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17/f
i am sexual active with my boyfriend and for about a month or two now my vagina has been very irritated.. i thought it was a yeast infection so i used the yeast infection kit and it worked for a little bit but then i continued to be irritated.
i haven't really had any changes in my discharge and i don't smell any different down there.
what are some vaginal infections that this could be?
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are you alergic to condoms? my friend was alergic and she got a bad rash from it
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Nobody really comments on my wall and I see all these amazing pictures of other people with their friends having fun doing pretty much anything. but i only have a picture of myself cause i dont have any friends who invite me for things outside of school. i can literally count in a handfull how many times i've visited a friend's house, and I've been invited to less than 5 birthday parties (not family) in my entire life. I just look at the other people on facebook and feel so jealous. I want to remember high school as fun but I feel like Im just really missing out and I dont know what to do. How can I become better friends with people? I want best friends.. I've never really had one. Since I dont have anyone to hang with I spend most of my time on the internet, and even online I dont have best friends.. just nice people I randomly talk to. when i think about it it just makes me sad.. i mean im an optimistic person but i dont know what im doing wrong. i dont think i have major personality flaws or anything.. i feel like i should maybe get skinnier over the summer and wear better clothes.. but my family cant really afford much of the things i want. im really into music but i cant even get an ipod. i love fashion but the majority of clothes i own are from middle school and I'm 16! i just dont want to get depressed or anything, with keeping emotions to myself. i love to talk and have a good time but ughghgh. i look at other peoples facebooks and im just so jealous its redic. i never hang out with people.. this summer im in a new school and im trying to invite people for concerts cause i dont know how to invite people to my house. ive never done it before. where i used to live friends never came over.. and now i feel like im socially inept. i dont know how to handle that situation.. what to do and everything. i constantly worry over boring people or making them think im annoying. i got my first cell phone when i was 15 and i made a group on fb and everything and some people who i thought were friends posted their numbers and id text them and they'd be like "whos this?" so they dont even care about me. but those were people from my old school. i hope its different in this new one.. but i just feel heartbroken cause Im having the worst high school experience so far. i dont love being a loner.. im not really a quiet person. but i just dont fit in anywhere. and people seem to like me.. like i dont think i slip through the cracks, but nobody really goes anywhere with it and im too socially inept to know how to start convos like that! i dont care about being a loser or unpopular as long as i have friends. i dont even need that many.. 1 best friend, for start, would be amazing. Ive never met anyone who i've gotten along with great. i just feel like crying right now cause its so pathetic. and then i see albums on fb and people seem to have had the funnest time this year and they leave cute comments on each other's wall.. and im just a f***ing outcast. i like the way i am and everything.. i just want other people to like me too. it seems like i get along with people a lot better online than in RL. I havent even had a birthday party since age 10. im so mad i didnt have a sweet 16. my family was in the process of moving and we didnt have enough money to throw anything and i didnt even know who to invite.. even people i considered "friends" i wasnt really sure how they felt about me. im posting this now cause it was just a blow when i saw someone who had an awesome sweet 16 recently.. and then in the new town im in this girl i was talking to i thought we were becoming friends and she has a killer sweet 16, this huge party, and she doesnt invite me! i dont want the same thing happening again. gosh someone please please help me, i dont know where to turn. i have an older sister whos going through depression because of friend issues as well.. i dont want to go down the same route. things got very bad for her this year as well as my family.. its part of the reason my family moved to a different town.. in a totally different state. we're still trying to help her recover but there's still way to go. im not even best friends with my sister anymore.. we were when we were little but we broke off around the time i was 10 and she was 11. ever since we dont really know whats going on in each others lives.. like i didnt really know her friends or anything. we'd just go on the computer a lot and stuff. i wish we could be best friends though.. but its just hard now too cause of my sister's depression and we're very different people. we cant even share clothes, which i'd be fine with but she doesnt want it and my mom says its bad cause she shared things with her sisters and she talks to them a lot on the phone but i barely talk to my sister in person
my life from age 7 to now, age 16, is terribly boring. over the summer i rarely do anything significant cause my family cant go anywhere! my parents arent really interested in going to the beach or anything. i lived in freakin nj and i only went to the beach 3 times in 10 years. and i only went to new york city ONCE. cause my parents thought they should just work all the time while we stay at home on the computer all day! activities were too expensive.. i mean i play some sports but thats pretty much it you know. i cant even get a guitar or art supplies or etc. i cant get a job cause my parents wont pay for driving lessons or a car, and they wont want to drive me all the time. i feel like such a failure even though i know ive done some good things.. i feel like crying again. am i the only one like this? how can i change?
I feel like the highlights of my life so far was when I was 2-7 years old, and when I was 10. I dont want to grow up and tell my future kids that I didnt really do anything from ages 11-16 and maybe more.. like gosh i dont really have cool stories and stuff like other people. ive never really taken silly pics with friends or all those things i think people take for granted. all those movies like sisterhood of the traveling pants make me jealous too
please make this a priority question advicenators. i always turn to here when i have big problems cause people here really help. i know this is a long question but if i cant get help from here i seriously have no other place to go and i may become depressed myself. i just feel like banging my head against the wall now that i type everything and realize even more how much my life sucks. i mean even really poor kids often have good friends and everything. why is it so hard for me! (link)
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I can relate to you so much on this. I don't have that many friends myself. it doesn't mean were losers or anything bad. I completly understand that you get lonley. I do too! I lived in nj too all my life until eighth grade was over. my parents are very very strict and my mom doesn't like to go to the beach unless it's like 6 in the morning. plus paying to get on the beach is a struggle because we don't have the money to do stuff like that. we moved to Virginia. Virginia is very VERY different from nj. the people are just all together nicer. now I don't know where you moved to but I am positive it will be different than what you went through in jersey. I was so worried I wasn't gonna make friends and that my whole high school time would suck, but on the first day of school everyone was interested in me and talking to me it was fantastic. so I am telling you right now that there is hope! and when I look at peoples facebooks I get really jealous too because I only have pretty much one friend that I hang out with. when I see peoples pictures with like 30 people or on their siblings they have like 100 of their friends listed it just makes me jealous. and I'm always scared to hang out with people I'm not really close with because I'm afraid it will be really awkward. but you gotta try it to know what it's like. everythings gonna be okay. you sound like a really friendly person! if you want you can add me on facebook and we can talk. I'm bored out of my mind these days. -Bella ferguson (Isabella ferguson) -
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Helllo I have a problem when i finger my self i get a really nice feeling and a tingle but am i a bad person for this and am i a slut?x
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you are not bad at all. the answers above me give you the facts about it. it's true. I started doing that when I was 14. most guys like to hear about when you do that, it turns them on. some girls like to lick their finger afterwards. and you are not a slut at all. sluts are people who are easy and sleep with everyone they see. good luck
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I have read tons of "Don't commit suicide" pages, and I fully understand how "wrong" it may be to commit suicide, but what you people don't understand is how much of a failure I am. All this, "It's going to be ok" Or "I love you" Or "You'll make it!" is nothing but a load of crap. I'm not going to make it, I'm going to continue to mess up, and be a failure, there is no hope, and there is no reason for living. If I am going to live, it's going to be for me, not for my family or some random friend. There is no point in living if I can't be happy, do what I want, or eventually get what I want. Basically, my life is worthless, and I was wondering if anyone who has been suicidal in the past has any experience to share. "See a doctor" and "Take medication" are on my to do list, but I don't see how they can fix my crazy. And even still, I don't think they can fix my constant aptitude for failing. (link)
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no one is a failure. every human makes mistakes, including myself. I am always making mistakes and sometimes i become depressed for periods of time. the best thing for you is to talk about everything that is on your mind or that may make you feel suicidal. talk to a close friend, family member, anyone who will listen. I have dealt with one if my best friends wanting to commit suicide. she bottles everything up inside of her for very very long periods of time. i have done that before and I notice I feel so much better when I tell someone why I'm hurting. when she talks to me about her issues and why she's upset she admits a lot of hidden stuff deep inside of her and it does make her feel better. I have noticed she likes to draw graphic pictures to get her feelings out. try those things. and you can always call a suicide prevention hotline. they will deffinetly try to help you. in the end if you do decide to commit suicide, just know that everyone close to you will be distrought. you are doing a good thing by trying to get help or opinions on this site. don't give up hope. best of luck!
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13/f
Ok so I'm not being cocky or anything, but I'm a pretty attractive girl. Whenever I walk down the halls at my school I see people just starring at me. And it's really wierd. Mainly bc I wonder what thy are looking at. If I have a boogie or if my eyeliner ran. I don't know what they are looking at. But I have been asked out 4 times. The first time I said yes and we were bf/gf for about a week bc he hurt my best friend so I broke up with him. But then it was my best guy frend and u said no bc if we break up it'll be awkward. Then the 3rd time it was a dude I met at bush gardens (in tampa Florida). I knew him for about 30minutes maybe an hour. Then the 4th time it was this kid that goes to my school that added me on facebook. He said I looked pretty and asked me out. But I have alot of friends That rent that attractive. that have boyfriends that are cute. And then there ia this one sluty ugly ass girl that has had so many boyfriends. So I wanna know if it's my personality or what. I just don't understand. I hope someone an help. Thx in advance.
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the ugly slutty girl had so many boyfriends because they know shes easy. its not all about looks! you are still young. you will have many, many more opportunities with guys. your time will come. you dont need to have 7438793759 boyfriends to be successful. dont stress. good luck
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how can i deal with people who are defensive? everytime i try to fix a problem with a friend he always in denial and get defensive, what should i do? its really hard (link)
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i hate.hate.hate. when people are very defensive against me. i tell them to chill out and just talk to me and try to understand where i'm coming from. if they cant i will get really frustrated and move on. if they make me angry enough, i will stop talking to them all together. but if its my friend, i will just tell them how i feel and ask them to try to relate to me.
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it's one of those days when I feel lonely and sad, it's not that I'm depressed because I'm pretty cheerful and energetic around my friends but sometimes I feel like I don't have someone to talk to or just feel like isolating myself from people by not answering any of my phone calls from my friends, I don't know why but I don't feel like talking to anybody even though I do want to, I don't know why I feel like that, whats wrong with me? (link)
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i have those kind of days ALL THE TIME. i just dont feel like talking to anyone. i just want to sit in my room in the dark and think. i know exactly what you're going through. sometimes i will go on the internet and watch something funny or i will listen to music or play a game. eventually i will make contact with someone when i am ready. its just an off day. and its perfectly normal, theres nothing wrong with you
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Today is the father's day, and it reminds me that i do not have a dad, since my dad passed away 3 years ago and my stepdad that i love lost in touch 7 years ago and i dont know where he is right now, and im really sad because i cant greet any of my dad happy father's day and it is making me cry. How can i feel better?
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just know that its okay. there are lots of people feeling what you feel today. you should go out to a friends house or someone close and spend the day with them to keep your mind away from the sadness. keeping yourself busy is key. feel better love.
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How can I make it so my vagina does not smell bad. Any help will do please. (link)
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going to the doctor should be your first priority. take a shower and wash it thoroughly. sometimes the food you eat effects the smell/taste of your vagina. maybe get a vaginal douche.
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ok, so im 14 and i really want a boyfriend but im not sure if im ready. i feel totally ready but then when i see guys in person and talk to them, i can't imagine kissing them because i feel nervous and sort of not ready. it's like an easier said than done thing, you know? so, am i ready or what's up with me? (link)
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i think you should give it a try. if you dont like it, then you arent forced to do anything more. good luck honey.
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18F.
i'm probably one of the pickiest girls when it comes to guy but about a month ago i met this guy ..and i'm really starting to fall for him. i'm such a jealous person and i do have trust problem and so i just feel like he is talking to other girls besides me, which i mean there isn't anything wrong with that since we're not official, and i don't want to be a nagging girl, who knows he might not even be talking to any girls besides me, i'm just always worried.
i don't want to lose him because it's been about 2yrs since i've even found anyone i liked. we were texting last night and somehow got on the topic of me and how alot of creepers tend to go for me and like me and he was like "oh so does that mean i'm a creeper?.." and i was like no definitely not don't worry. does that mean he admitted that he liked me? i didn't really know what he meant by that.
he use to always text me first, now i feel like i'm always the one texting him first. he always seems happy to talk to me. he hasn't once tried doing anything sexual with me, which i like. i don't know what i should do next? just keep hanging out with him, and keep doing what i'm doing?? i wan't him to myself, such a selfish girl haha :)
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does he know you like him? you should go for it! tell him you're into him and see what happens from there
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okay so im really close with my friend kylie (shes les/emo)
kylie cutt her self, and just a couple of days ago cut really bad whilst we were in school and came rushing to me for help. so instead of going to science i spent last period with her in the bathroom trying to understand why she did it and if she was ok. ( i know its wrong to ditch class so please no lectures on that please)
so we started talking and she admitted she had a thing for me. and kept hugging me.
i addimitted i had feelings for a female friend of mine (amy, we have kissed befor) even though im still not sure if im bi. and know shes REALLY close with me, and now everyone thinks im les. i have been thinking about it lately and im think im straight . what should i do i dont want people thinking im les. (link)
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if you had feelings for your female friend, wouldn't that make you bi? ask yourself these questions. are you attracted to boys? i think i could be bi, and i have had girlfriends, but now i have a boyfriend and he has turned me into a straight girl. i think you should really keep thinking about it and decide for yourself, not what everyone else thinks. there is nothing wrong with being bi or lez.
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