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I'm Melanie, a 20 year old college student! I'm home for the summer and BORED so I decided to make this...hope I help!
Gender: Female
Occupation: Student
Age: 20
Member Since: June 17, 2010
Answers: 13
Last Update: June 18, 2010
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17/F
Pale Skin, Medium Brown Hair, and Hazel Eyes
I'm about to go shopping for some new makeup, and I was wondering if you could recommend the best brands of make up. Price is not an issue.
I need recommendations for:
-Mascara
-Liquid Eyeliner
-Nail Polish
-Blush
-Liquid Foundation
-Brushes
-Perfume
Any recommendations that you could give me regarding the brand and/or colors that would work for me would be fantastic. (link)
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Hey girl!
If price is not an issue, you should go to a store like Ulta or Sephora! I don't know if you have been there before, but Ulta sells the average makeup like maybelline, cover girl, etc, but they also sell higher end make up like bare escentuals, urban decay, etc. Sephora sells only higher end makeup. Both stores have people that work in them that have been trained to do makeovers..so they can probably tell you the best makeup and colors for you! They can also give good advice on applying makeup! Sorry I can't help with specific colors, but definitely talk to the people at those stores because they are really good and always happy to help!
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100 years ago, NOBODY died of lung cancer because they didn't even know it exsisted! people 100 years ago smoked heavily too. Now all of a sudden people can get lung cancer? we're not any different then the people 100 years ago. Also I am a non smoker I live with my mom and her boyfriend, I've looked it up and have asked many questions about "second hand smoke" apparently even though I TRY to get away from the smoke I am still breathing it in even when I go to my room? is this true? I cant leave my house to get away from it, my parents don't care whether I talk to them or not so talking to them does NOO good.
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If people didn't know cancer exsisted 100 years ago, they could have had it and not known it! So cancer has been around since then but people didn't know that they had it. Yes you can get cancer fromsecond hand smoke- actually second hand smoke is just as bad, if not worse, than smoking a cigarette. Get away from the smoke!! It's your health and it's important!
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so i recently met this guy, about a month ago. the more we started hanging out, the more i fell for him. he knows i've had a ton of trouble with guys in the past and he told me he'd never give me a reason to not trust him and he would never hurt me. i met all his friends and he never once left me, he holds my hand in front of all of them, he cuddles with me, he calls me babe ..and he told me he liked me. well just now i go on his facebook and this girl asks when he's going up to his cabin and that he better be there and he says something like .."yeah i'll be up there, are you bringing any other hotties up there besides yourself haha :)" and seeing that, my heart literally dropped. i was like what the hell?? i don't want to bring it up to him, because that would just be creepy and kind of like i'm obsessed with him or something you know? but i'm honestly hurt, although we're not officially together, i didn't think he was talking to other girls like that..
what should i do? should i say something to him? should i leave it alone? ugh i don't know, advice, anything please :( (link)
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Ugh yeah that is so annoying. I wouldn't directly confront him about the comment because even tho us girls know that facebook stalking is perfectly acceptable (I mean, don't get a facebook if you don't want to get stalked right? lol) he might be freaked out. But anyway, I wouldn't directly ask him about the comment but maybe ask him about where your relationship is headed. Make it clear that you aren't trying to be like "omg be my boyfriend" but that you do want to know if he is getting serious or if it's just a summer hookup. If you are happy with the way things are right now, I wouldn't say anything. But you seem really hurt by that comment and you have a right to ask him how serious he is about you.
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I got my industrial pierced about two months ago and one of the holes will not stay healed. Sometimes it gets a red blister-looking lump that pops up right where the piercing is. It doesn't hurt incredibly bad but it's annoying because it doesn't look good. I really don't want to take it out because i paid 70 to get it pierced and plus i like it. Anyways I clean it with peroxide and alcohol and the red bump still stays.
What should i do? (link)
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I had a problem similar to that when I got my middle cartilage pierced. It healed but then I got a red bump around it. My doctor said I was most likely having an allergic reaction to the earring. He said it's common because that area of your ear doesnt ave a lot of blood flow in it. He told me to take it out, but I think that if I had put a higher quality earring in it might have cleared up!
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Hello :) I'm sure this question has been asked, but answers towards my question seem a little more specialized to me. So thanks in advance!
Typically my period lasts a good 6-7 days. I do have a boyfriend and we obviously do "stuff", if you will. He nor I have ever had sex, and we are very safe in terms of preventing pregnancy or heaven knows what. I make sure he pleasures himself with one hand, and me, with the other. If there's any need to switch hands, there is no other option than for him to either wash his hands or use hand sanitizer. I don't touch myself, so that's not a problem.
Now, I just got my period a day and a half ago, and it literally just stopped last night/this morning. I'm sure this is probably normal, but I really just wanted to make sure. I'm usually not a paranoid person, but after I typed in "I got my period for a day" on Google and a bunch of pregnancy results popped up, it made me a tad nervous.
I've been using a website to track my period for the past year and a half or so, and usually it's pretty accurate. My period is supposed to come on June 28th and I got it on the 14th. However, I understand that a 17 year old like me can have irregular periods.
Other than my recent salad obsession, my diet hasn't really changed? I haven't been practicing any unusual or different exercizes so I'm a little confused. Help! (link)
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I really don't think you have anything to worry about!! Since you got it early and it only lasted for a day, you probably just "spotted" which is common for teenagers and even older woman! Keep being as careful as you are and you will have nothing to worry about!!
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Okay so this is basically goin to be the story of my life, haha.
Jk, the story of my past last four years, i have always been a social butterfly and that's how i met my boyfriend he was not so good looking and i always thought i was pretty good looking i had never gone out with a guy i didnt physically find attractive but my friends begged me they said he was really nice.when we got in the relationship he would always check out other girls n point out how much hotter they were so i became extremely jealous i would not let him talk to girls or have a myspace or facebook or go in out or anything he would always do it behind my back anyway go out and stuff and i would cry everyday because of stuff he would say or do so he stopped checking out girls but he did everything behind my back and then we lived like that for four years i stopped talking to all my friends because i was always with him and i thought he did too and then recently i found a bunch of porn on his computer i broke up with him and was devastated because he always told me he would never look at the other girls cause i was the hottest and prettiest, he was my first and i was his first. then i wanted to change so i started to change when i kinda got over the porn thing because he said it was his first time.then i got on his tmobile account and saw he would talk to alot of numbers so i asked him about it and he admitted some were girls and he would talk to them a lot more than me then shortly after he told me he had a facebook and he met them all on facebook they were his old friends and then i broke up with him a week before my graduation and i have no friends now and i feel so lonely.he was the only person always there for me. idk if i should get back with him after a while but he told me he did flirt with girls and when i call him now that we are not together he yells and gets mad he doesnt want to talk to me but he says he still likes me and i just dont know how to move on i just graduated from high school and the night i broke up with him i fell down some stairs and broke my ankle so i quit my job because all these things were happening so i thought i needed some time but now i feel miserable alone and find myself calling him all the time idk if i should get back with him i doubt he ever cheated but he talked to a couple of girls all day and he works nights and he would stay up when he got home from work talking to them(sometimes not even sleep) and he would tell me he was asleep or while at work he would not call me during his breaks because he lied and said his phone was dying, but in his tmobile i found out he was talking to them a lot. :( WAS IT THE RIGHT THING TO DO? how do i meet new people? i dont have friends what can i do in my spare time to not think about him or call him?!:( (link)
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YES! You did do the right thing! He shouldn't have been talking to other girls all night and he especially shouldn't have been lying to you about it. I know you feel lonely and like you lost your whole life (I've been there too..) but he was not the right guy for you. Would your dream guy hurt you like that?!? NO!! Trust me, he's out there and you will find him.
You were with him for a long time...so now you need to learn how to be single again! I know you had friends before him, so call them up. It might be kind of awkward or weird at first but just call them. Or maybe someone you used to talk to in class but never really hung out with. It just takes a few phone calls or texts or even write on their facebook wall or something asking them to hangout!
Also, when your ankle heels get a job where a lot of people your age work- like a grocery store, mall, or a food place! Work is a great place to meet friends! You might even meet a guy you like.
There is also a lot of stuff you can do to star distracted! Go to the gym (another place to meet cute guys- that are in shape!), read books, learn to cook, do crafts, bike ride, or volunteer at an animal shelter! Be creative...just DON'T call this guy. Whatever you do...don't call him!
Your ex seems like a jerk. You deserve better..you really really do. Keep your chin up :)
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Okay lets pretend my name is Amanda. On facebook, he posts on my wall saying my name like "AMANDAAAAAA!!!!!!". The problem is we have a complicated history. I'm 16, and I've known him since elementary school. I used to generally call him a friend until a few months into 7th grade. I dont know what happened w/ him but he changed.. and became a jerk to everyone.
We used to be able to talk in class fine but since he changed he'd then make fun of me and stuff. Somewhere within all that I got a crush on him. And I told some stupid friend who told him about it.. and he told her that he only wanted to date blonde white people. Which is annoying because I hadnt liked him enough to want to date him. I wasnt thinking of asking him about it or flirting with him consciously. And his response is even more annoying, cause it just showed he's an a**hole.
So yeah it was pretty much awkward since. But we kept having one or two classes together year after year! This year, 10th grade, was the worst. Like sometimes he'd like borderline sexual harass me.. and just generally tried to piss me off or something, cause everytime I came to class he'd call my name like "Amandaaaaaa!" pretty obnoxiously. Nobody even liked him in school cause of his jerkiness. Even people he considered friends didnt like him. And he wasnt even that good looking. I cringe that I actually had a crush on him before.
So its just really complicated and I hope he doesnt think I still like him or if that just helps his ego. I usually let things slide and when he calls my name in the beginning of class or whenever I saw him in the hallway, I'd just ignore it but it always bothered me. I moved to a new town in a totally different state this February, and hadnt talked to him since.
But suddenly on facebook he made that comment. the "amandaaaa!!!" comment. and i have no idea how to respond to it. what should i say, what type of demeanor should I have? should i reply on his wall or make a comment in his reply on my page? (if you get what i mean) cause i really dont know how to handle such a weird situation like that. i dont desire to really talk to him in the future cause of his jerk-iness. he was one of the main people i was happy to leave behind once my family moved. im debating whether to delete him as a friend.. but if i did he'd obviously notice. ughhh fml HELP
And please don't tell me to just say "F*** you" cause Im a nice person.. and can't see myself doing that. I try to use sarcasm to get my point across. But the problem is I think he's being sarcastic too, dammit (link)
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Don't worry about being nice to him! You don't live near him, you don't like him, he annoys you, and he's a jerk! You can either unfriend him or block him- if you block him he won't be able to find you on facebook at all.
I have a friend who gets really annoyed by this boy who always texts her, but she always replies to him. But then she complains when he texts her. She doesn't get that if she ignores him he will stop, but if she replies she eggs him on to keep annoying her. Cut all ties and let him find someone else to badger!
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16/f
so a month ago my boyfriend of 8 months broke up with me and i was badgering him with questions because what he was saying wasnt quite making sense. but i know its time to move on. any tips of how i can?
and also i wanna be friends with him but its like how do i even do that? like do i casual talk with him? dont text him for a few weeks?
im still hurt by what he did and im still confused by it. i guess i just need help.
his reasons for breaking up with me were that things faded, he didnt have time and that i was more serious than him. and then he kept telling me that there was no one else. but i dont get why we couldnt just work it out?
im totally over him i just need more help.
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Hey girl!
I'm 20 years old and have been through my share of break ups. I have tried everything and I really believe the only thing that can completely heal you is time. I know that sounds so corny but it really is true. Distract yourself with friends, work, etc and eventually you will not even care about him. I dated a guy for three years and when we broke up, I thought I was over it in like 2 months but it really took about 10 months for me to COMPLETELY move on. It takes a while to remeber how to be single and live it up with your girls!! But once you get back in the dating game you will realize that it's fun to meet new guys and not always be tied down. So don't feel like you have to "do" something to get over him. Let the breakup run it's course and then you will be happy again :)
I also would not try to contact him untill you are absolutely sure you are completely over him. You can't just be friends with a guy even if you have the tiniest feelings for him. You said you still feel hurt and confused...so I think you should distance yourself from him as much as you can. He isn't a part of your life anymore. I know that is hard to hear and it might make you sad but if he hurt you like that he really shouldn't be in your life.
And also, you don't want him to think that you are sitting around thinking about him. Trust me, if you show him how confident you are and how well you are doing, he will think twice about what he did! And the longer you go without texting him, the more he will wonder why you aren't trying to contact him. It might seem like he broke up with you and doesn't care anymore....but he does. Boys just don't show it like girls do.
Anyway, I think you're better than him and will find your dream guy soon- one that won't ever hurt you :)
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17/f
So me and the guy im talking to (*codey*)were in his room fooling around. His dad and me are good friends when we make small talk and i can tell he approves of me. I'm just scared his dad thinks im a whore now because everytime i go over there codey always wants to go to his room and hang out so i do. Well yesterday, we were fooling around and my boobs were hanging out and his dad walks in right at that moment. I was so freaked out. Now im scared to go over there again because im so ebarrased. I dont want his dad not to like me but he probably thinks im a slut or something. What do i do? (link)
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Awwww....I feel like this has happened to every teenager at one point!! I know it has happened to me lol. But I'm sure it's fine. It's embarrassing and a really awkward situation, but if Codey's dad let y'all go up to his room by yourselves..he probably knew you guys were messin around. If he brings it up just appologize, if he jokes about it just be like "oh you know us teenagers!" and laugh along with him. And if he doesn't mention anything- act like everything is normal! Once when I was like 17 or 18 my mom was like "It's not that parents don't know that teenagers hookup- we just try to make it hard for you guys." If worst comes to worst just over appologize and be really sincere!
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what would you do if your ex said that he would kill himself if you didn't get back together with him? and completely means it. if he refuses to go to therapy and you've done everything you can but you don't want to be with him but definetly don't want him to commit suicide? (link)
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I agree with rainbowcherrie. You absolutely cannot get back with him just because he is threatening that- and you definitely should not be in a relationship with someone so unstable. Call an emergency number! Suicide is not a joke, and he should not be threatening you like that.
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im 13 & Me & my friends go to a place called the rattlesnake saloon & there is a guy there thats around my age & he sings a couple songs. I went twice & he kept staring at me & smiling to his self. the 3rd time i went my friend came & now shes in to him to. me & my friend walked on top of the cave & after a min. he came up ther too. on our way down we had to pass him and he kept turin his head to look at us & my friend kept saying that he was lookn at her but im not sure & i really like him & i want him to pick me over her. i think he likes me because wen i was alone he always had his eyes on me!! what do i do to get him? (link)
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Hey girl! Next time you are there try to make direct eye contact with him...and once you get it, don't look away for like 10 or 15 seconds. While you have eye contact smile and wave at him. That will definitely give him the hint to come up and talk to you! I prefer for a guy to come up to me, but if he isn't getting the hint you could always go up and talk to him. You could just say something subtle like, "You sing really well, how long have you been singing for?" or somehing really forward like, "I've seen you here before- why don't we ever hangout?!" You could also just walk up to him and straight up introduce yourself. Don't be nervous to show him that you're interested! If you don't do something he will never figure it out...he's a boy! And beat your friend to it!!
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Okay so i'm going to madison, wisconsin for college and I feel like everyone there drinks. Like I think a lot of the bars there are just full of college kids a lot of the time. How do they get away with this? Do they have fake ids? Or are the places just more relaxed about underage drinking? I'm not really a big drinker, i'm just curious. (link)
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Although freshman and sophomores in college are not old enough to legally drink in bars, some juniors and most seniors are 21 years old. I'm sure some kids do have fake ID's, but I would not reccomend this for many reasons:
1. If you get caught, you will be in BIG trouble. Like big big big trouble. They will definitely take your ID and they can charge you (I'm not exactly sure with what charges- but I know they can)
2. In college towns they usually ask for more than one form of ID. They know there are a lot of underaged kids with fakes. So having a fake won't do you any good if they ask for another form.
3. Drinks at bars are expensive, never mind the cab ride to and from the bar! Start saving up for when youre 21 now!
That being said I'm sure there will be many apartment parties around for you to attend. And if you arent comfortable drinking, you can still have a good time! And getting introuble for underage drinking is not worth a night of fun!
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Ok..well do they really mean something? I had a dream that I left my boy friend for my ex..
I just recently was put threw the stress of him still loving me and wanting to be with me, but I chose to stay with my bf. :) I love my boy friend, and I don't want to leave him..but why would i dream this? My boy friend says its because I do have feeling for him, and now he's joking that i'll leave him. When I don't want to..
My boyfriend also had a dream about his friend Aly..and they were hugging and she was about to say that she loves him, but than comes a helocopter? haha Well, shes a lesbian so its not like they dated but he said he likes her,shes a really good friend of his..he says he probably dreamed of her because he misses hanging out with her..and that the hugging was from when one of alys gfs broke up with her and my bf was comforting her..so yeah? Do i have anything to worry about..for either of these? (link)
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Hey girl, I really don't think you have anything to worry about! You probably just dreamed about your ex because he has been on your mind recently. You also might subconsiously be thinking what would happen if you did get back with him. But you seem to be really happy with your current boyfriend! He probably joking about it because he is a little worried you will leave him. I don't know your whole situation but I'm sure it wasn't easy for him when your ex started coming back around. So just reassure him that he's the one you want!
And as for your boyfriends dream, there could be a million reasons why he is dreaming about his lesbian friend hugging him. But I wouldn't worry, it was probably just a weird dream!
Good Luck!
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