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is there a spark?
Hi, I'm fifteen and female. Like most girls, I have a guy best friend, he has been my friend since 3rd grade, I am now in 10th grade as is he. He's my everything, I got to him with every single problem and he helps me and everything is fine if I handle it the way he tells me. I think I can honestly say he knows everything about me. I cried in front of him, I talk to him on the phone, I text him practically every night, but we don't hang out outside of school, I know you're probably thinking "if your best friends, why are you only together in school?" I don't really know the answer I just know we don't hang out. He is in three of my periods in school, one being band, the other lunch and the last, history. In band we really don't talk to each other because it's the morning and every one is still tired. In lunch, I bring him his favorite pack of crackers because he loves them, he always smiles and is happy when I have them for him. Then, there's history, I suck in that class and he always helps me, I could text him at 11.3o on a school night to ask for help on the homework and he will answer me. He's just the best. He makes me happy. Umm, he used to like a girl that did not treat him right and I did not like her one bit, after things cooled down between them I told him I didn't like her and he said "I really appreciate you looking out for me. We're only friends now, I'm over her." and for some reason it made me extremely happy. Next is his friend, he told me that my guy friend went to a concert and met a girl, I was cool with it because my friend really started diggin her but it was only a night. Next thing I know, my friend's dousche friend started a rumor that I got "jealous" when he told me about him meeting this girl now everyone thinks I like him. People don't make fun of him though, everyone in my high school says he likes me. My closest friends they can tell just in the way he looks at me, you can see in the eyes when they're looking at someone they really care about. We joke around together a lot, he normally never starts conversations but in the last few we've had, he started them. Umm, what else, he plays songs on his guitar for me when I'm sad because he knows I like that. He also writes songs on his guitar, he sent me one and it's about being together, no more lies no more distances, no nothing. I asked him who it was about and he said he writes his songs about his friends because nothing ever happens in his life. He always used to tell me who he likes and I've been asking him who he likes now and he just answers "eh, nobody, really" and he tells me some things he doesn't even tell his guy best friend about his brother. He also is wearing one of my fun bandz rubber band animals, he said he wears it all the time, even though the night before he was going on and on about how much he hates bracelets. I also got him to go to a dance, after about 20 texts of me saying I really want him there, he came and sat at my table with me and his friends. Lastly, he kinda suffers with low confidence and such so he can get kind of depressed, he has this girl who likes him a lot but he didn't have the heart to tell her that he doesn't feel the same so he had me do it. So, do you think he likes me? Thanks!
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Yeah. Completely. And you're into him. This is both adorable and hilarious.
You're going to end up dating. You should probably start moving in that direction sooner rather than later, before you both drive each other insane.
Poor kid. Kiss him. Seriously. You've obviously been swirling around this without a definite move in any direction for far too long. He's into you, take advantage of it.
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thas is a very sweet story, i wish i was you
i will say that he is in love with you, but he doesnt know how to say that to you or he he think that if he tell you that he is in love with you its going to ruin our friendship
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Honestly, it's relly hard to tell since you two are such great friends. It looks like you two have such a great friendship :)
I think that there is definitely a possibility that he likes you, but I think he's scared to say something. Since he has low confidence, he probably thinks that if he told you and you rejected him it would ruin your friendship.
If other people are able to tell by the way he looks at you, then I would say that he probably does like you. It wouldn't be surprising since people who are friends for so long end up getting into really great long-term relationships since they have known eachother so long.
I also think that it's adorable that he sings song to you on the guitar when you're sad. That's definitely a big hint :)
It is hard to be sure though, so I wouldn't come right out and say it just incase he doesn't. Try dropping little hints just like he is, and maybe try to find out who he likes. Ask questions like, "What color hair does she have? Do I know her?" Stuff like that.
Other than that, good luck and I hope it all turns out :D
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