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My Relationship problems... what should i do?
~Male,15~ . I met this girl at a military ball on Saturday (last weekend).Then on Monday we started talking more and we start going to the basement of the school ever since Monday to Hug up on each other ( other peoples be down there sometime to). Here come my first problem i don't know when the right time to kiss her and i don't want to talk to her about it ( so any advice on that am thankful for). Now i got her friends walking up to me threaten me.Today her friend told me to keep my hand off her ( the girl i like). I ignored her and walk away and i still didn't keep my hands off and my girl don't know nothing about her friend walking up to me cause i didn't tell her. Me and her business is spreading around the school like HIV. here my last problem i don't know if she playing me or if she for real ( she don't got a phone). I been told she be on lock down after school. So i don't know she got a lot of friends ( boy and girls). i don't want to talk to her about it. Cause if she is playing me i rather just not know about it ( but i want to find out :(. cause i had past relationships problem. and my heart can't take another heartbreak
Thank :D ( sorry if it to long)
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you should not care about what other people are saying about you twos, if you like her a lot just dont care about other people are saying, and there is no right moment top wait to kiss , if you are ready take a chance
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Well I kind of think that the girl you like goes around telling her friends what you two do together, and her friends don't like that, so they come and threaten you, whether she knows about this or not, it wouldn't really matter.
And honestly, i don't think this is serious, cause you've only known each other for like a couple of days, and you hugging each other is completely nothing serious, and you don't really know anything about her to trust her, and it doesn't seem to me like you do anything but hug each other, i mean, if she doesn't even talk on the phone with you, then when do you actually talk or get to know each other.
I think you should be careful, and you should know the person you say that you like before you actually get serious about her.But from what you said, there is just something about her that you can't trust it, and yes its like she's just fooling around or having fun, not actually liking you and being serious about what you two have together.
So my suggestion is to back out, cause she's not the one, or if your convinced and you see something different here, then know her first, try to talk to her more, in school or something, ask her things about her, about her family, try to know her friends, maybe if you know them, they'd like you and you'd like them. And try to actually make your business official, not something that you hide in the basement, maybe thats why her friends think its wrong or think that you are playing her.
And don't kiss her, not just yet, give it time. And there are no steps on how or when to kiss her or when is the right time. A kiss comes out of love and feeling, which you obviously both don't have yet.
Hope i helped, please be free to contact me if you need anything else. Best of luck :D
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This isn't a relationship yet at all. You are just hanging out right now. Sometimes that does lead to anything more.
You have to admit, that based on the way everyone is acting, maybe she doesn't want to hang out with you anymore. You should ask her, simply and calmly, if she wasnts to spend time with you anymore. It doesn't mean you're getting 'played' if she just isn't interested in you.
Next time you see her, give her a chance to end it respectfully and face to face. Only once you but the 'Hey, do you actually like me?" chat behind you, will you know how/if to kiss her.
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