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Foot Fetish
Ok, so my step-sister gave me a doorknob (we are both 13) and she asked me to do more to her feet and fuck her. I really don't know what to do right now because she already knows I liked the doorknob she gave me. Please help.
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Hi there. This post is quite worrying. OK, no blood ties between you so the incestuous relationship thing will never occur. Your step-sister has expressed a clear interest in having sex. And (presumably) you live in the same house, so there will be no shortage of places and opportunities for it to happen. Have either of you thought about the kind of damage it will cause to the relationship between your respective biological parents if you made her pregnant? It would be a frigging disaster! I have no way of knowing how biologically aware either of you are, but I hope neither are thinking that a girl of thirteen cannot get pregnant? Quite simply, if you ejaculate (aka 'cum') inside her even once then it is a dsitinct possibility. Adviceman49's comments and advice are detailed and sound on the subject as a whole. OK, at this age you ARE going both going to feel horny. And there is not the biological brother-sister relationship that forbids even the idea of having sex to virtually all siblings. And you seem to have explored the idea a little already, and admit you enjoyed. OK, that's not a problem. However, you are the one who clearly has doubts (you would not have posted the question otherwise) so I think it's you who should take responsibility for what does or does not take place here. Like adviceman49 suggests, then 'fingering' or 'touching-up' (or whatever term you prefer) for her, and a hand-job for you, or maybe oral sex either way, really is the ABSOLUTE MAXIMUM you should be considering at present. If by chance you chose to ignore all our advice, or if despite your best intentions things get a bit out of hand sometime, at least make sure you have some condoms in a drawer or a coat pocket somewhere in the house and use them. And if you don't want to have any sexual contact at all with her, just say so. There's a whole world of potential boyfriends and girlfriends out there as and when you choose.
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I'm not understanding the doorknob thing but that's okay. Sex with a step-sibling is okay as you two are not related by blood.
What is not okay is two 13 year old step-siblings or any other 13 year olds engaging in sexual intercourse. You are both far too young to be doing this kind of sex. I'm not even sure mutual masturbation is right at your age.
You two have plenty of time to explore the world of sex. I understand you have sexual urges and that you may believe it is safer to have sex between you than with others your age. It is not safer. Even with condom use pregnancy is still a concern as a condom, when worn correctly, are only 80% effective in preventing pregnancy. Sex between you may be safe as far as STDS and HIV/AIDS but it does not limit the problem of pregnancy and she is too young to get birth control pills.
What you should be doing at this age is exploring your sexuality through masturbation and fantasy. Contrary to what many parents tell their kids there is nothing wrong with masturbation. It is healthy, it is safe and most of all it relieves the sexual tension you are feeling which is brought on by puberty.
According to a recent survey 85% of the population from the age of puberty and older masturbate. Your parents most likely masturbate. They do so when the have sex which is called mutual masturbation. Hand jobs, fingering and oral sex all come under the heading of masturbation. Anything that would lead to a climax or a climax for either partner would come under the heading of masturbating or mutual masturbation. Masturbation is not a sin. Most religions do not condone it, just as parent don't but it is not sinful. Not even the Catholic church finds it sinful.
My advice is that in a few years, hopefully 4 or more, if you and your step sister still want to have sex, this would not be incest and nothing illegal or sinful about it. Until then you two should stick to masturbation or at worst mutual masturbation for sexual relief. The sexual tension you feel is normal as this is caused by hormones brought out by puberty. Masturbation would be normal and as I said it is healthy. Sexual intercourse at your age is not normal and it is dangerous.
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