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How do I respond to this annoying guy (long-ish, please HELP)
Okay lets pretend my name is Amanda. On facebook, he posts on my wall saying my name like "AMANDAAAAAA!!!!!!". The problem is we have a complicated history. I'm 16, and I've known him since elementary school. I used to generally call him a friend until a few months into 7th grade. I dont know what happened w/ him but he changed.. and became a jerk to everyone.
We used to be able to talk in class fine but since he changed he'd then make fun of me and stuff. Somewhere within all that I got a crush on him. And I told some stupid friend who told him about it.. and he told her that he only wanted to date blonde white people. Which is annoying because I hadnt liked him enough to want to date him. I wasnt thinking of asking him about it or flirting with him consciously. And his response is even more annoying, cause it just showed he's an a**hole.
So yeah it was pretty much awkward since. But we kept having one or two classes together year after year! This year, 10th grade, was the worst. Like sometimes he'd like borderline sexual harass me.. and just generally tried to piss me off or something, cause everytime I came to class he'd call my name like "Amandaaaaaa!" pretty obnoxiously. Nobody even liked him in school cause of his jerkiness. Even people he considered friends didnt like him. And he wasnt even that good looking. I cringe that I actually had a crush on him before.
So its just really complicated and I hope he doesnt think I still like him or if that just helps his ego. I usually let things slide and when he calls my name in the beginning of class or whenever I saw him in the hallway, I'd just ignore it but it always bothered me. I moved to a new town in a totally different state this February, and hadnt talked to him since.
But suddenly on facebook he made that comment. the "amandaaaa!!!" comment. and i have no idea how to respond to it. what should i say, what type of demeanor should I have? should i reply on his wall or make a comment in his reply on my page? (if you get what i mean) cause i really dont know how to handle such a weird situation like that. i dont desire to really talk to him in the future cause of his jerk-iness. he was one of the main people i was happy to leave behind once my family moved. im debating whether to delete him as a friend.. but if i did he'd obviously notice. ughhh fml HELP
And please don't tell me to just say "F*** you" cause Im a nice person.. and can't see myself doing that. I try to use sarcasm to get my point across. But the problem is I think he's being sarcastic too, dammit
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Don't worry about being nice to him! You don't live near him, you don't like him, he annoys you, and he's a jerk! You can either unfriend him or block him- if you block him he won't be able to find you on facebook at all.
I have a friend who gets really annoyed by this boy who always texts her, but she always replies to him. But then she complains when he texts her. She doesn't get that if she ignores him he will stop, but if she replies she eggs him on to keep annoying her. Cut all ties and let him find someone else to badger!
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You should ignore it, and take steps so that he can't post there again if at all possible. Pretend he does not exist, and he will eventually get bored and leave you alone. If you can delete the wall comment, do so.
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