So me and my ex are friends. I really miss her and want to show her I care. This month is really hard for her because her mom passed away 2 years ago. What can I do to show her I care and I am there for her?
Lola answered Tuesday March 23 2010, 2:49 am: 'Be there' its simple as that. Call her up alot( but not in a stalking way :P) and ask about her. And maybe if she visits her mom at the cemetery or something, you could actually offer to come along or surprise her by being there when she shows up, and bring flowers or something, maybe say nice words about her mom.
You can ask to take her out, just to hang out to make her feel a bit better instead of her staying home and crying or something.
You could also tell her that you care and that you want to be there and that your making an effort, and if she needs anything that you'll readily do for her.
Its the matter of showing that you care is the most important, not the actions, and she'll appreciate it and be grateful, and maybe she still cares about you too, and maybe her mom's thing is a good way of rekindling back what you once had, so don't lose that chance.
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