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so confused ..
18female.
so i recently met this guy, about a month ago. the more we started hanging out, the more i fell for him. he knows i've had a ton of trouble with guys in the past and he told me he'd never give me a reason to not trust him and he would never hurt me. i met all his friends and he never once left me, he holds my hand in front of all of them, he cuddles with me, he calls me babe ..and he told me he liked me. well just now i go on his facebook and this girl asks when he's going up to his cabin and that he better be there and he says something like .."yeah i'll be up there, are you bringing any other hotties up there besides yourself haha :)" and seeing that, my heart literally dropped. i was like what the hell?? i don't want to bring it up to him, because that would just be creepy and kind of like i'm obsessed with him or something you know? but i'm honestly hurt, although we're not officially together, i didn't think he was talking to other girls like that..
what should i do? should i say something to him? should i leave it alone? ugh i don't know, advice, anything please :(
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Well that's kind of weird since your not together. You should ask him about it. because when you dating someone you must ask to fine out or you'll most likley end up playing yourself. Plus why are you holding hands with him and cuddling if you dont know if he's yours, ask him where he wants to go in the realtionship and don't flirt with any guy like that unless you know for sho that he's yours cause he could be playing you if you don't check it out.
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Ugh yeah that is so annoying. I wouldn't directly confront him about the comment because even tho us girls know that facebook stalking is perfectly acceptable (I mean, don't get a facebook if you don't want to get stalked right? lol) he might be freaked out. But anyway, I wouldn't directly ask him about the comment but maybe ask him about where your relationship is headed. Make it clear that you aren't trying to be like "omg be my boyfriend" but that you do want to know if he is getting serious or if it's just a summer hookup. If you are happy with the way things are right now, I wouldn't say anything. But you seem really hurt by that comment and you have a right to ask him how serious he is about you.
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I think you should confront him but by expressing your feelings and Tell him what you want out of this and see if he in it for the same If he is then you already what type of guy he is from the facebook comment and just be caution. And say how you felt by what you saw. But if he isn't in it then you know it was just a fling. And to approach to that topic I think you should talk face to face because if it's thru phone he'll probably try to avoid so go out to lunch or something. Around a comfortable and talking enviorment.
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