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I really want to have intercourse sex! (but no relationship)
I want to have sex with someone somehow but how?
I am 16 years old I am desperate and I am a male.
I try to look at porn and masturbate but I want to move on to the real thing.
I am not the guy how wants a girlfreied then sex. I just want to have sex but not a relationship. Please help give some advice thanks.
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hey i an=m a teen age girl and i know what ya mean. relationships really aren't my thing ether. what you need is a good old fashioned slut. no there not horrible people for being easy just watch out for diseases. if you look confident and dress nice (sounds really stupid and easy but true)you shouldn't have much trouble getting a slut from your school to have sex with you.
Important = just because there is no relationship dose not meant you can be an asshole. still be nice to her and don't just drop her unless she just drops you in witch case congratulations.
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I am delighted by your honesty. What you are looking for is what we older people refer to as friends with benefits. Unfortunately girls your age are reluctant to have sex in the first place. They have to feel they are in a loving relationship before they will consider having sex with someone. So a relationship solely based on sex is probably out of the question.
I would not recommend looking for someone old enough who might be willing to have this type of relationship. Being 16 you are legally underage to give consent to having sex. Anyone old enough for this type of relationship would be of an age where she would be in jeopardy of going to jail for having sex with you.
My advice: If you are unwilling to get into a relationship then for at least the next 2 years. Stick with the porn and masturbation. There is really nothing wrong with either. Once your 18 you can go looking for a girl, over 18, who would be willing to be a friend with benefits if you still want that type of relationship.
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Are you ready for the possibility of having a child? I don't think so. You're thinking too much about yourself. When you have sex, it's going to affect the girl, it's going to affect the baby that might be born, it's going to affect your parents because they'll have to support you until you're on your feet. You need to chill.. show some self-control.. and relax. You're too young to be thinking about having sex right now. Get into college.. then you can start having thoughts about getting a girl. My advice.. for now.. focus on growing up.. and prepare yourself.
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You want sex with no relationship? I want ice cream and a pony, but that's not happening any time soon.
Seriously, in order to have sex with a girl, you're going to have to put in some effort. She needs to believe that you are worth risking pregnancy and STI infection for, not to mention the connection that you get from having sex with someone.
Having sex and walking away isn't as easy as you might think. When you do, you walk away feeling unfulfilled and sad. I'm not just blowing smoke here, because my husband lost his virginity to a random girl at a party when he was a teenager and he regrets it to this day. Sex is best when you have it with someone you care about, who cares about you and who makes you happy. You don't have to be married, but at least knowing and caring about the lady will make it way better than any no strings attached fling.
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