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i'm a girl, 16 years old going on 17, and i have been dateing my boyfriend sense March 27, 2010. The problem with dateing him is there's a age gap... we are 5 years apart, or 4 depends on how you look @ it, which means he's 21.
so in the first month of our dateing everything was cool and all we would do is hang out. in the 2nd month, or the middle of the 2nd month there was a prblem, he wanted to have sex. see i know that if we do have sex it would be counted as rape, and he would go to jail and i would be in trouble, BIG TROUBLE. so i told him we should wait. so during may he tells me he wants to change his life and start going to church with me.
one day after church i went with him to go meet his mom, we met and she is a wonderful lady. Then the week after he jumped back on the subject (which he's been jumping on alot even after i said no the 1st time) and he gives me the same lame excuses, "well, if your mine, why can't i have all of you?" or "baby, i love you, and i just wanna show you how much i do" and ect. And every time he gives me those lame excuses, as if i never heard those lines b4, i tell him the same thing "you can wait, and if you can't leve."
now he's never did anything to make me wanna leve him, except bring up the sex subject like 1,000 times and i'm getting tired of it. i've asked some of my friend and some said they would "have sex with him and leve him." some said "jus stop talking to him, he'll get the clue." and others said "screw him like bunnys do, and make the sex so good he wouldn't dare leve."
but i'm not worried about him leveing. if he does, he does. that's how i feel. i just don't know what to do. i realy do like him and we have fun together but i'm tired of telling him no and always talking about it.
what do i do? should i give IT up, or give HIM up?
please, some one give me some advice. (link)
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If he can't respect your decision what makes you think he'll respect afterwards. I think you should leave if he can't respect your descision. Or just have a talk and really explain why right now is not the right time. And like always it's all about respect. But your right with if he can't wait then leave. But don't give it just becuase you feel pressured because you won't be satisfied with what you did. You shouldn't worry about his satisfaction only yours!!!!
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so i recently met this guy, about a month ago. the more we started hanging out, the more i fell for him. he knows i've had a ton of trouble with guys in the past and he told me he'd never give me a reason to not trust him and he would never hurt me. i met all his friends and he never once left me, he holds my hand in front of all of them, he cuddles with me, he calls me babe ..and he told me he liked me. well just now i go on his facebook and this girl asks when he's going up to his cabin and that he better be there and he says something like .."yeah i'll be up there, are you bringing any other hotties up there besides yourself haha :)" and seeing that, my heart literally dropped. i was like what the hell?? i don't want to bring it up to him, because that would just be creepy and kind of like i'm obsessed with him or something you know? but i'm honestly hurt, although we're not officially together, i didn't think he was talking to other girls like that..
what should i do? should i say something to him? should i leave it alone? ugh i don't know, advice, anything please :( (link)
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I think you should confront him but by expressing your feelings and Tell him what you want out of this and see if he in it for the same If he is then you already what type of guy he is from the facebook comment and just be caution. And say how you felt by what you saw. But if he isn't in it then you know it was just a fling. And to approach to that topic I think you should talk face to face because if it's thru phone he'll probably try to avoid so go out to lunch or something. Around a comfortable and talking enviorment.
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Im a 17 year old female. I've been dating this guy for almost a year. He lives 3 hours away from me and the distance makes it hard but he says he wants to be with me and that it bothers him but its worth it basically. Well he's cheated on me twice, not physically. He's just traded dirty pictures and had phone sex (which to me is just as bad.HE also asked the gurl if shed like to hook up. Anyway the first time I kind of just blew it off but this time Ive taken it very seriously.(same gurl both times) I was going to break up with him but decided not to for some strange reason. I love him alot. Ive know him for two and half years and dated him for almost one of those like i said. Well he says he loves me and that he doesnt want to break up with me and that hed be really upset if we did. But then again he goes off and does that and since im not as close as her why doesnt he just end it and be with her. Ive tried talking to him about it and he just over and over again says he loves me and that he doesnt want to end it. I know he cant be using me for sex, because we don't do it that often seeing our distance situation. He cant be using me for money because i rarely buy him anything. so if he was using me i dont know what it would be for. I guess what im asking is, is it the distance that could be casuing him to turn to people closer to supply his needs? If he can't stay loyal why doesnt he break up with me? How should i approach the situation in a mature manner and let him know if it happens again im leaving without it causing a fight? (link)
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I was in a relationship like this before but it wasn't long distance. If that guy is doing that to you he is not respecting you. So why you would you wanna be with someone that doesn't respect you. Also if he's actin like he can't break up with you but he doesn't wanna be with you. Your being to easy on him. He has done that to you twice meaning the first time that he did that to you and you blew it off so quickly and then he did it again is because he didn't learn any lesson. You need to move and be with someone that respects and only be with you cuz he wants you and not some other. Don't put any excuse on why he would do that to you. There's never an excuse it's always about respect
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i am sexual active with my boyfriend and for about a month or two now my vagina has been very irritated.. i thought it was a yeast infection so i used the yeast infection kit and it worked for a little bit but then i continued to be irritated.
i haven't really had any changes in my discharge and i don't smell any different down there.
what are some vaginal infections that this could be?
thanks for the help (link)
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You should get it checked becuase there are many infections that do not have symptoms.and usually if it irritates right after you have sex most likely you have an infection and you must go to the doctor right away.
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How can I make it so my vagina does not smell bad. Any help will do please. (link)
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If your vagina smells bad you must go to the doctor to check that out becuase that is not normal. And there isn't much you can do to take the smell away until you see the doctor
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I've been dating someone for a couple of years and i know he loves me and i love him and all of that great stuff. We have a happy and mature relationship and i can definitely see a future between us. There is just one thing that i cant fully get out of my mind though... around 2 years before we met, his ex-girlfriend moved away, cheated on him and broke up with him. she basically broke his heart. they had dated in high school for a couple years before this. i know this obviously because we talked about our exes when we started seeing each other, just because i think its good to know someones dating history. he says he was depressed about it for a really long time...ive asked him about her before and he says hes over it, and he really hasnt said anything to make me think otherwise. what bothers me is that if i ever bring her up (which isnt often...i do it very casually...) he just says how much of a bitch she is and he doesnt know or care if shes doing okay or even alive (a bit dramatic?)
so yeah. usually they say that being bitter is a bad sign... if you're truly over someone you should have closure and forgiveness is your mind. but she DID cheat on him. so maybe he has a right to feel that way. i don't know. please help. (link)
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I think you shouldn't be worried about that. I believe if he gets bitter is not because he not over but he felt disrespected by her. But by you asking may upset him because your bringing up his past. They same was you wouldn't like someone to bring up a bad memory of yours. I think you should stop worrying about because if you do say you are happy and you do see something out of your relationship then keep moving because he is with you and that is why your still together for 2 years.
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