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i love him so much
Basically, I've been going out with my boyfriend for 4 months now. He's 16 and I'm 14, so hes leaving school soon.
Im just really worried about him leaving. Going to college, meeting other girls, possibly moving on. :(
it really stresses me out thinking about it, cos I really am in love with him. Obviously because im young people will think it's stupid for me to think I'm in love :/
but to be honest only i know how I feel and I don't want to ditch all my friends for him but i cant really help it? :S
I love spending time with him and he says he wants to be with me forever.
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Well it doesn't matter if your 14, 18, 40, or 10. You have a problem and I'm just going to advice you on it, not based on your age. (So you don't have to worry about that)
You have to be ready for anything that would come your way. Maybe him cheating on you since he is going to a whole new environment and him wanting to experiemnt college, so you have to be easy on him. Do not pressure him. Do not call him 100 times a day. Do not be jealous. Do not be suspiouce. Do not be insecure.
Just make sure he knows that you trust him, and that you are completely okay if he wants to take a break. And that if something happened that will sadden you, he would be honest and tell you about it.
You have to be patient. Eventually, he'll realise what a great girl he has. But then he would have to choose between take it or leave it.
Good Luck =]
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I'd say don't stress too much, now knowing you start college at 16 I stand by more of, If your relationship makes it that long it'll have to be based off trust and communication. Just keep a bright look on life and don't stress. If it's meant to last and is truly love it'll all work out. I hope it all works our for you be mature and you'll make wise choices
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love is hard to let go i know
but you know what they say ,,if you love someone so much you have to let them go, and they will come back if they are the rigth one for you
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First love is always somewhat hard to let go of.
If your relationship is strong, it'll last. If it's not strong, that's not really a bad thing. You're both kids, it's too early to take things so seriously. Worry less about forever and more about enjoying now.
Honestly, you're both eventually likely to be curious about other people. It's hard to describe, but as you mature you change, it's not like you wake up one day and feel like an adult, but you do eventually begin to try yourself out against the world. If you tie yourself down too early, later there will be questions of what could have been, what you could have seen, done, and where you would have ended up if you hadn't had your life attached to this other person from such a young age.
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