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Friends are forever?
So, it's been 6 years since i talked to the girl i grew up with. We were best friends dreaming about going to high school together (which as fate would have it we did yet still don't talk)and when we grew up we would live next to eachother and always be friends, best friends! I know I was completely aware that I was the one to ruin what we had, you see just as these new kids moved in on the block I wanted to get to know them but my friends mom didnt want her hanging out with the new boys on the street. So I went on my own. And ever since we just drifted or I just found a new exstacy with my new friends and forgot the important one. Basically I need you to empathise with me, do you think there is anything you can say to help me clear my concience? Or just tell me what i already know.. I'm Horrible.
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ok its not your fault you didn't try to hert her feelings. jest look her up fined her number call her talk to her about the days when you were. friends it wont be long till ya are bffs. again kkk
here is a poem i love ok.
" i believe in angles
the kind heaven sends
i am surrounded by angles
but i call them friends"
trust your heart deep in side your still best friends
love ya friend
sweetgirl12free
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Dont be so harsh on yourself. The fact that you even feel bad about it shows what kind of person you are. Maybe try to find her on facebook or instagram (since everyone has it these days) if u know her address send her a letter and let her know u miss her and wanna hangout and see how she is. Or whatever it is that you want to say. I know it sucks that almost happened to me but I just love my bestfriend that I honestly couldn't let it happen. So I swallowed my pride and fixed things. But do whatever your heart thinks is right!. Best of luck.
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Your not horrible, it sounds to me like your just stressed out about your friend. Maybe you should try calling her and expressing to her whats on your mind. :)
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How about sending her an email and asking her how she is?
You aren't horrible. You were a kid. You made some choice and now, looking back as an adult, you think your choices weren't the best ones you could have made.
Stop beating yourself up. If you think she's someone you might like to have in your life give her a damn call. You aren't dead yet. If you just want to sit around and regret decisions you made as a kid that's fine, but if you want to persue a friendship with someone you think is a good person and was important to you once - do that. It's a far better use of your energy.
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