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How can I Iaugh again?
I have a problem. It has progressed to the point that I want to cry at work, in front of clients for no reason, but my sadness and desperation. I have reached my limit, I can't take it no more. I don't know what to do, nothing seems to work.
A few years back my life changed dramatically. At the same time I lost my bestfriend and my anchor for her new boyfriend and moved to a place far from everything and every one i knew and started to look for a first job which messed my mind because of my poor self-esteem (got a lot of rejections, and now i'm doing something i don't like. I can't relate to people but I don't blame them, it's just my frown face... I need a friendly shoulder...
How can I pass through the sadness, misery and loneliness if it is a vicious circle?
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I too have felt this way before. It is like a gapping whole and the only way to fix it is to mend what has been broken. Find your ftreind get things back the way they should be. As for work, find a new job first and quite that one. Be more confedent I am sure you are a beautifull womam who is plenty amazing. Own it and change the way things are.
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1. Seek help for possible depression and counseler could do you some real good. Most counselers I've talked to will listen and even suggest how to get past this.
2. If you hate your job find a new one, at a job interveiw sit up straight and answer all the questions they ask you to best of your ability and as confidently as possible.
3. Making new friends sucks, but everyone goes through a point were they feel alone and like they need help. Also the human is a social creature and most everyone loves making friends... so just talk to people, find people you work with... work is where I found some of my best friends. It all starts with saying hi a when you see them. Then depending where you work talk to people if your not much of a talker like me just ask them about them selves. Then when you feel comfortable ask if they wanna grab a few beers after work or catch a game...if thats what they like.
good luck remember that there is help and you won't feel this way forever.
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