.
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I've been talking to a guy for about two months now. He has asked me to hang out 4 times and all four times he has not been able to go. We went to a game together 6 days ago. He had his arm around me and we had a great time. The day before we had made plans to hang out this weekend as well. He didn't call or text me to confirm anything official. The last time we talked is when I texted him and he quickly said he had to go. Ever since the game he has acted differently. Someone told him I liked him and now it's like he has been ignoring me. Should I give up? Maybe I got the wrong idea thinking he liked me or maybe I'm over reacting. What do you think? I don't want to be the first to contact him again because I don't want it to be like before where he said he had to go. (link)
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Boys are stupid. You need to go up to him FACE TO FACE and tell him that you like him and that you want to go out together. You will know right away if he liked you or not. If he says he doesn't like you, that's OK, you move on! Don't let this drag you around. You might feel sad or embarrassed for the next 15 minutes, but right after that you'll be happy that you stepped up and tried.
Good luck!
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how do you get over youe boyfroend if you left him from calling you a bith or a hoe everytime he gets upset with you? (link)
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Obviously this guy does not respect you as a women. No good guy would ever call someone he likes or loves those names.
Here are a few ways to get over him:
1) Any time you start thinking about him and remembering the good times, remind yourself why you left him! He is NO GOOD.
2) Distract yourself! Go out with some friends, bake some cookies, watch a movie! All these things will help keep your mind off of him.
3) Love yourself enough to not let anyone hurt you.
I hope this helps!
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