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I always seem to fall for the guys that I cant have.
I'm 15 and I recently started talking to this guy, lets just call him matt for now, and he seems really, really nice. His mate was being a dick to me and he stood up for me. He always flirts with me and always seems to find excuse to touch me (not in the rude way :P)
I think I really like this kid and I think he has some feelings for me too.
My parents are kinda strict. They dont want me to go out with this nationality because they're like this and like that. And if they catch me going out with someone from this country or that country they'll skits it at me.
They have like a list of nationalities that my boyfriends cant be.
and Matt unfortunately is on that list.
I don't want to say what he is or where he's from because I don't want to offend anyone.
I dont know what to do. I like him alot but his nationality kinda scares me because of the stories that I hear.
I know you shouldn't believe everything you hear but I can't help it.
I like him and I want my parents to approve of us going out. I want them to like him but if they find out his nationality I don't think they'll give him a chance.
I'm really confused.
Any help or suggestions will be greatly appreciated.
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I think that you should talk to him about how you feel and see if he feels the same. If so, and you guys want to take it to the next step, then go ahead =]. About your parents, I think you should tell them that their parents didn't set up rules about the nationality of their mates and it would be unfair to do the same to you. If he really loves you for you, and wants to be the best he can for you, then they should approve and be happy for you.
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i think that if you really like him then you should try it. maybe talk to your parents about it or dont tell them just yet.
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first of all when your parent tell you those story, i know that it is not hard to not trust them or ignore them. but you have to put in your hand that we are all different, maybe that matt kid is different form other and it will work our between you guys for a long time, you still young ( the same age with me) , at this age when you fall for a guy its hard for them to share the same feeling as we do, if the guy likes you, you should go for it, and let your parent know that matt is different from other people, he is sweet and he will not do anytthing to hurt you. tell your parent to give him a chance because you cant say no to love when is comming to you .....
good luck , peace
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First of all, if you between you and yourself think that its okay for him to have this nationality and for you to be with him when he has this nationality, then its your business and no one can stop you, you could lie about his nationality to your parents, and when time passes and you get involved with him, and then you have to tell your parents the truth, it would be hard for them to reject this after all this time and after you being so inlove and committed, and they'd see that you went to his length to be with this guy meaning that you really do like him. But you have to be convinced with what your fighting for, to be convinced that its okay with yourself to be with him.
I know your parents might be mad then when you actually finally tell them, but between them and themselves, they'd know why you did this and that you really do love him. But let's just hope that things are really serious and that you really LOVE him, cause if its not, then your just involving yourself in something that is not worth it and lying to your parents and stuff. Is he like 'the one' or is it just that you have this crush and so you think that he's the one. Cause usually when you do get to know someone really closely, you sometimes don't find him as what you thought he'd be, and maybe you wouldn't like him that way, as in dating him, maybe you'd then rather he was just your friend, and besides, your still too young, and its not like a love story and that you have to be with him cause you can't live without him, so i'd rather you didn't cause trouble with your parents at a young age.
I'm sure their are many other guys who are on the good list of your parents and would like you and love you and want to be with you and, being with them wouldn't cause you so much trouble. So try to think about this again, and i'm sure even if not now, but by time, you'll see that this was just a phase and a crush, and it wasn't really worth it.
Hope i helped, if you need anything else, please be free to contact me. Best of luck :D
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