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so before christmas i started talking to this guy, he is a friend of a friend (you know how it is) and we hit it off really well, were always on the phone to wach other, and he first said he loved me after like 3 weeks...
id just started my job when we first got to talking, its shift work, so not ideal, but he was working nights across the country aswell, so it made it hard to communicate. i would be doinng a day shift, finishing at 5, then he would start his shift at 7, well,the weekend came around and he was supposed to see me, but i wasnt very well. i told him that i felt deathly and would be at home in bed all weekend, and he accepted this.he text me once or twice on the saturday, but i was asleep so obv didnt reply... but then monday arrives and im back at work. he texts me saying that he doesnt want to start a relationship with someone that doesnt talk to him.. and that he never wants to speak to me again. i just replied simply "you will regret this, i am the best thing that could ever happen to you"
here we are 3 months later, and he was begging our mutual friend for my number. i asked him why he wanted to talk to me again, he said that he really missed me, and i was right, i am the best thing.
well... our friend found out we were getting close again, and she said some horrible things about why he is back talking to me, saying he is just doing it to get at her, and he only wants sex from me.
i just dont know what to think., he seems genuine enough, but i can also see her side of things too. HELP!!! xx (link)
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I think you should give him a chance, but go slowly.
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I known this guy since 6th grade. In 8th grade we got really close. He always made me laugh and everything.We would look at eachother and just laugh sometimes. We had soo many memories. He told me that he had feelings for me and I had feeling for him too.We talked all the time.We couldnt go together because I went with his friend before and he went with mine . I told him that I was moving away and I wasent going to go to the same highschool as him. We talked that last day of school. And after that we kinda lost touch and we didnt talk. I tried texting him and calling him but he wouldnt never reply or answer. I moved back and when I got back and I saw him at my highschool. Hw hugged me for so long and smiled for so long like he missed me . I told him i was mad at him because he hasent even tied talking to me. He said that he was mad at me for leaving cause he liked me . I put my books in his locker. And the fist few days he was so happy to see me . HE would hug me and say hey. Now I dont know if he still likes me beause he dosent hug me unless I ask him too. And he dosent talk to me much like he use to. He dosent say hey unless I say hey first. I am soooo confused. Does he like me or not?
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Ask the guy " Do you like me ? " or go to him and say ' tell me ' then kiss him. After, say tell me how that made you feel tommorow' and run away or slowly express your feelings. Example: look right into his eyes
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Ok, 20/f and he is 22/m (lets call him, cutie)
I met this guy through a very close friend of mine. We agreed to take things slow and start out as friends.
Well, honestly, when we are around each other, we cuddle, peck kiss, hold hands, ect. We haven't done anything more than peck kiss though. We have known each other for about a month (which is why we are taking things slow). Well, the first couple of weeks, he would ignore me completely one day a week. He told me straight up that he is a busy person and that he works 7 days a week.
But when Im around him, his phone is ALWAYS in his hand? He told me that when I tell him or act like I'm getting attached to him, it pushes him away; so I stopped and he starting coming on to me a lot more stronger.
Well, Saturday night, I was hanging with him and our mutual friend and he admitted to me that he was falling for me, and if he was ever ready for a girlfriend, I'd be the first girl he'd get with. I was shocked.
Well, around midnight, he recieved a phone call from our mutual friend and told me and my cousin to leave because the police were about to be there. So we left. I was concerned and worried, and he finally called me at 1240 and told me that the police searched his apartment for weed or whatever. Something didn't feel right, I did't believe it. I called our mutual friend and he told me he didnt want to be the one to tell me becaus ehe felt like it was cutie's job to inform me. After a few minutes, the mutual friend told me. His ex girlfriend was about to come over, and told him that if I was there, she was going to whoop my 'ass'. Please note, that I'm not with drama. I'm 20 and this girl is 17! (that is why she is his ex; she lied about her age, and when he found out, he left her)
Well, cutie has NO idea that I know. I'm not mad, it's not really his fault, ya know? But since that phone call at 1240, I have NOT heard from him. It's not like him. HOw can he tell me he's falling for me, and than ignore me like that for 3 days? I tried texting him and calling him, and when I called- he picked up and said nothing. So i hung up an called him back and no answer.
I'm just confused? The mutual friend hasn't heard from him either? Any tips on what I can do?
Btw. Cutie left his hat in my car; and idk what I should do with it? He lives exactly 1 minute away from me. He told me a few days back that he was going to start leaving his hat in my car, so I have to come see him? hah. (link)
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He may be cheating on you with his ex, or he's really busy. I suggest you go to his house to return the hat, but do not knock, sneak in to see if he is cheating. Or maybe to get more of his attention when you go to his house, kiss him with the tougue.
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My boyfriend and I have been together for about there years. I love him but I don't feel like im sexually attracted to him. We can be having sex and he can turn me on but then when I look at his face it turns me off. Like his face looks so ugly up close and the way he kisses me turns me off really bad sometimes. Idk what to do. I want to be with him. Is there any way this could change? He often accuses me of cheating and now I've started having thoughts of cheating.I have never cheated on anyone before. I just want to see if anyone has been through this and if there is hope.
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If you love him enough to stay with him, if he has things that you can change buy a product for him. Example: pimples you can use proactive. If not ( hate to ruin it ) break up.
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pretty much all my friends have boyfriends & i feel so alone & i wanna boyfriend. i've had things with guys but never actually had a boyfriend. what should i do?
my friend might sleepver friday & i wanna look for guys or somethin
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Melissa , you want a boyfriend right now , so do I. I can maybe solve your problem, play anime dating games. They aren't real people... , but it's a stimulation.
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Im 15, female single for around a year now and i just am an awkward person. all i want is a boyfriend, there are a couple of guys i think are hot and i would love to talk to them more but i just dont know how. one is in my spanish class and is my friends cousin and she told me she would talk to him, let him know about this partner dance them poms team im on is doing but i dont know if i should strike up a conversation in spanish class or what?! help please this is driving me nuts! (link)
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Hi. I know all girls want a boyfriend. I know exactly how you feel like , I do the same thing too. I ask myself "Should I talk to him.....?" My answer is yes! Act casual don't be nervous pretend your talking to a good friend of yours.
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