playing the game? i don't know how to make a guy chase you and show him other guys want you and it seems teh world is full of men who love bitches!
Question Posted Thursday January 17 2013, 8:29 am
okay so im lost in a world full of men who love love love bitches? sounds weird right? but true. i don't know how to play "the game" making him chase you showing him other guys want you and all that jazz. like wait for 5 dates to have sex or..call him after 3. text him after 10 mins all these stupid rules. if i like a guy i dont care i'll text u when i want to.. i dont consider myself klingy.. but guys get scared im straight up hey i like you..yet they run because im upfront. and i notice guys love materialistic girls. i don't mind paying and what not. and these girls who use guys for money end up getting the guy? and when girls are bitchy guys are like puppies. im so confused its so easy getting a guy to be interested but then this game is suppose to start with all these bullshit rules? should i start playing this stupid game? because apparently straight forward no mixed messaged stuff scares guys off?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? sweetgirl12free answered Friday January 25 2013, 10:28 am: ok that's a big problem. ok don't go fully in the game try taking it slower thow. go on a few dates call every once awile most in potent BE YOUR SELF!! if the guy don't like you for you then he is not the one. ok look for guys you can relate to ok i promise it will help. don't throw your self at them take it slow be your self and. If it work it works don't say you like him till you know him ok.
Brandi_S answered Monday January 21 2013, 8:19 pm: Nah... You don't want to act that way, because you don't want the type of guy who wants that type of girl. Seriously. I know it seems like that type of guy is every guy out there, but I promise you that is not the case. There are guys out there who will appreciate you for being a straight forward girl who doesn't play stupid bitchy head games. [ Brandi_S's advice column | Ask Brandi_S A Question ]
Angelousy answered Thursday January 17 2013, 9:28 am: Hey hun,
You are what you attract. If you play games you'll attract a guy who plays games. If you're genuine you'll attract a guy who's genuine.
I understand where you come from and I admire your personality, straight forward and upfront.
Yet it's a rule of nature unfortunately that guys like to chase, they're hunters by nature. I won't tell you to act cause obviously you won't. All I would tell you is to be who you are, have lots of activities and hobbies, friends and social life. And whenever you feel that a guy likes you let him do the work, Trust me you'll enjoy it. Just sit and watch like a princess while he's doing all the running after you. Cause that's what men are.
You might wanna hold your horses when you like a guy, only until he proves he's worthy to hear it.
If you think of it this way, you'll be playing hard to get without even noticing.
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