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How to commit suicide


Question Posted Tuesday August 26 2014, 2:15 pm

OK, my life sucks. My mother hates me and is doing drugs, my dad keeps molesting me and I can't feel emotions or make friends. Now how the fuck do I commit suicide.

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Sliceofadvice answered Saturday September 6 2014, 10:00 pm:
I'm sorry this is so late! SUICIDE IS NOT THE ANSWER. You are worth so much and although it may not seem it, things will get better! How you are being treated is not fair and not right- you are worth more than all of this I promise. Talk to someone, anyone! The police, school, GP, a friend, a family member. Someone is there to help you! There are so many advice lines like child line that will help you. Please do not give in and let them get you down. Killing yourself is not the answer ever. You are strong and you can get through this just please get people involved!xx

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kiara123451 answered Friday September 5 2014, 2:22 pm:
I know a lot of people more than likely answered this trying to persuade you out of suicide, and I could go on and on and on about how life is worth living.
But as a trouble teen myself I know for a fact that when people tell you life's worth living, its not very often your gonna believe them ''its going to get better'' all sounds like bullshit.
But in your case I feel like you should take a different route, I suggest you contact social services, I know this may be hard but I strongly advise you to contact the social services because I feel if you don't have the abuse from your parents you would feel a lot happier.
I do think you should consider your suicide option for some time, because I may remove your sadness, but it wont help anything and it will certainly make a lot of people around you sad. Your suicide may even cause someone else to commit suicide to, people don't understand how important something is until its gone.
Hope I helped </3 good luck :)

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123pinkgurl answered Tuesday September 2 2014, 10:24 pm:
Don't do it . . If you need someone to talk to you can talk to a school counsler or a trusyed adult about your problems at home abd the problems that your having will come to a stopand tbe mmolestation needs to be brought to an adults attention. Now It has to stop. Whatever you do please don't commit suicide

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Sensaura answered Tuesday September 2 2014, 6:56 pm:
Nothing will even have the chance of getting better if you commit suicide.

By committing suicide you're cheating yourself out of a future withOUT being molested and hated; a future withOUT having to rely on protection from someone who is on drugs.

By committing suicide --- you lose, and they win.

Don't let them win. Go to the child protective agency. Go to the police department. Go to the courthouse. Go to your teacher, your principal, your counselor. Go to someone and get help. YOU have done nothing wrong - yet (I hope) - if you kill yourself, then you've done something wrong.

If you are ashamed or afraid - how can it be worse than dying? Everyone will know if you kill yourself, and no one will be able to help. At least if you go to someone now, you won't be dead.

Right now there is a very GOOD chance that your life WILL get better. If you kill yourself, you are throwing away that chance.

Plus, the ones abusing will most likely just find someone else to abuse. If you come forward, they may be charged and those charges may save the next child they decide to abuse.

You have a responsibility to yourself and to the world to stay alive and come forward. Make them take responsibility for THEIR actions. Don't let them win.

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Jasmine23 answered Monday September 1 2014, 11:38 pm:
Suicide is defintly not the answer.

I strongly recommend talking to the childrens help line, they are anonymous and will help you!

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SilentOne answered Monday September 1 2014, 6:47 am:
I'm sorry to hear that you can't feel happy in your life. Please think about why carefully. From my point of view, the problem with your life is not you, or that you are living; the problem is the situation that you are in.
I know that the people around you don't make you feel special, and it's difficult for you to feel self-value, but you are important. You are important enough for me to care enough to write this in response to you, and above what I say, you are important to yourself. If you weren't important to yourself, you would have posted this question.

So now, I'm going to answer the question I think you should be asking: How can I end the bad parts of my life, without committing suicide?

Find out what organisations are available to support you. Without knowing what country you're in, I can't do it for you, but I know they exist everywhere. They usually have names like "Save the children", and "Lifeline".

Call them from a public phone, or find out where to go so that they can help you. They can organise places for you to stay, and counseling to help you understand your value, and try to heal some of the damage that your parents have been doing to you.

Don't tell your parents you will be doing it in advance. Don't leave them a note telling them what you are doing. Let the organisation help you figure out what to do when you contact them.

Good luck, and don't give up
-Silentone

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Kristi answered Sunday August 31 2014, 10:26 pm:
Your life isn't the only I would say fuck the world. And be the best you can be chances are you won't die so you might as well make the best of this rotten world

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Hardcore-Band-Geek answered Saturday August 30 2014, 2:22 pm:
I can't legally tell you how to kill yourself Ending your life is not the answer. What you need to do is get help.
Call CPS (Child Protective Services) and tell them what is going on. If you can't, call the police.
You need to get out of that environment.
Please hold in there and get help!!
You can eve confide in your school counselor or another adult you trust
- Hardcore-Band-Geek

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VenusC answered Friday August 29 2014, 5:09 pm:
Wrong question. First of all from what I can tell you're young and you've got your whole life ahead of you. Why end that because you've got sucky parents *no offense*? You think suicide is the answer but I can tell you that at the last minute you're going to regret it but you'll be in so deep it will be hard to go back. I can't say I understand what you're going through but I do know that with every problem there's a solution. And the answer to this one is NOT suicide. You must be really strong if you've managed to endure so far so channel that strength and use it to fight for your life and do whatever it takes to make a better life for yourself cause you deserve it. Nobody is going to give it to you you have to get it yourself. So get your mind away from suicidal thoughts its not going to help. I don't know if what I've said has helped in any way but if you ever need someone to talk to you can send me an email at aimuaenadeghe@gmail.com I will be glad to help in anyway I can

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Ahmed16 answered Thursday August 28 2014, 6:13 pm:
I know that you really hate your current situation , but killing yourself isn't gonna solve a damn thing , its only gonna delete all your hopes,dreams,memories, and everything good that is or might occur ,i know your under pressure and that your mind is faded by your parents , that's why ill give you two suggestions. .If your 18+ , ONE: i suggest you move out , go anywhere else and get a job and start your own pure life , and you'll forget eventually about your past. I'm sure you'll be in a good mood when your away from them , and since your in a good mood , you'll make new friends.TWO: i suggest you call the police and tell them everything , but before you do that , you gotta have proof to make it more reasonable and convincing, maybe you could record the evidences of your parents and then make the call, so when your parents deny and say that your lying , you show up the proof(Pictures,videos..etc) and you gotta seem so serious so they can believe you.
Just choose either , and don't suicide its so useless , trust me , it only indicates that your weak.

My email - let my know if you need any help.
Ahmedscater2@hotmail.com

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blwinteler answered Thursday August 28 2014, 4:39 pm:
Call 8002738255. They have some good advice for this.

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Carriebeca answered Thursday August 28 2014, 4:24 pm:
Only you can start the ball rolling and change your life for the better. You don't say how old you are, I'd guess early teens. Talk to someone about what your father is doing to you. If possible, keep a diary of what happens, it'll help you remember dates and times and will prove useful if the police get involved. By sorting your life out, getting help to turn it around, it may help your parents to see what's going on and they might change their lives too.
Talk to someone you trust, a teacher, doctor, nurse, a family friend, a social worker, whoever you trust to take this massive issue on and see it through to the end.
You want to commit suicide because your parents have lost their way and so your life is crap.
It will be long harf struggle to sort this muddle out, only you can start it off, no-one else knows what's happened, just you.
Good luck, a new and better world waits on the other side of the wall you have to climb, it'll be worth it.
Best wishes X

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missundersmock answered Thursday August 28 2014, 3:48 pm:
well committing suicide isnt gonna solve anything. what you need to do is tell someone. tell another family member you can trust because itll be good to have them in your corner and on your side.

it sounds like your in a bad position and just need to get away from them both. talk to other family members about living with them or family friends that you know would most likely take you in if you were to need somewhere to go. then call the police or have a family member do it, file a report, and they'll take care of the rest. you didnt give me enough info here to help you enough so thats the best i can do. but you need to get away from them both ASAP.

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glasses answered Thursday August 28 2014, 1:17 pm:
Hi there! Uh...yeah. I'm not telling you how to commit suicide. Did you see my last note to that guy who wanted to commit suicide? The one about the door? Well, look. Life sucks now, but there are so many more options than ending your life now. Don't do it please. Just wait and see what door might open for you. I hoped this helped. Just ask me anything else you need on my advice column. I'm here for you.

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GiddyGeezer answered Thursday August 28 2014, 10:54 am:
If your dad is molesting you, go to a school counselor or any adult that you trust and ask them to help you report it. I know this is your father but he is committing a crime, He needs to be stopped and he needs help. Maybe you could go live with a family member for a while until your mom gets her life together. If not a foster home would be a lot better than the situation you are in. Some young people have gone into foster care and formed loving, life long relationships with the foster parents. You are in a state of depression right now(which is understandable)and that is why you are thinking about suicide. You must go to someone immediately who can get you some help. If nothing else, just walk into the police station and tell them your story. Ask if you can talk to a female officer.She will help you, I promise. You can have a bright beautiful future. This does not have to be your reality any more. Once you are out of this home situation life will get better. Don't let fear of the unknown keep you in this place until you feel death is the only way out!Please take action on this today, do not wait, okay? This will all work out and your life will be so much better. You can trust me on this because I once felt the way you do today and I am so glad I am still here to give you this advice!

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sizzlinmandolin answered Wednesday August 27 2014, 5:52 pm:
Don't kill yourself! It's a permanent "solution" to temporary problems. There are so many other things that you need to try before considering suicide. I say that you "need" to try them because if you make a decision too quickly without considering all other options and trying a bunch of other things first, you could be denying yourself an amazing life in the distant, or perhaps very near future. You may feel like you've tried everything already. You've tried what you know and it seems like you don't have the answers. You're not an expert on life though. Someone else could have the strategy or information that you need in order to get a good life for yourself. If you've given up on your current situation, trying something else couldn't hurt. Go to this website: [Link](Mouse over link to see full location). It has a number you can call or you can even chat with someone online if that would be more comfortable for you. Definitely do this! What have you got to lose? Good luck.

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adviceman49 answered Wednesday August 27 2014, 11:53 am:
The answer is not suicide, the answer is to get help. There is help and it is as close as you phone or a trusted teacher at school or the school principal.

The biggest and worst problem is your father molesting you. That stops now, today. You either talk with a trusted teacher or the school principal and tell them what your father is doing to you. I understand it will be embarrassing. Understand you need to do this if you want the molestation to stop.

Sure killing yourself will stop the molestation who suffers buy you doing so? Not the person molesting you; not the person who is breaking the law. Why should you make the ultimate sacrifice when you have already suffered enough? The law is on your side, let your dad suffer for once in his life. Whatever threats he may have made are just that threats which the police will protect you from.

Please either pick up a phone and dial 9111, go to the closest police or fire station and ask for protection as these are safe havens for women and children or talk to a teacher or your school principal.

You deserve a better life than what you have and you will get one if you do as I say. Once you have reported the most serious problem Children' Services will have to evaluate your mother as a proper provider for your well being. As a drug addict she can not be one. Children's services will then look to other relatives to take you in. Your grandparents if living would be the first people they would turn to

I would also like you to call a group called RAINN. RAINN stands for Rape, Abuse, Incest National Network. Their number is -800-656-Hope.

Please do as I ask; there is no reason for you to suffer any longer or make the ultimate sacrifice. You are the victim here and you have resources with which to fight back. Lets use these resources to make them feel the pain you have been feeling.

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