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Q: The other night I dreamt about me going out with this guy in one of my classes, and it was really great.
We don't talk unless its to do work and then we only talk about the work.And I wasn't thinking about him at all during the day before the dream.
But ever since I've had this dream I really like this guy-whereas I didn't before.
I don't normally believe in dream interpretation, but now I really do think that dreams mean somehting.
Just wondering if anyone knows what this could mean or knows any good dream interpretation sites?
you may call me crazy because a lot of people do but oh well. every one has dreams like that because every one has gipsy blood in them. i get them a lot but i also believe in my gift if you believe then give up on the believe it will be a really really long time to get your powers back but me in my family im called the gost site i see spirits and speak to them and i sense them if i cant see them and i get visions in my sleep its normal to to get visions i because i believe my powers are strong


( you can not believe me but please DON'T cal me crazy or be all hating)

love ya firend sweetgirl12free

Q: Okay, so me and my friends plus others fraught all last semester, and things have just been settled. I suggested a clique to ensure that we all get along and that our group is tighter and more united-we think there will be much less drama then. We're a group of four girls, and we have different styles. I need names like Flirtatologist or Glossy Posse or something like that. And please, don't tell me that cliques are overrated. I've seen Mean Girls and all the chic flicks, and really, that's what's going on at every school. Thanks!
free spirts
belongings( as in you belong)
understood ( as in you understand each other)



love ya friend
sweetgirl12free

Q: ok so me and Girl#1 have been best friends since 4th grade and we were fine till I me and girl#2 me and girl#2 got really close and I guess girl#1 got jealous or something so in 7th grade girl#1 started saying things about girl#2 like 'why do you like girl#2' girl#2 is so weird' why are you friends with girl#2' and much more then I said 'I don't care if girl#2 is weird she's my friend' then a couple of months later girl #1 stopped talking to me then my English teacher put me in a group which included two of my friends girl#1 and her friend so as I'm doing my work I see girl#1 writing stuff in a sticky note/ post-it and her friend said 'but I don't know who you're talking bout' then girl#1 wrote something down and her friend looked at me. so my question is why would she tell everybody our business but when someone comes up and ask me 'Why don't you talk to girl#1 anymore' I say 'we just drifted apart because we only have one class together' I didn't lie we really do only have one class together so why would she do that ??
maybe she feels like you like girl#2 more then her and its hurting her feelings and in stead of handling it shes causing more of a problem :/?

love ya friend
sweetgirl12free

Q: I'm afard to have my first period at school HELP!
What should I do ?
I will be inbrssed if I have it at school and it bleeds throo my pants HELP ME PLE.AS
take a pad with you whne you have the chance to go to bathroom look see if ya bleeding if you are put on the pad ask your parents for question ok


love ya friend
sweetgirl12free

Q: So I have posted on here so many questions about my so called "best friend" of 6 years. Well I haven't hung out with her since last week. And I really am getting tired of her. For those of you who i don't know, it's because she's rude, puts me down a lot, and tries to control everything I say and do. And when I try to stand up for myself she gets mad. And honestly I am sick of it, so I've decided to just stop talking to her, because anytime I try to tell her she does something that hurts me she doesn't seem to care, and gets defensive, and try to blame it on me, which is really immature. She'll always blow my phone with calls/text. And she still does, now that I am ignoring her. She'll keep texting me saying things like i miss you which i know isn't true because she only misses being able to control me. And today she texted me and was like I don't understand why you're ignoring me. I didn't say anything because like I said before she gets defensive, and never takes for responsibility for what she does. And whenever we get into a fight she'll act nice for a little while and then go back to her old ways. She has no respect for me and just shows up at my door whenever she comes home on the weekends without calling, even though I have to do homework. I let her in just to be nice. But my parents get mad at me because I get distracted. And i try telling her that I need to do my homework, and can't focus, but of course miss selfish says oh well i also have homework, we can just do it later. She doesn't seem to care much about school. My parents think she's soo great, other than the fact that she comes over uninvited, but they always defend her and tell me oh she's your only friend which is true. I guess that's why I still hung out with her even though she's a bitch. Well anyways I am getting annoyed with her constantly calling/texting me every few days. I can't block her number (well i could but it costs money and my mom pays the phone bill) And knowing her she'll come to my house if she decides to come home today and bug me, and start asking me why I've been ignoring her, and want to hangout. What should I do? Please help!!
if ya have a bad feeling about her now tell her that shes being unfar and cruel try to fix the problem tell ya mom so that your parents and hers can talk about her behaver sad thing is im 13 lol

ya friend
sweetgirl12free

Q: hey, i would really really like to know how to
potty train my guinea pigs. like i'll take any
suggestions whether or not you have a guinea
pig. thanks!
well im not sure about guinea pigs but i had hamsters only way to potty train them is to put pet bedding mad of hay(you can get it at any walmart cheap)at the bottom of your cage ok

my older brother says it is posible to train them to go to bathroom in sertan spots but this is best i can give you sory :/

Q: the past week my boyfriend and I got in a huge fight. now he thinks I'll be mad at him forever and never trust him again. he says I don't care about him anymore. so I want to buy/make something that shows AND tells that I care about him and I'll always be there no matter what. My friend said buy him a little teddy bear and attach a note in its hand saying "I'll always be there no matter what." I thought that was cute but I need more ideas. I don't want to go anywhere, I want to give him something. Keep it cheap. Also give me a cute little line to say. thanks.
get him like a little toy race car with hearts all over it when you give it say " you make my heart race"


sweetgirl12free

Q: My dog has pooped all over every inch of my room and i dont want to clean it up. My mom said she wouldnt clean it up either. I keep stepping in it. I smell really bad so every1 calls me stinkdog HELP!!!!
im afread i feel for you gril i have 8 dogs ziva,buddy girl, cosmo,reble,hewi,tiny,fluffy,sasha
and buddy girl had 5 puppys few days ago we dont have fenced in yard and we dont go out side anofe to walk them so guess were they go every were i am stuck cleaning it up lol

Q: Hey im a 15 year old boy from London.my family go away on holiday with 3 other families every year.i get along well with a girl my age in one of the families.i just broke up with my girlfriend cus she had kissed another guy and this friend was really there to help me.shes decent looking and fun to be around,so i am thinking of startin something with her or at least trying to,BUT if things dont work out(which they usually dont at 15) everything will be very awkward.also if our families find out it would be very embarrassing.i cant stop thinking about her so any advice would be appreciated!i just feel lonely since i broke up with my girlfriend and it would be nice to feel wanted by another girl:)
ok well im a girl and i have had a crush on my best friend he is my moms best friends son and i fell hard for him at 3 im older now still love him lol
my advice is follow your heart if you love he then take it slow do make it clear when its a thing that if it fails you don't want it to hert there friend ship that way you can be friends with benefits after ok

love ya friend
sweetgirl12free

Q: Okay, so basically, two years ago a friend and I, wrote witty letters to 'God.' (I, for one, do not believe in him.) And, recently I got a bible in the mail, a long with the notes we wrote, and buried in the snow two years ago. We did not have our addresses on it, but we had our names, and last names.
I just wanna know, based on what you think, was it a stalker, or..?

(Note: She had gotten the bible as well, and there was no return address, and post office could not trace it back. We got the bibles on the same day.)
that was a random christian who noticed and tried to con fence you hes real by freaking you out lol if seen some cases like that it happened to my i saw the guy go and crab the nonbeliever things she had on her porch to prove she didn't believe the guy had a nun with him and he was a priest he took the thing and his bible and put on the door step then left im like what heck he was handing out platelets for his church im laughing my head off the hole time


your friend
sweetgirl12free

Q: My boyfriend and I have been living together for 3 months. We have been dating 9 months. My boyfriend goes to church twice a week. He reads the bible. He visits his parents twice a week. He also has a bachelors degree and a good job. He is 26 and I am 21.

I found out I was pregnant in October, a month after we moved into an apartment together. (We have never used a condom and he knows I am not on birth control.) I found out he still has not told his parents about the pregnancy and he does not bring me to his parents when he goes to visit. He told me he wanted me to get an abortion but he never offered to pay for it or take me. (I don't want an abortion anyway.) He brought up marriage briefly twice, when he was drunk. He doesn't remember. He has been going out drinking with his coworkers and coming home at 3 AM on weekends, and he never used to do that. Since I told him I was pregnant, he hasn't felt the need to take me out to dinner or bring a pizza home, and we used to have a date night once a week. Its been about 3 months since he took me out. He spends about 3-4 days of the week sleeping here. We don't even go for walks to the park or the swap meet in our town anymore.

I don't think we are too young for marriage and we can financially afford a baby, but he still probably thinks his life will be ruined. My thinking is, he should have put a condom on if he didn't want a baby.

Should I ask him if he is going to marry me? We are Christians and I want marriage before this baby comes. I don't need a wedding, a private ceremony at a courthouse is fine with me. Having a baby will be hard to do alone, but I will sue him for child support if he leaves me. It's only fair. I did not become pregnant by MYSELF and I should not have to raise it myself but if I do have to raise it myself, I will need the extra income from him. Also, when should I tell his parents? I already told my boyfriends that if he does not tell them, that I will pick up the phone and tell them. I know it is not my place to tell HIS parents, but I said that to scare him 2 weeks ago, and he has not told them still. I think they deserve to know that their oldest son is having a child. I know that they would want to be in the child's life as because my boyfriend said his mom mentioned she wants to be a grandmother. What the heck do I do?!
ok it sounds like ( excuse my french) you boyfriends being a a$$ and he wants to not wear a condom then he should except partly responsibly i agree sue him if he thinks hes getting away with it what id do is wile hes out with his coworkers call up mama and tell her every thing you told us make him relise what hes doing wrong any mama would kick her sons as for knocking up a girl then not accepting responsibly im christian to im not fully i don't read the bible i cant go to church but i believe in god every once and a wile ill wear a cross and pray and i think you have every right to be pissed

( i cant go to church because i don't have the time with school and work )

love ya understanding friend
sweetgirl12free

Q: So I'm a girl and don't talk to any guys.

Recently I was in a group interview and noticed how the other girls spoke to the guys with ease. I thought it was because they knew each other-but they didn't!

Its just idk i just think whenever I talk to a guy they'll just presume I like them like that. How do you talk to guys because this isn't healthy!
you breath in deeply and relax then breath out say a simple " hi, how are you" don't use a flirty smile use a ' my friend jest made a joke' then let them talk ' wish that you know about some sports maybe resling and NASCAR jest like do a quick look at TV and go talk to him lol' talk and talk and say " hey lets be friends" make it seem like you jest getting a friend don't look at him to romantically

hope it helps
love ya friends
sweetgirl12free

Q: My friend and her guy friend got in to a fight and now they hate each other. Well it's been at least 6 months since then and we had a dance. My friends was dancin wit her friends and another guy. She told me that she thinks that her ex guyfriend looked jealous when she was twerking on her guy friend (theres nothing between them he just walked behind her). She told me that she likes/loves him again and she doesn't know Wat to do. She wants him to be her friends again. I want to help her but I don't know how. I need an answer as soon as possible!?!??!????!??
telll her to do what her heart tells her if she likes him she needs to go up to him and ask for a truce tell him that she misses being his friend it will help a lot



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Q: i am 13 and i love every one i know i am sweet and helpful to my enmities my older brothers left when i was 2 they went to live with there dad im there half sister we have different fathers when they left i was wreck i wouldn't even let my mom go to the bathroom with out me fallowing her or waiting out side the door to make sure she doesn't leave im a lot better now but my oldest brother joined army and he left for basic training 2 weeks ago i really miss him and i think some of the issues coming in and im afraid ill brake and go in to not letting my mother go to work but so far im good for the first week i cry-ed my self to sleep but that might be normal when i found out head be leaving 6 mouths ago i started being bad and my mom took me to get sicitress miss Eron and shes help a lot but i really miss him
well may be you could try thinking good memerys of him try keeping your mind on all the lifes hell save itll help

Q: I'm a 17 year old girl, and I'm a very sensitive person. I'm quite self-conscious and constantly worry about being judged. I have been this way my entire life.

For as long as I can remember, my parents have been making snide and sarcastic comments to me about what I wear, what I eat, my acne, the fact that I've never kept up a sport or instrument, etc. It's not that they sit there and laugh at me for having a pimple, it's more like, "Sure, eat more of that greasy pizza, that'll help your skin." I guess I'm supposed to laugh it off, but I get offended and try to make some clever comment back, which is usually more rude than clever, and gets me in trouble.

I can tell that they're coming from a good place (trying to get me to change my behavior or improve myself), but they're doing more harm than good. I have told them repeatedly that I don't like it when they mock my intelligence, but they just get angry with me and tell me that I can't take a joke. Yup. I can't; I just have a private cry and a cigarette or two.

What can I say to make them realize that I am NOT okay with such comments? Thanks :)
walk up to them and tel them calmly that they are hurting your feelings ask them nicely to stop if that doesn't work make like bananas a split go to you room lock the door or block the door and don't come out till you think they got the point ok



love ya friend
sweetgirl12free

Q: I have found these strange white stains in my groin. What can it be? I'm worried,since it gets itchy and smelly:( at times. Thanks!
when i was 12 i did a essay on cancer you may have one of the most common cancers in men im not sure exactly it could be lots of thing a body fluids infection some thing cased by all kinds of things you may have aims or SIDS or one of thows

Q: Ok, so my friends have been begging me to get a facebook for a long time now. Last night, I went into my kitchen to get a drink, they hijacked my computer and made me one. I don't mind because we are all going to different colleges in about a week and we don't want to lose touch. However, I want to do something ridiculous on all of their walls daily. I need a theme for crazy pictures to post everyday. My friend posts on her roommates wall pictures of babies dressed as food. So, I want crazy pictures with a constant theme to post on my friends walls. Thank you!!
how about poems that's what i do i put picks of Google images of poems with crazy cool back rounds and writing and i work with that

my fave poem is V

i believe in angles
kind heaven send
i am surrounded by angles
but i call them friends


you can use that if you want for you first one:)

your friend

sweetgirl12free

Q: Anyone, i mean any one who wants to help a porn addicted kid, please tell. and yes. i know i can help myself in a lot of ways but. anyone who thinks that they can help me, please tell or AIM lilneid124....

~god bless~~
ok lilneid124
you apparently are afraid your sinning but technically you are but hey there is no one in this hole world. who has not sined in there live jest try and think happy stuff .think of what ya parents would think siblings, partner, try and put ya mine on nonsexual things like baking or shopping lol hunting or what not. try hanging with fiends. the best cure for every thing is a friend who you can trust with any thing believe me.

it is jest a fase ( ps im 13 and i have been told im wise when i wanna be)

love ya friend
sweetgirl12free

Q: So, it's been 6 years since i talked to the girl i grew up with. We were best friends dreaming about going to high school together (which as fate would have it we did yet still don't talk)and when we grew up we would live next to eachother and always be friends, best friends! I know I was completely aware that I was the one to ruin what we had, you see just as these new kids moved in on the block I wanted to get to know them but my friends mom didnt want her hanging out with the new boys on the street. So I went on my own. And ever since we just drifted or I just found a new exstacy with my new friends and forgot the important one. Basically I need you to empathise with me, do you think there is anything you can say to help me clear my concience? Or just tell me what i already know.. I'm Horrible.
ok its not your fault you didn't try to hert her feelings. jest look her up fined her number call her talk to her about the days when you were. friends it wont be long till ya are bffs. again kkk
here is a poem i love ok.

" i believe in angles
the kind heaven sends
i am surrounded by angles
but i call them friends"


trust your heart deep in side your still best friends

love ya friend
sweetgirl12free

Q: okay so im lost in a world full of men who love love love bitches? sounds weird right? but true. i don't know how to play "the game" making him chase you showing him other guys want you and all that jazz. like wait for 5 dates to have sex or..call him after 3. text him after 10 mins all these stupid rules. if i like a guy i dont care i'll text u when i want to.. i dont consider myself klingy.. but guys get scared im straight up hey i like you..yet they run because im upfront. and i notice guys love materialistic girls. i don't mind paying and what not. and these girls who use guys for money end up getting the guy? and when girls are bitchy guys are like puppies. im so confused its so easy getting a guy to be interested but then this game is suppose to start with all these bullshit rules? should i start playing this stupid game? because apparently straight forward no mixed messaged stuff scares guys off?
ok that's a big problem. ok don't go fully in the game try taking it slower thow. go on a few dates call every once awile most in potent BE YOUR SELF!! if the guy don't like you for you then he is not the one. ok look for guys you can relate to ok i promise it will help. don't throw your self at them take it slow be your self and. If it work it works don't say you like him till you know him ok.


i hope it helps

love ya friend
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