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my lesbian friend thinks im bi


Question Posted Saturday June 19 2010, 3:35 am

okay so im really close with my friend kylie (shes les/emo)
kylie cutt her self, and just a couple of days ago cut really bad whilst we were in school and came rushing to me for help. so instead of going to science i spent last period with her in the bathroom trying to understand why she did it and if she was ok. ( i know its wrong to ditch class so please no lectures on that please)
so we started talking and she admitted she had a thing for me. and kept hugging me.
i addimitted i had feelings for a female friend of mine (amy, we have kissed befor) even though im still not sure if im bi. and know shes REALLY close with me, and now everyone thinks im les. i have been thinking about it lately and im think im straight . what should i do i dont want people thinking im les.


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brokensunshine answered Sunday June 20 2010, 2:21 pm:
if you had feelings for your female friend, wouldn't that make you bi? ask yourself these questions. are you attracted to boys? i think i could be bi, and i have had girlfriends, but now i have a boyfriend and he has turned me into a straight girl. i think you should really keep thinking about it and decide for yourself, not what everyone else thinks. there is nothing wrong with being bi or lez.

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NayokoSky answered Saturday June 19 2010, 12:57 pm:
Well, dear you might not like my answer and I know you care for your friend as a friend but people will keep thinking your bi as long as you hang out with her or they see her flirting with you. You can tell them all that you don't like girls like that at all and eventually it'll die down. Try to find God read the bible and go to a real church some people speak about God but really are fake and twisting the words around so be careful. Only really look for God if you want to not because I tell you. If you chose to become a christian no one will think your gay or bi because there is no such thing as a christian being gay or bi says so in romans chapter 2 and in deut. If you have trouble reading it get a new king james version and get a dictionary.Good luck to you in your choice.=)

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MissYMelisS answered Saturday June 19 2010, 9:47 am:
Person below me, she said shes not a Lesbian.

Secondly, people are going to talk hun. Its unavoidable. You just have to be the better person and ignore it. I promise, in a month or so its going to be old news and no one is going to care anymore.

If you want to get over those rumors faster, find a boyfriend. If your with a guy then your obviously not a lesbian, right?

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THEJOHNSCOTT answered Saturday June 19 2010, 5:18 am:
dont care what people think cause in the end its just going to be you if you think your les then admit it to yourself and be you and if anyone has a problem then they can keep it to themselves.

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