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so embarrased.
17/f
So me and the guy im talking to (*codey*)were in his room fooling around. His dad and me are good friends when we make small talk and i can tell he approves of me. I'm just scared his dad thinks im a whore now because everytime i go over there codey always wants to go to his room and hang out so i do. Well yesterday, we were fooling around and my boobs were hanging out and his dad walks in right at that moment. I was so freaked out. Now im scared to go over there again because im so ebarrased. I dont want his dad not to like me but he probably thinks im a slut or something. What do i do?
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It is an awkward situation but like the others have said, his dad isn't stupid, he was a teenager once himself and he knows what they get up to.
Find out from 'the guy you're talking to' what the situation is - whether or not his dad mentioned it to him and if he's angry about it. If he hasn't mentioned it to his son or isn't angry, it's unlikely he'd be angry with you.
Yes it's awkward but once you get over the initial embarassment it'll be fine.
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Awwww....I feel like this has happened to every teenager at one point!! I know it has happened to me lol. But I'm sure it's fine. It's embarrassing and a really awkward situation, but if Codey's dad let y'all go up to his room by yourselves..he probably knew you guys were messin around. If he brings it up just appologize, if he jokes about it just be like "oh you know us teenagers!" and laugh along with him. And if he doesn't mention anything- act like everything is normal! Once when I was like 17 or 18 my mom was like "It's not that parents don't know that teenagers hookup- we just try to make it hard for you guys." If worst comes to worst just over appologize and be really sincere!
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aw hun! I know this could be difficult... not to mention AKWARD! But things happen and life goes on.. I can tell you like this boy, Cody, so I don't think you should just forget about him. I know based on past relationships how meaningful the dates parents are to us. We care for some wierd reason... well... what I think is ... he probably doesn't think you are a slut (I am sure he was 17 some time too!!) and he probably feels just as akward as you do/ his son! Here are two options. Option one is to ignore it and maybe not go into your bfs room any more for a while until it passes... maybe not go to his house AS MUCH. Option two is to just sit in the living room with your bf his&his dad and just apologize reassure him that it will never occur again and perhaps even mention you will leave the door open every single time you go to your bfs room until his father is comofertable with him closing the door again... good luck girly!
xo - charlie
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First, I'm so sorry this happened! But trust me, this happens to the best of us.. and months from now (or years from now) you'll be hysterically laughing about it.
It's probably better that his dad walked in, rather than a mom, because mothers are not so understanding when it comes to their sons and their girlfriends, and are especially not understanding when they walk into a situation like that. At least you can be a little relieved about that. The thing is, your friend/boyfriend (whatever his relationship is to you) should speak on your behalf. Let him know how embarrassed you are and ask him to please tell his dad how upset you are about the incident. I know it might seem weird for him to apologize and do all the talking, but if you approached his father, you'd both be embarrassed and it'd be incredibly awkward, putting his father in that position. Make sure this guy expresses to his dad how you are not slutty in anyway and things just got intense at that time. Good luck!
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