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I am scared of death... what do you think happens after you die?
13/f
To me death is soo scary. When I was little I would stay up half the night crying bc a thought of death entered my mind. I know nobody knows what happens when we die bc nobody has been through it to tell anybody else. But I have a few theories.
1.) that when we die we just get reincarnated into someone else. That there is a heaven but only for people who truely deserve to go. Bad people go to hell. REALLY good people go to heavn and the people in the middle get reincarnated.
2.) that when we die thee is ABSOLUTELY no heaven and you just poof and your gone.
So can anyone help me. I hate having to wake up in the middle of the night bc I'm crying of watll happen. Does anyone support my theories. Please help. Thx in advance.
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Hey, :) Well, Your only 13. Maybe you should just try living life to the fullest while you have it. I cannot tell you that your not going to die, because we all are. And anyone can die at anytime. But you need to just live it up while you can.
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IF you are a Christian, when you die, you your body stays on earth, but your spirit is taken into the heaven, put to get to heaven, just doesn't mean you have to be a Christian, you have to be pure, like Jesus was, you can't sin, but since we are idiots, we sin. But the point is you have to beg for forgiveness and don't repeat the sin again. For those who sinned and followed the fallen angels way like stealing, constantly lying, fighting, yelling at others, and stuff like that, then heaven is no place for you.
Point two-No you will not be reincarnated into someone else, there is only one of you and you only...No one else.
Point three-There is a heaven and when we die those who followed God will go to it...
There is a lot of questions that may be going through your mind, i will be happy to answer them..feel free to email me or ask any of them
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wow that is truly something...
what I can say is that no one truly/purely knows what happens to us/souls when we die... but I don't want you to be sad or bothered by this at all.
I asked myself the same question once I wondered and wondered just like yourself but then I said to myself...I know that no one in this world is perfect NO ONE! but I know that I have NOT done any bad to people and I am good to the ones that are around me as long as you live life the positive way.. this being: not killing anyone or being racist and treating people bad, and doing your best to help those in need and being there for them if they are going through harsh times. stay away from negative people and do your part to make things right when someone is in trouble and or is being treated unfairly.
- doing your best to go through your life in the most positive way possible, is key to not fearing death and being at peace at least with yourself that whatever happens after death, you know you will go to a place full of wonder and tranquility because you have been a good person throughout your human life.
- DONT get me wrong! there are people who do bad things and yet can still be at peace with themselves when they die because they end up repenting and being truly sorry for there negative actions in life... no one is perfect but YES there are those committed to hate and suffering in this world and then their are those who are committed to help those in need of help and spread LOVE across the face of the earth.
- Do your part to be at peace with yourself and help those around you who need help
- Don't worry so much as to where you are going after you die because one should not be worrying about this but be enjoying life on this amazing earth helping those in need and spreading messages of love and peace around it.
- This should be enough to grant you a wonderful place after "death" which to many can be a scary thing but if one does good things on earth, they have NOTHING at all to worry about!
- There you have it! I hope you have a better understanding of this concept and can stop worrying so much about this phenomenon... you are in charge of where you go after your life on earth is over... weather it be heaven, a peaceful place, another planet etc.
-trueadvice3
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if you go to church have faith in what you beilief dont let anything scare you say to yourself im not afraid of you that or what ever and say my lord is on my side
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This is a tricky question, Everyone is going to have different answers too but I'll give you mine...
I believe as long as you keep on dwelling over death, It will continue to be bothersome to you. As I speak, We all do think about death from time to time but you just have to except that sooner or later everyone dies. You are young, I can almost assure you that you still have many many more years ahead of you. You shall make the best of lie, Live it to it's fullest.
To your question:
I believe when people die, They eventually over time cross over. I believe the good souls are reincarnated and given a new life. However, Again everyone will have different opinions.
What I recommend is stop thinking about it so much, Life offers so much more than the thought of when our time is up. Focus on your future, The present and how you are going to make the best of it.
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basically theres is really no way to tell you if your right or wrong because everyone has there own beliefs but theres a old saying: when its your time its your time. you need to learn to accept that fact and never be scared of it
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Would a loving GOD or a higher entity by any name you can use condemn some to hell and some to heaven? That's especially so if we are made in his image and likeness. There will be those who disagree but think about it.
Did Columbus fall off the edge of the Earth like people thought he would in 1492 or did he keep going? I believe death is like that. Although the 5 senses can't see that person any longer they go on in another realm.
I believe Earth is a preparitory school with lessons to be learned until we pass from it and on to another experience. I also believe Jesus overcame death proving there was something else that we haven't experienced yet on another side.
Scientifically, doctors are questioning the same thing with people who were clinically dead one moment and revived the next. There's a lot of them who can recall exactly what they experienced, loved ones etc and they are rational people.
As far as reincarnation goes it sounds like a superstition or a theory and has no real legs or weight. I don't believe in poof you're gone either. What would be the point of this life if it were like that?
At any rate I would relax and enjoy life and not fear that which is unknown to you or anyone else. Be the best person you can be and enjoy every moment of every day. That's all a person can do.
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