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FEMALE.
okay, me and my boyfriend have been going out for nearly a year. I really do love him and everything and he wants to be with me forever. We plan to get a flat together after he finishes college and it sounds like such a great future.
Exept sometimes, I feel as if i dont like him as much and that i want to be with other people. Its just that, i lost my virginity to him so i feel like if i am with him forever, I will never get to sleep with another person or have different sexual experiences. I dont want to dump him though because i love him more than anything in the world and i know it would tear us apart if i did. He crys sometimes because he thinks i will dump him but other times i feel he doesnt apreciate me :S please please please help

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i'm a girl, 16. i have a friend, her name is Alexis, but lets call her "LEXIS" for short. Ok, so Lexis has been dateing this guy named Jim for about 4 and a 1/2 months. Well yesterday she found out that he's... he's not the sharpest tool in the shead. she found out that he get's a check for $700 dollars a month. Now she's not a gold digger, not a gold digger at all, she's more of a image person. so last night she called me and told me she was going to break up with him because, she "cant't be seen wit a slow person." I thought that was mean of her but befor i could tell her what i thought her uncle was calling and we hung up. So i talked to my other friend and 50% said that her reason for breaking up with him is shallow and the other 50% said that it was not.

my question is, is she shallow for breaking up with him for that reason, or is that a good reason to break up with a person?

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where do u live? please i need help!

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soo i was doing some facebook stalking of a good friend of mine. and she has alot of pictures with this one guy, so they're good friends. he is the most attractive guy i've ever seen haha. i added him as a friend and sent him a message like a week ago but he didn't say anything back:/ not to be cocky but i'm a pretty goodlooking girl. should i tell my friend i want to meet him? or would that just be creepy? anyy advice?

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I've known my best friend since 4th grade, and we're almost 20 now. She's been dating her boyfriend for a while. Her boyfriend and my boyfriend used to be best friends, but there was a bunch of drama a while back and they stopped talking. Recently, we all started talking again and everything seemed fine. But today, my friend called me and said that ever since our boyfriends have started talking again, he's been really mean to her and has been acting like he doesn't need her anymore. This was definitely not what me and my boyfriend wanted, we thought it would make everything better since we could all hang out again without the awkwardness. But he's been calling her names and telling her what to do, and just acting weird. Any advice for this situation?

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Basically, I've been going out with my boyfriend for 4 months now. He's 16 and I'm 14, so hes leaving school soon.
Im just really worried about him leaving. Going to college, meeting other girls, possibly moving on. :(
it really stresses me out thinking about it, cos I really am in love with him. Obviously because im young people will think it's stupid for me to think I'm in love :/
but to be honest only i know how I feel and I don't want to ditch all my friends for him but i cant really help it? :S
I love spending time with him and he says he wants to be with me forever.

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In your opinion do you think a 15 year old girl and a 16 year old boy have a long distance relationship? Do you think it would be worth it or not?
Thanks!

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I just want to know what the "look" is? Is it like "oh my, she's perfect, I want her"? I don't know like my one friend tried to explain it by saying you know it's the look because the guy's eyes will get softer and his face will get calmer. I don't understand. So, please explain it and explain if I know when I'm getting the "look". Thanks!

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okay, so i don't know how to start this off but im 18 and a female. I'm very close with my mom and not so close with my dad. Growing up he was always like into politics, and always not home and out and about doing whatever he wants. He couldnt drink because he had diabetes and he was overweight and what not. i have an older brother and sister who are in their 30s and my dad was really close with my brother. but now that the both of them have moved out and have families hes never home to be wiht me. So as you can see like i never really have had a bond with my dad..like i dont talk to him about anything, fill him in with my life because hes never home. So recently maybe 4 months ago? he got the bipass suergy i think thats what its called to make him skinny or whatever? so since this he doesnt have diabetes anymore. the first like two months were good and for the past two months hes been drinking alllll the time. like its getting annoying because how could it not? my mom has been getting into fihgts with him and tells him that she thinks hes drinking too much but he just thinks shes wrong and says that "we don't understand him" he comes home around 3 or 4 all the time. he works, comes home at 6 eats goes out at maybe 7 and then comes home at 3 or 3. but anyway this week it just got so bad that he comes home and wakes us up during a school night and i was up till 3 ro 5 in the morning listening to him. last night sussobly he got a flat tire, and he kept calling and calling and calling the phone at 2 in the morning, like obviously we are not going to pick it up because its him probably being drunk. anyway i dont know like how anyone could help me? im too afraid to talk to my dad because weve never had a bond or anything and my mom tires sometimes but he always flips out at her. my brother needs to have like have a few drinks in him to even say anything like that to my dad and my sister just doesnt think anything of it. i dont know how to like help it because i want him to stop drinking and like be a real dad to me, i also dont want my parents to split up because my mom said to me earlier today that shes really close on saying "either you choose your family or your alochol" and she said something for him not coming back. and i dont want that. idk if anyone could help? maybe if anyone has been in this position before? or knows someone or anything. thanks sorry that this is so long too

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17/f
so there's this guy at my school that I think I kinda like. I feel soo dumb for havin a sort of crush bein 17 but I can't exclactly help it. Okay so the problem is he doesn't have a facebook an I don't have his number so i don't know that to do...I have pe with him but I don't know how to just go up and randomly start talkin to him. And how would I get his number if I did because I don't wanna seem like a creeper. We have hung out once before at my best friends block party but thy was a while ago and we barely talk. I get the feelin that if I were to take initiative that he would want to talk to me but I just don't know how!!! Please help I wanna talk to him but don't know how to go about it! Thanks in advance!!

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I'm 18 years old and a girl. I've been with my boyfriend for a little over a year and a half. We dont really fight much but when we do its usually about his family. They dont like me at all. Which i think its fine doesnt bother but what i dont like is that they want me to respect them when their constantly saying things about me and mean things to me. His older brother who's 23 calls me immature and tells me i need to grow up. He's always making fun of me and once he even said he's gonna burn his clothes because he touched me. if that isnt bad enough my boyfriends sister hates me too now i called someone a jerk and she thought i meant her brother and now is giving a bunch of crap when it didnt even deal with their family.
I'm tired of all theses things and i really dont know if i should break up with my boyfriend or just tell his siblings to butt out of it? Anybody got advice for me??

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I was molested when I was between 6-8 years old. It's funny in a sick way because I can't even remember how old I actually way, I can't remember the names of the two boys, I can hardly even remember the sex. I remember the fear so vividly that my heart's racing as Im'm typing this. It's also funny because a decade passed where I didn't feel anything about what happened. I never cried about it, talked about it, I barely entertained the thought of it, not because it was painful but because it was like an errant thought. It was like losing your tooth, just a part of life. I actually feel immensely stupid now when I think of all the effects of that incident that I never recognized to have been caused by that. Until a couple days ago, I never even associated the word 'molested,' with what happened. It was just a thing. Recently, this scrawny, awkward, pathetic boy decided to 'stalk,' me. I could've broken him in two if I wanted, but he scared the life out of me and I didn't understand why. The next day I found myself on the bathroom floor crying like I'd never thought I would over something that seemed so unimportant. I wanted to cut myself and I wanted to bleed and feel pain like I'd never felt it before- that was the first time in months I ever got the urge to cut. I wanted every vice I could lay my hands on to drown myself in the ridiculious nature of my problems. I never realized that my molestation was the reason I'd be afraid of a room of men, or that I was afraid when my boyfriend (at the time) tried to hold on to me or kiss me aggresively, that I hated intimacy with people of any sort, that I hated any man who'd disrespect my body in any way. It's like someone telling you that you were asleep for 10 years and you've been woken up to a world u don't want to be in. I've been through hell and back...but molestation....can that, something I barely remember yet so vividly feel, could have really been controlling my life for so long? It hurts me in the pit of my stomach and at the back of my throat when I think about it, and now I have to deal with this thing that I've let control me for so long. I cud've dealt with it if it happened recently, but a decade ago..I don't know where to begin. I feel stupid and helpless and I don't even know what i'm trying to ask.

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~Male,15~ . I met this girl at a military ball on Saturday (last weekend).Then on Monday we started talking more and we start going to the basement of the school ever since Monday to Hug up on each other ( other peoples be down there sometime to). Here come my first problem i don't know when the right time to kiss her and i don't want to talk to her about it ( so any advice on that am thankful for). Now i got her friends walking up to me threaten me.Today her friend told me to keep my hand off her ( the girl i like). I ignored her and walk away and i still didn't keep my hands off and my girl don't know nothing about her friend walking up to me cause i didn't tell her. Me and her business is spreading around the school like HIV. here my last problem i don't know if she playing me or if she for real ( she don't got a phone). I been told she be on lock down after school. So i don't know she got a lot of friends ( boy and girls). i don't want to talk to her about it. Cause if she is playing me i rather just not know about it ( but i want to find out :(. cause i had past relationships problem. and my heart can't take another heartbreak

Thank :D ( sorry if it to long)

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So me and my ex are friends. I really miss her and want to show her I care. This month is really hard for her because her mom passed away 2 years ago. What can I do to show her I care and I am there for her?

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I'm 15 and I recently started talking to this guy, lets just call him matt for now, and he seems really, really nice. His mate was being a dick to me and he stood up for me. He always flirts with me and always seems to find excuse to touch me (not in the rude way :P)
I think I really like this kid and I think he has some feelings for me too.
My parents are kinda strict. They dont want me to go out with this nationality because they're like this and like that. And if they catch me going out with someone from this country or that country they'll skits it at me.
They have like a list of nationalities that my boyfriends cant be.
and Matt unfortunately is on that list.
I don't want to say what he is or where he's from because I don't want to offend anyone.
I dont know what to do. I like him alot but his nationality kinda scares me because of the stories that I hear.
I know you shouldn't believe everything you hear but I can't help it.
I like him and I want my parents to approve of us going out. I want them to like him but if they find out his nationality I don't think they'll give him a chance.

I'm really confused.

Any help or suggestions will be greatly appreciated.
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do you always bleed when you lose your virginity? can you feel your cherry with your fingers? can you pop it that way? or does it NEED to be intercorse?

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whats some suggestions what to say to guys when having phone sex? like what to say talking dirty?
what sexy things to say to a guy to turn them on?

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Hi, I'm fifteen and female. Like most girls, I have a guy best friend, he has been my friend since 3rd grade, I am now in 10th grade as is he. He's my everything, I got to him with every single problem and he helps me and everything is fine if I handle it the way he tells me. I think I can honestly say he knows everything about me. I cried in front of him, I talk to him on the phone, I text him practically every night, but we don't hang out outside of school, I know you're probably thinking "if your best friends, why are you only together in school?" I don't really know the answer I just know we don't hang out. He is in three of my periods in school, one being band, the other lunch and the last, history. In band we really don't talk to each other because it's the morning and every one is still tired. In lunch, I bring him his favorite pack of crackers because he loves them, he always smiles and is happy when I have them for him. Then, there's history, I suck in that class and he always helps me, I could text him at 11.3o on a school night to ask for help on the homework and he will answer me. He's just the best. He makes me happy. Umm, he used to like a girl that did not treat him right and I did not like her one bit, after things cooled down between them I told him I didn't like her and he said "I really appreciate you looking out for me. We're only friends now, I'm over her." and for some reason it made me extremely happy. Next is his friend, he told me that my guy friend went to a concert and met a girl, I was cool with it because my friend really started diggin her but it was only a night. Next thing I know, my friend's dousche friend started a rumor that I got "jealous" when he told me about him meeting this girl now everyone thinks I like him. People don't make fun of him though, everyone in my high school says he likes me. My closest friends they can tell just in the way he looks at me, you can see in the eyes when they're looking at someone they really care about. We joke around together a lot, he normally never starts conversations but in the last few we've had, he started them. Umm, what else, he plays songs on his guitar for me when I'm sad because he knows I like that. He also writes songs on his guitar, he sent me one and it's about being together, no more lies no more distances, no nothing. I asked him who it was about and he said he writes his songs about his friends because nothing ever happens in his life. He always used to tell me who he likes and I've been asking him who he likes now and he just answers "eh, nobody, really" and he tells me some things he doesn't even tell his guy best friend about his brother. He also is wearing one of my fun bandz rubber band animals, he said he wears it all the time, even though the night before he was going on and on about how much he hates bracelets. I also got him to go to a dance, after about 20 texts of me saying I really want him there, he came and sat at my table with me and his friends. Lastly, he kinda suffers with low confidence and such so he can get kind of depressed, he has this girl who likes him a lot but he didn't have the heart to tell her that he doesn't feel the same so he had me do it. So, do you think he likes me? Thanks!

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I love to masturbate, orgasm, and watch gay/lez porn.I have a boyfriend, and I think females are gross and would never date one or have sex with one. ButI only get turned on by gay/lz porn, Could I be a lesbian
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