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confused
FEMALE.
okay, me and my boyfriend have been going out for nearly a year. I really do love him and everything and he wants to be with me forever. We plan to get a flat together after he finishes college and it sounds like such a great future.
Exept sometimes, I feel as if i dont like him as much and that i want to be with other people. Its just that, i lost my virginity to him so i feel like if i am with him forever, I will never get to sleep with another person or have different sexual experiences. I dont want to dump him though because i love him more than anything in the world and i know it would tear us apart if i did. He crys sometimes because he thinks i will dump him but other times i feel he doesnt apreciate me :S please please please help
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if you love him so much then it shouldnt matter if u want different sexual experiences then you should tell him things you want him to do in bed
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If sex is the deciding factor then it's time to break it off for the boy's sake.
Seriously.
Love should be more important than getting to sleep with 10 guys. You don't usually realize that until you've done the damage and can't turn back the clock.
But if it's more important and you're worried then that's the truth of it. There's no point in hanging on to a boy when you want to be free to sleep with other people. You end up encouraging yourself to cheat and begin a cycle of hurting this guy over and over (and yourself in the process, but you won't see that at first).
Get out now so he can heal and move on and you can do whatever it is that you think you want to do. You're causing him pain right now by just hanging on to something you truly, deep down inside, don't want at this point. Let him go.
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You really shouldn't be in a relationship if you're feeling that way- it will destroy it. The best thing to do is to talk to him and take a break for a while so you can get over those feelings.
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you should give him a chance
and after if he blow it
ask yourself this question
is it worthy to be with someone that doesnt appreciate me?
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