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opposites attract?
okay some and my boyfriend just recently broke up because we realized we were really different. We do love each other and we already do miss each other.I have had a lot of time to think and i think that we cn make it work even though we are different. Can i make it work?
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Its simple even with difference you can work it out i know this emo dude who is dating a girl y princess kind of girl and even though there the opposite of each other they still love each other for who they are you should make it work with this guy and it will go far just accept each others difference
wish you the best of luck :)
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Honestly, if you "love each other" and "miss each other", then the question has been answered for you.
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None of us know anything about you and your Ex's relationship, so we can't tell you anything about that.
But I can give some insight on if opposites attract. I personally am attracted to people who are opposite me; right now I am dating a 'skater' type boy, and I am definitely not that type. I think it depends on how opposite you are as well. I know I wouldn't be able to get along with someone who hated everything I liked, you need to have at least something in common.
If you still like your ex then tell him, there is no reason not to.
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Well only sometimes do 'opposites attract', though this usually means personality wise-quiet vs loud rather than interests wise.
Obviously it has to be a mutual desision to start off with. If you broke up because you're really different then may be thats how it should be. The reason why you feel this way now is because you miss him-absense makes the heart grow fonder.
But what do you do then if you get together again and you have the same problem?
I think you're mature to realise that you're different and break up, but honestly loads of people get back together again and then realise once again it was a mistake-they just let the emotions they felt at the time take over them.
Obviously I don't know you to and don't know the circumstances, so at the end of the day it's you're desision. I guess we meet the people we meet for a reason-and if you and him are prepared to put 100% in to make it work then it'll work-but then again sometimes its best to just be friends :)
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