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Long Distance
In your opinion do you think a 15 year old girl and a 16 year old boy have a long distance relationship? Do you think it would be worth it or not?
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Well, anything is possible and for true love, it can last a million miles away -- however, being just fourteen and fifteen, it's most likely not true love, even if it sometimes feels like it. A lot of times it's just infatuation or a major crush or puppy love. I would say that if you aren't truly certain you really love each other and it's going to last, it's not going to be worth it and you'll most likely get lonely not being able to see each other. Believe me, it's very difficult. I spend most of my days in tears when I couldn't see my boyfriend when we were in a long distance relationship.
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This may sound patronising, but because of your age it could be difficult. You both have a lot going on in your lives, you will meet new people all of the time and it will probably be really hard to maintain a relationship.
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i will say no ,,well that is my opinion ,because you never know what hes doing there
i will say no , its not worth it, and you cant really feel him
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Not.
Part of relationships is about learning, about adapting to have someone else in your life, and learning to deal with someone else's flaws while they learn to deal with yours.
This is entirely absent from distance relationships. It's all the validation with none of the real substance, and none of the fun. It's also far easier than a real relationship. Compromise is easy when it's nothing but words.
You're young. And more than likely, even if this guy were close he'd only be a chapter or two of your life. Move on, someone else will fall in. If they don't, you're spending too much of your life online and not enough out in the world. Life is outside. Go live it.
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It really depends on how mature the both of you are. And how much you trust eachother. If the trust is minimal.. then it's not worth it at all. You both will be paranoid that the other is with someone else. In my own experience I've seen people try a long distance realtionship.. if you don't plan on going to the same college or moving in together once you're 18.. then what's the point? How often would you see eachother? You don't want there to be any sexual tension, if you know what I mean from not seeing eachother. I guess in my opinion.. I don't think it's worth it. It might be fun to flirt on the phone or whatever, but in the long run it's not a good stable relationship.. Unless you were together for a period of time before you moved apart.. that's different..
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