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i think im stepping into depression.
18/f
lately my motivation to do anything has gone down. i have alot of confidence in myself and i think i'm a great person, but i don't pick the best friends.
basically my friends are all about themselves. they don't give a shit about me, they say they do, but they don't because i know when someone actually cares about me because they SHOW me. i always have to ask people to hangout and they're never there for me when i need someone to talk to and they are just all about themselves and i'm tired of it.
i usually have a boyfriend. i was dating a guy for 2 years in high school then we broke up and shortly after i was with another guy for like 5 more months(i liked them both, i didn't date just to date). so most of my high school years i was wish a boyfriend and he made me happy. now i honestly have no one to lean on. i have to do everything on my own. i use my looks to get boyfriends so i have someone to help me get through but there is literally no guys in my school :/ idk what to do anymore i have a long summer ahead of me..
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I understand what you mean. Give your life to God no man nor friend could love you more I did and I fine in sistuations where I should be sad I'm very happy. Not only that if you stick to yourself and be yourself people will start coming to you to be your friend. If you need a friend to talk to I'll talk to you you can email me a nayokosky@gmail.com if you like. Keep you head up and stay happy because your never alone.=)
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If I were you, I would take the summer to gain a fresh start.
Concentrate on yourself instead of friends and relationships. You said that you have to do everything on your own, so take the summer as a chance to get used to the changes going on around you.
You're 18, so you're probably going to college sometime soon so that's also a great time to start over. Make some new friends, meet a new, cute guy at college, etc. Join clubs, try new things.
Re-invent yourself. Summer is the perfect time to start over. But also enjoy your summer. Go to the beach, an amusement park, hang out with family, go shopping, etc. Do some fun things for yourself and find out you are without a bunch of people around.
You don't always need someone around to lean on. Lean on yourself sometimes. You are always going to be your own best friend.
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