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Now I know this search is kind of hopeless since I know very little detail about the movie, in fact I've never seen this movie, but regardless. Someone once told me about this movie, originally I thought it was "the moving castle" but it was not. It's not an anime, I feel like the name might have castle in it, but I'm not certain. It's about a boy and a girl that live in the woods and that's all I know.

I once looked it up when it was recommended to me, the front had woods on it of course and a young boy and girl sitting down (I BELIEVE)I know this is very vague but if you have any ideas that'd be great, its' very important to me. Thanks! (link)
Are they teens or adults or kids or what , cause if their kids im thinking " BRIDGE TE TERABITHIA" , if their teens i guess ''The Kings of Summer'' , but you should contact that friend who told you about this movie , cause even if i say more suggestions , you never saw that movie , so how will u know ?


I'm fat, and I really need to lose until I'm about 104. How can I do that? Like give me as much tips that you have! Thank you! (link)
Very simple if you wanna lose weight quickly ,not only will you have a diet but also exercising , just exercise 3-4 times a week and eat fruits,vegetables and drink plenty of water and avoid all types of junk food and sweets that contain plenty of fats.


I sent a few nudes to a guy I met online and he's sent me money in return for them and now he's blackmailing me saying if I don't send him something else then he'll post all my pics on the internet.. Is there anything I can do to stop him? Can the police do anything? (link)
Look , first of all , you cant trust anyone especially online.According to my knowledge , i advice you to contact someone who could track down his IP address.Once its with you , call the police , the IT department in the police are the ones who will deal with it. Thats all what you can do.


OK, my life sucks. My mother hates me and is doing drugs, my dad keeps molesting me and I can't feel emotions or make friends. Now how the fuck do I commit suicide. (link)
I know that you really hate your current situation , but killing yourself isn't gonna solve a damn thing , its only gonna delete all your hopes,dreams,memories, and everything good that is or might occur ,i know your under pressure and that your mind is faded by your parents , that's why ill give you two suggestions. .If your 18+ , ONE: i suggest you move out , go anywhere else and get a job and start your own pure life , and you'll forget eventually about your past. I'm sure you'll be in a good mood when your away from them , and since your in a good mood , you'll make new friends.TWO: i suggest you call the police and tell them everything , but before you do that , you gotta have proof to make it more reasonable and convincing, maybe you could record the evidences of your parents and then make the call, so when your parents deny and say that your lying , you show up the proof(Pictures,videos..etc) and you gotta seem so serious so they can believe you.
Just choose either , and don't suicide its so useless , trust me , it only indicates that your weak.

My email - let my know if you need any help.
Ahmedscater2@hotmail.com


Here's a picture of me: http://i.imgur.com/e2uF7w6.jpg

I have a stupid haircut and i don't look good.

I have no idea what hairstyle would look good for me, but could someone tell me what hairstyle would look best with my face? Every time I've asked this, people have just made fun for how I look; I know I'm ugly, but I just want legitimate advice as to what would look good for me. (link)
Come on man ,you look fine.Your current hairstyle is exactly appropriate for your face. Don't let anyone lay his/her stupid and meaningless judgments on you , nobody is perfect you know.You cant and you wont satisfy all people , who knows maybe if you change your hairstyle , other people may deny it.Be original , people these days suck ass.

email: Ahmedscater2@hotmail.com
just let me know if you need any other help.


I've been in a relationship with a girl from overseas for almost two years. I'm a 26 y/o guy, and she's 24. She came with me here about a year and a half ago. I treat her well, romance her, buy her roses, bake her cakes, take her out when I have time, tell her that she's beautiful, help her look for work, and a lot with English.
Last year she started acting funny and talking about a guy, and I found out she cheated on me by looking at her phone, and reading her emails (Not saying this was right, just that I did it). I confronted her, but I never really felt she thought what she did was wrong. I promised not to look at her stuff again.

For the half year since then she's been using her phone a ton, and hiding it from me. Lately she has been getting calls and messages from the guy she cheated with on me again, so often that even though she doesn't want me to know, it's inevitable that I would see at some point. She gets pissed off over trivial things, she's stuck to her phone 24/7, we hardly ever have sex anymore, and sometimes I don't feel like she even wants to be here.
So I gave her time, and everything just felt kind of wrong. I broke my promise and checked up on her. She's still cheating on me, and things never really stopped. She tells me she's faithful, nothing has happened, and she loves me, but I know she's lying.

Recently she got offered her dream job in my country, and the contract process is happening fairly quickly. She's staying here on a Partner visa with me, and we live together. If I break up with her, she either has to leave within a month, or become illegal. Apart from that, it will obviously make my life more hellish for that month than it already is living with a person who you know is lying to you with a straight face, while making out with another guy. I know that she is planning to stay with me for the two years it will take for her to gain permanent residence, and then leave me for the guy she is cheating on me with.

In my country, you can only ever sponsor two people to be partners, and if your first partner is granted PR, the length your second one has to wait grows to 5 years, rather than just 2.

I don't know how to handle breaking up with her, and what to say to who, when. I don't want to be taken advantage of, or have my name smeared by this. Breaking up with her before she gets PR will pretty much destroy her whole life as she knows it. She quit her job to come here with me, which is kind of a black spot on her employment history in her home country. I feel angry and upset about what she has done to our relationship, but I'm still battling feelings of love for her, and I don't want to see her broken. I wish everything I know about what's happened could be a lie, but I know it's not, so I have to deal with it.

To complicate things, accepting the job involves costly medical and security checks for her, and may mean we consider moving. I'm at university, and I only just found this out, right before the exam period. I really don't want to think about this before exams, and I definitely don't want to break up with her just before my first exam, so I am putting it off, but I feel so guilty for "supporting" her through the process of getting checks and references for this job that I know will be difficult if not impossible for her to keep.

What would you do?

What should I tell her? The truth? Or that I've fallen out of love, but don't know why? Or that one of her friends told me the truth?

How do I deal with the stress of living together with this oblivious lying girl who tells me she loves me?

What should I do to handle the resistance that I'm likely to have to breaking up with her? She won't want to break up with me, because she wants PR.

Can you tell me some steps and the order in which I might do them?

Any other general advice about the situation that I haven't asked a specific question about is more than welcome.

Thanks in advance.

-Troubled (link)
First of all , i think she is not the right girl for you for several reasons. ONE - because she cheated on you several times and cheating is the worst thing you can do in a relationship.TWO - Despite all of your care,love and concerns you gave her , she still cheats on you , and i think shes just taking full advantage from you ,because she says that she ''loves you'' while she doesn't,her only goal is to stay with you as you describe and if you break up with her , which i think is the best action to take,she will be expelled from your country.I think you should choose ,the girl you'll spend the rest of your life with, more wisely.If you give her , you should get from her.Confront her without hesitation , and break up with her and if she asks ''why'' you know what to say;)
My email - Ahmedscater2@hotmail.com


I am a girl,age 23. my father has died in 2009, my mom is alive but she never take care of me. i live with my elder sister,she has 3 kids. she always quarreled with me. if i don't do any household work, she got angry with me. i have boyfriend,who never let me cry,he love me so much.i didn't meet with him for last 3month because my sister never allowed me to meet with him. i stay my room whole day lonely.nobody of my family call me or ask me anything. my study is also hampering day by day. for my condition my boy friend also feeling very bad for me and his study also destroying day by day.i cant tolerate this anymore.it is seem to me that my death is the nice solution for all.my family will get rid of me and my boyfriend will get a better life.i have no way to live.what should i do beyond this?
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First of all , your old enough to take care of yourself , nobody should tell you what to do and what not to do.Confront your mother of her lack of care and concern for you.You should be with your boyfriend more often , and don't let anyone interfere ! , this is your life.You know what i think you should do , move from your current house , which has your elder sister who quarrels you , as you describe, and be with your boyfriend , your life will get a lot better since you guys love each other , your study will be back to normal.One more thing , don't suicide ! , its the worst thing ever, everyone in his/her life has ups and downs , bright and dark days.If you do that then its just phenomenal proof that your weak and you proved to everyone that you are.
my email if you need anything - TeenSpirit197@yahoo.com


Someone is blackmailing on kik. I sent him nude photo of mine, he want me to send again if I will not he said that he will post it online website wherein all country can see it. I dont know what to do. He said that he will spread it and all my friends can see it. Im afraid Im fron Hungary. Need help (link)
First of all , you cant send anyone a picture of yourself , especially if your nude , that you don't know.The only thing you can do is contact KIK and tell them on what happened so they can like block his account , who knows maybe he didn't get a chance to save the picture.


Hi, first I'd like to give a brief history about me before I tell you my story. I'm 17/F. I have 2 older brothers and one younger. I have four older sisters. My parents and my family are not allowing me to date guys until I'm done with school.

My story is... I met a guy who was one of my brothers friend and we became friends for about a year and we fell in love and we have been dating for almost 2 years now. I love our relationship, we tell each other's everything and we are like bestfriends. I feel like I've found the one and I love him very much. Our relationship although has been kind of private. Only a few know about it like his mother and my younger brother. Because his family and my family have been friends, he's always telling me to tell my family about it so it's not private but I'm always scared because they would get mad at me and start drama. Recently I told one of my older sister and she was okay with it at first but then later wasn't very supportive and told me I should break up with him (because of his history) (he was a bit of a player) but I believe he changed. I told him everything and broke up with him but we are so in love with each other's that we can't let go of each other's. We still talk to each other's like we are still in a relationship and I have no clue what I should do.
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First of all , your old and wise enough to get into relationships , your parents shouldn\'t limit your freedom at any degree.You guys love each other , why break up ? , just because to satisfy others.Your the one who controls your life , not others.I think you should be together and when you finish high school , you tell everyone about your relationship.Good Luck :)


my heart has been doing weird stuff so i was looking what can be wrong with the heart and it said "coronary artery disease" but i don't know what that means. can some one please explain so a 16 year old can understand? (link)
I think you should contact a cardiac doctor before you put any assumptions.


My boyfriend keeps touching me all the time and its whenever his ex is around. I feel like he is trying to make her jealous and he doesn't really like me. He keeps asking for me to send naked pictures of myself to him and he's also been asking for blow-jobs and I've never given a blow-job to anyone . I'm really scared he's just using me what should I do.
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I think you should confront him with it , tell him that you don\'t like what he\'s doing or requesting.If he insists on what he wants , then you should break up with him and look for a better and more decent guy , Because the issue is obvious , he touches you with his ex on sight , but when shes not around he never does it.Try to choose wisely who you give your heart too before things get more complicated.
My email - Ahmedscater2@hotmail.com


I'm a 14 year old girl in 9th grade, whenever I like a boy or if I don't know them well I get really nervous, my hands just shake and I can't control it and I stutter when I talk to him! I've found it's with every boy I like and not just ones that are shy too. It's always really awkward, even on FaceTime or Skype and I just can't think of things to say!
Someone please help me! (link)
There is really no reason to be nervous or scared.Just try to calm down and pretend that your just talking with your friend.good luck


I've been talking to a guy for about two months now. He has asked me to hang out 4 times and all four times he has not been able to go. We went to a game together 6 days ago. He had his arm around me and we had a great time. The day before we had made plans to hang out this weekend as well. He didn't call or text me to confirm anything official. The last time we talked is when I texted him and he quickly said he had to go. Ever since the game he has acted differently. Someone told him I liked him and now it's like he has been ignoring me. Should I give up? Maybe I got the wrong idea thinking he liked me or maybe I'm over reacting. What do you think? I don't want to be the first to contact him again because I don't want it to be like before where he said he had to go. (link)
Look , find someone that loves and respects you .


I've been feeling so down and so lonely for a while. I'm not the kind of girl that likes to express my feelings with people only cause I really don't want to worry them. I'd rather keep everything to myself. I don't think it's working cause it only makes me
feel more and more down each day. at first I started off with feel down, then i started to stay up late thinking, now I just wanna cry at random times of the day but I hold everything in cause I don't want to worry anyone and I cry myself to sleep a lot of the times. it's only gotten worse. I honestly think I should talk to someone but I just can't /.\ whenever I'm around people I always act like I'm alright but when I'm by myself I just cry a little , any advice would be great ? thanks /.\ (link)
Try to make close friends , and just find a way to entertain yourself like go out with your friends. In fact this is somehow normal i personally feel lonely sometimes even though i have many friends , so cheer up and enjoy life.


I have an iPhone and my dad gave it to me do he could get the new iPhone but the button is broken and I don't know Wat to do and I really don't want to have my dad pay a lot of money so if there is a place I can get it fixed for a cheap price. Thanks!!!! (link)
look dude , you can fix it by yourself , just watch a video on your iphone button issue , this video list would be beneficial to you - http://www.youtube.com/results?search_query=how+to+fix+iphone+button

just choose one of the videos that has your issue .


Hi
I am thinking about to kill myself.
My life is not going well.I fill hopeless and everyone hates me.
I am totally dumn and arrogant person and I am s fsilure in USA. (link)
Cheer up dude , try to improve every thing that you dont like , what i mean is try to gain knowledge and make new friends that are similar to your type ; and think more about the bright sides of life .




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