me and my friend always talk a lot, we're really good friends, we may argue but only playfully, she would always call me and talk to me a lot, but lately she doesnt call me and she doesnt really talk to me that much anymore and when i joke around with her like we always do,she somewhat plays along with me but after a while she just gets mad at me, she is acting kind of distant around me, and im not doing anything about this at all, i dont know why but im scared to tell her that why she hasnt been acting the way shes been acting and im just letting things happenened and its making me sad but i dont have the guts to tell her, why am i not doing anything and why is she acting that way? am i overreacting?
kiran answered Sunday June 20 2010, 11:30 pm: There could be lots of reasons why she's acting like that. Maybe she's looking for something different, different people, different things. She could be getting bored or maybe tired of the jokes? Who knows. I'm not saying this is what is happening but there are lots of possibilities. Maybe you are looking into it too deep? But either way you should just go talk to her. You guys seem close so I don't think it'd be a problem if you were like, "hey, I want to ask you a question" Then be like, "Are you mad at me or is there anything thats going on with us?" If she tells you its nothing, explain to her why you feel that way. She might clear some things up and maybe you might fix it. Just try and talk to her. Good luck! [ kiran's advice column | Ask kiran A Question ]
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