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E-mail: kiaramoody@hotmail.co.uk
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Member Since: January 25, 2013
Answers: 23
Last Update: June 2, 2015
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My friends did the challenge but we didn't know we had to say charlie charlie can we stop? before we could stop playing! Are we all going to be haunted until we die or just the person who first asked to summon the demon?
SCARED PLEASE HELP! (link)
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The Charlie Charlie challenge is not real.
It is completely fake.
It has always been fake.
That is all.
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hey,i am a virgin who was recently fingered, itsy first time being fingered. However, my lower stomach really hurts. i have been in pain for approximately seven hours now. Is it normal to have these pains!? (link)
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You might of been a bit too rough, especially if you have never done something like that before. Either that, or you began your period at the wrong time.
It is most likely that, being inexperienced, you didn't prepare proberly before actually getting fingered. It is perfectly normal.
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My husband and I's one year anniversary is coming up in a few months, and so is a very close friend's wedding, her wedding date: our one year anniversary. I'm at a loss of what to do. My husband wouldn't be able to come with me to her wedding, and my friend would be extremely hurt if I didn't go. What makes the situation awkward is I knew when picking my wedding date that my friend would be getting married that same day. I had no choice however (my husband is military). I reassured and promised her since she got engaged that I would be there at her wedding. In fact, as soon as I got the wedding invite, I texted her and let her know I would be there and how excited I was. My husband always knew I'd be going, but I guess it just clicked for him I'd be missing or first anniversary. He's very upset, anniversaries are very important to him. I tried reasoning with him that we could celebrate another day, but he's not having it. What do I do? I will always pick my husband over anything, but shouldn't he be more understanding? Should I be present for the most important day of my close friend's life and hurt my husband? Or be there with my husband for our one year anniversary and risk losing my friend? (And I have very few true good friends) (link)
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I see how this is a tricky situation for you but as you said, its the most important day of ur friends life! So I suggest this; go to the wedding for a few hours then spend the evening with ur husband, go for a dinner meal for example. But it would be unfair to not go to the wedding.
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I daydream a lot and I did a little research and I am not sure if it is a maladaptive daydreaming. I think it becoming a problem because I don't like pain. However, when I have a painful experience I create a scenario in my head. The scenario is even more painful but I am in control of what happens. During these daydream I get emotional because they are very painful experience but it worse than the pain I am going through. It my way to escape and process my emotion. I can cry without dealing with my actually emotionally pain. (link)
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This could actually be a sign of slight depression or; as you said, ''maladaptive daydreaming.''
I suggest you try and go to a therapist or a doctor and ask them about it since they are more likely to be able to give you a clear over view of whats happening.
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'fingering girl, may have precum on finger, but girl took ipill after the incident....will she be pregnant? (link)
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No, 100% no
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I feel scared to ask my parents for a snapchat facebook Kris even an instagram because of how over protective they are what should I do (link)
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My parents are liked that. I just got one anyway XD
I have snapchat facebook and instagram. And my parents have noooo clue :P
They don't really need to know you have them do they?
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I sent a few nudes to a guy I met online and he's sent me money in return for them and now he's blackmailing me saying if I don't send him something else then he'll post all my pics on the internet.. Is there anything I can do to stop him? Can the police do anything? (link)
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To be honest their isn't much you can do in this situation, you could try and contact the police but it may not work, simply because you sold your nudes online for money, that can be consider prostitution and whether he is blackmailing you or not, the police have full right to arrest you as well as him because you did sell your nudes, whether hes a stranger or not.
I suggest you just try to not talk to him for a while, or try to persuade him to not put the nudes online, if that doesn't work, then theirs sadly not much more you can do.
Sorry :/
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OK, my life sucks. My mother hates me and is doing drugs, my dad keeps molesting me and I can't feel emotions or make friends. Now how the fuck do I commit suicide. (link)
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I know a lot of people more than likely answered this trying to persuade you out of suicide, and I could go on and on and on about how life is worth living.
But as a trouble teen myself I know for a fact that when people tell you life's worth living, its not very often your gonna believe them ''its going to get better'' all sounds like bullshit.
But in your case I feel like you should take a different route, I suggest you contact social services, I know this may be hard but I strongly advise you to contact the social services because I feel if you don't have the abuse from your parents you would feel a lot happier.
I do think you should consider your suicide option for some time, because I may remove your sadness, but it wont help anything and it will certainly make a lot of people around you sad. Your suicide may even cause someone else to commit suicide to, people don't understand how important something is until its gone.
Hope I helped
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Once I have anal sex and it didn't slipper to my vagina, am I still a virgin? (Stressed) (link)
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You have lost your anal virginity but still you still have your vaginal virginity.
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I've been in a relationship with a girl from overseas for almost two years. I'm a 26 y/o guy, and she's 24. She came with me here about a year and a half ago. I treat her well, romance her, buy her roses, bake her cakes, take her out when I have time, tell her that she's beautiful, help her look for work, and a lot with English.
Last year she started acting funny and talking about a guy, and I found out she cheated on me by looking at her phone, and reading her emails (Not saying this was right, just that I did it). I confronted her, but I never really felt she thought what she did was wrong. I promised not to look at her stuff again.
For the half year since then she's been using her phone a ton, and hiding it from me. Lately she has been getting calls and messages from the guy she cheated with on me again, so often that even though she doesn't want me to know, it's inevitable that I would see at some point. She gets pissed off over trivial things, she's stuck to her phone 24/7, we hardly ever have sex anymore, and sometimes I don't feel like she even wants to be here.
So I gave her time, and everything just felt kind of wrong. I broke my promise and checked up on her. She's still cheating on me, and things never really stopped. She tells me she's faithful, nothing has happened, and she loves me, but I know she's lying.
Recently she got offered her dream job in my country, and the contract process is happening fairly quickly. She's staying here on a Partner visa with me, and we live together. If I break up with her, she either has to leave within a month, or become illegal. Apart from that, it will obviously make my life more hellish for that month than it already is living with a person who you know is lying to you with a straight face, while making out with another guy. I know that she is planning to stay with me for the two years it will take for her to gain permanent residence, and then leave me for the guy she is cheating on me with.
In my country, you can only ever sponsor two people to be partners, and if your first partner is granted PR, the length your second one has to wait grows to 5 years, rather than just 2.
I don't know how to handle breaking up with her, and what to say to who, when. I don't want to be taken advantage of, or have my name smeared by this. Breaking up with her before she gets PR will pretty much destroy her whole life as she knows it. She quit her job to come here with me, which is kind of a black spot on her employment history in her home country. I feel angry and upset about what she has done to our relationship, but I'm still battling feelings of love for her, and I don't want to see her broken. I wish everything I know about what's happened could be a lie, but I know it's not, so I have to deal with it.
To complicate things, accepting the job involves costly medical and security checks for her, and may mean we consider moving. I'm at university, and I only just found this out, right before the exam period. I really don't want to think about this before exams, and I definitely don't want to break up with her just before my first exam, so I am putting it off, but I feel so guilty for "supporting" her through the process of getting checks and references for this job that I know will be difficult if not impossible for her to keep.
What would you do?
What should I tell her? The truth? Or that I've fallen out of love, but don't know why? Or that one of her friends told me the truth?
How do I deal with the stress of living together with this oblivious lying girl who tells me she loves me?
What should I do to handle the resistance that I'm likely to have to breaking up with her? She won't want to break up with me, because she wants PR.
Can you tell me some steps and the order in which I might do them?
Any other general advice about the situation that I haven't asked a specific question about is more than welcome.
Thanks in advance.
-Troubled (link)
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Theirs only one thing I will tell you here and I know that you know that its the right choice. You just don't want to believe it.
Be honest.
Tell her that you know, tell her shes a cheat and tell her your feelings for her are gone. Whether it wrecks her life or not, shes wrecked your life and she doesn't deserve everything that you have done for her. Get her out of your life and find someone better. She will make it just fine I can assure you, no offence what so ever, but she would most likely just go for this other guy, so for her she doesn't loose much and to be honest, I don't think you do ether.
Im pretty sure you could get so much better, so I wish you luck and I hope you do the right thing.
Best wishes.
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Someone is blackmailing on kik. I sent him nude photo of mine, he want me to send again if I will not he said that he will post it online website wherein all country can see it. I dont know what to do. He said that he will spread it and all my friends can see it. Im afraid Im fron Hungary. Need help (link)
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Well it depends. If you know this person then you need to try and convince them not to and/or block and report them.
If you don't know this person then they cant really do no harm can they? They don't know your life all friends so its fine.
Also their isn't an online website where all the country can see.
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i am 13 and my boyfriend is 19. he wants to have sex with me ? what should i do ? (link)
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I think you aren\'t ready, hes way to old for you and you shouldn\'t do it at your age, trust me you would forget it, I am around the same age as you and I know its the wrong choice but if you really want to do it you can go and do it as long as you use protection. I suggest you don\'t, but its completely your choice, if your ready or you want to, then go ahead, just be aware of the after effects, the chance of getting pregnant, and the fact since hes 19, its gonna hurt a lot, it wont be too pleasureable.
But if ur ready for all that, its ur choice, use protection though, good luck
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i am 15 years old and i have a bf we have been together for 9 month and some days we havent been seeing each for a while but it seem like the less were together the futher were moving apart what should i do (link)
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No offence love, but you are only 15 you have your whole life ahead of you, you don't need to waste it with boyfriends yet. But the answer to your request is simple, why don't you just send him a message and talk to him. Ask to meet up, all you have to do is send the first message, its simple really.
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So my boyfriend & I recently discovered we both had chlyamdia. I got it cured. But my boyfriend on the other hand, hasn't yet. He went but they sent him somewhere else, anyways we were messing around we been using condoms since we found out but I was messing around & I was teasing him & didn't think anything of it but I just licked the top of his dick (the head) & just remembered you can get chlymadia through oral. I didn't think about it, but it was literally just a lick. Not a suck or anything. One lick! Lol he didn't cum or anything. Is there a chance I have a chlymadia? Please answer asap! (link)
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I have no medical experience to be honest. But I don't think you do, its not likely that you do have it but its best to go to the doctors and have it checked out just in case. But im not sure at all. Sorry
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So my ex and I only dated a few days. He was too clingy and I didn't feel anything, so we ended it almost 2 weeks ago. Well I decided to change my number because he had it and I didn't want him texting me. Well today (Which is Tuesday), I logged in onto my old account to get one of my friend's numbers and I saw that he left me a voicemail that was sent on Thursday. It was just something random but like still, I don't really want to be in contact with him really. And earlier today, he asked me why I haven't talked to him recently and I just said "Well we're done"... And he said something like "I think you're lieing and that you cheated" and then I kinda just walked away. If he talks to me again, should I just tell him to like leave me alone? It might sound rude but honestly he's not getting the message that I don't want to talk to him. Advice please ASAP thank you :) (link)
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By the sound of things he really hasn't bugged you that much really. He contacted you twice its honestly not that much he could be a lot worse. But if you really want him to leave you alone completely just ignore him. If he tries to talk to you, no matter what he says or does. Just completely ignore him and then the message will get through and he'll leave you alone. Hope I helped.
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If a doctor checks if a girl is a virgin can he tell if she has had anal sex or will he only see vaginal sex? (link)
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Im not an medical expert at all. I have no idea about these kind of things. I really cant help you but...
Im pretty sure that he only checks vaginal sex and does not check for anal. But im not 100% sure so I suggest you ask someone with better medical experience for this information.
Sorry I couldn't help further.
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so before christmas i started talking to this guy, he is a friend of a friend (you know how it is) and we hit it off really well, were always on the phone to wach other, and he first said he loved me after like 3 weeks...
id just started my job when we first got to talking, its shift work, so not ideal, but he was working nights across the country aswell, so it made it hard to communicate. i would be doinng a day shift, finishing at 5, then he would start his shift at 7, well,the weekend came around and he was supposed to see me, but i wasnt very well. i told him that i felt deathly and would be at home in bed all weekend, and he accepted this.he text me once or twice on the saturday, but i was asleep so obv didnt reply... but then monday arrives and im back at work. he texts me saying that he doesnt want to start a relationship with someone that doesnt talk to him.. and that he never wants to speak to me again. i just replied simply "you will regret this, i am the best thing that could ever happen to you"
here we are 3 months later, and he was begging our mutual friend for my number. i asked him why he wanted to talk to me again, he said that he really missed me, and i was right, i am the best thing.
well... our friend found out we were getting close again, and she said some horrible things about why he is back talking to me, saying he is just doing it to get at her, and he only wants sex from me.
i just dont know what to think., he seems genuine enough, but i can also see her side of things too. HELP!!! xx (link)
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Talk to him about it first explain why you didnt reply all those mouths ago and then tell him well everything you writ dont right here you can tell if he looks gulity or not
Personally i think you should give him a chance
Good luck :)
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listen, i like this girl at school and idk if she likes me back, what do i do 2 find out (link)
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Thanks for asking me it shows most of my advice has worked so far... anyway.
Its much easier to tell if a girl likes you than if a boy does for one they blush a lot and smile when your around (well most girls do) and laugh at any joke you make and seem to always wanna talk to you. If she's a confident girl then she might not do this sort a thing some girls just keep it hidden if you wanna find out then ask her out on a date they it will be very easy to see if she's interested but you have to actually say its a date or simply just tell her how you feel :)
i hope this helps if it fails come to me again and ill help you
Thanks :)
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okay some and my boyfriend just recently broke up because we realized we were really different. We do love each other and we already do miss each other.I have had a lot of time to think and i think that we cn make it work even though we are different. Can i make it work? (link)
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Its simple even with difference you can work it out i know this emo dude who is dating a girl y princess kind of girl and even though there the opposite of each other they still love each other for who they are you should make it work with this guy and it will go far just accept each others difference
wish you the best of luck :)
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Ok, 20/f and he is 22/m (lets call him, cutie)
I met this guy through a very close friend of mine. We agreed to take things slow and start out as friends.
Well, honestly, when we are around each other, we cuddle, peck kiss, hold hands, ect. We haven't done anything more than peck kiss though. We have known each other for about a month (which is why we are taking things slow). Well, the first couple of weeks, he would ignore me completely one day a week. He told me straight up that he is a busy person and that he works 7 days a week.
But when Im around him, his phone is ALWAYS in his hand? He told me that when I tell him or act like I'm getting attached to him, it pushes him away; so I stopped and he starting coming on to me a lot more stronger.
Well, Saturday night, I was hanging with him and our mutual friend and he admitted to me that he was falling for me, and if he was ever ready for a girlfriend, I'd be the first girl he'd get with. I was shocked.
Well, around midnight, he recieved a phone call from our mutual friend and told me and my cousin to leave because the police were about to be there. So we left. I was concerned and worried, and he finally called me at 1240 and told me that the police searched his apartment for weed or whatever. Something didn't feel right, I did't believe it. I called our mutual friend and he told me he didnt want to be the one to tell me becaus ehe felt like it was cutie's job to inform me. After a few minutes, the mutual friend told me. His ex girlfriend was about to come over, and told him that if I was there, she was going to whoop my 'ass'. Please note, that I'm not with drama. I'm 20 and this girl is 17! (that is why she is his ex; she lied about her age, and when he found out, he left her)
Well, cutie has NO idea that I know. I'm not mad, it's not really his fault, ya know? But since that phone call at 1240, I have NOT heard from him. It's not like him. HOw can he tell me he's falling for me, and than ignore me like that for 3 days? I tried texting him and calling him, and when I called- he picked up and said nothing. So i hung up an called him back and no answer.
I'm just confused? The mutual friend hasn't heard from him either? Any tips on what I can do?
Btw. Cutie left his hat in my car; and idk what I should do with it? He lives exactly 1 minute away from me. He told me a few days back that he was going to start leaving his hat in my car, so I have to come see him? hah. (link)
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Try to call/text him a few more times and in a day or two if he is still ignoring you go round his house and talk to him or leave it a little bit and text him asking him to meet you somewhere and see if he turns up it may be something to do with his ex girlfriend you don't know but maybe you should see him and find out
good luck :)
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