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should i give him another chance?
so before christmas i started talking to this guy, he is a friend of a friend (you know how it is) and we hit it off really well, were always on the phone to wach other, and he first said he loved me after like 3 weeks...
id just started my job when we first got to talking, its shift work, so not ideal, but he was working nights across the country aswell, so it made it hard to communicate. i would be doinng a day shift, finishing at 5, then he would start his shift at 7, well,the weekend came around and he was supposed to see me, but i wasnt very well. i told him that i felt deathly and would be at home in bed all weekend, and he accepted this.he text me once or twice on the saturday, but i was asleep so obv didnt reply... but then monday arrives and im back at work. he texts me saying that he doesnt want to start a relationship with someone that doesnt talk to him.. and that he never wants to speak to me again. i just replied simply "you will regret this, i am the best thing that could ever happen to you"
here we are 3 months later, and he was begging our mutual friend for my number. i asked him why he wanted to talk to me again, he said that he really missed me, and i was right, i am the best thing.
well... our friend found out we were getting close again, and she said some horrible things about why he is back talking to me, saying he is just doing it to get at her, and he only wants sex from me.
i just dont know what to think., he seems genuine enough, but i can also see her side of things too. HELP!!! xx
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Talk to him about it first explain why you didnt reply all those mouths ago and then tell him well everything you writ dont right here you can tell if he looks gulity or not
Personally i think you should give him a chance
Good luck :)
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Sounds like a waste of time....for the both of you that is.
Long distant relationships are almost impossible to keep up with. This guy beat around the bush a little bit. He wants someone who is available and convient to him, likely meaning someone who is in distance. The reason he wabts to talk to you again is you are the only one that will take him back. This Guy has nobody else and knows he can crawl back to you.
I don't believe he is right you and I don't believe you are right for him.
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I think you should give him a chance, but go slowly.
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