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To me death is soo scary. When I was little I would stay up half the night crying bc a thought of death entered my mind. I know nobody knows what happens when we die bc nobody has been through it to tell anybody else. But I have a few theories.
1.) that when we die we just get reincarnated into someone else. That there is a heaven but only for people who truely deserve to go. Bad people go to hell. REALLY good people go to heavn and the people in the middle get reincarnated.
2.) that when we die thee is ABSOLUTELY no heaven and you just poof and your gone.
So can anyone help me. I hate having to wake up in the middle of the night bc I'm crying of watll happen. Does anyone support my theories. Please help. Thx in advance.
Hey, :) Well, Your only 13. Maybe you should just try living life to the fullest while you have it. I cannot tell you that your not going to die, because we all are. And anyone can die at anytime. But you need to just live it up while you can.
basically in the beginning of the relationship my boyfriend was all mushy and i really hated it, like i just started going out with him and i already could see how much more he loved me then i loved him.. like i just wanted to chill and have a good time. basically 6 months later we broke up at a party for dumb reasons, but now were back together. But it's different like im more in love with him and now i'm the mushy one and hes not. I've talked to him about it and he's just like you made me like this, i dont know what you want me to do. I love him so muchhhh and it hurts. =/ I know if we went on a break he would just get use to being single and move on, so dont tell me we need time away from eachother please.
I would tell him that you two need to talk. Give him your real feelings, and ask how he feels about you. I dont think you two need a break. Ask him what HE wants.
Ok so like iv been hangin out with this guy a lot latly he told me he loves me but he don’t treat me like he does he talks to all these girls we are not dating so he tells everyone we are just f** buddys I already told him I want to be more he said the reason why he hasn’t asked me out is because of all the guys I use to be with but I stoped talking to all of them I don’t know what to do I really want him but sometimes I don’t think he wants me just cuz all the girls he talks to and he is very controlling to me.
Yes, I agree. You should not be with a guy that controls you. He will only get worse as time goes by. If he wanted to be with you, he would be with you and only you.
I have been IN LOVE with a guy I've known since sixth grade. Every day people would say how great we were together, how we're perfect, and all these other things. I knew for a fact that he liked me since "the day we met". Those were his words, exactly. It has been almost seven years, and he always chickened out at asking me out, but then, this year it got weird. I finally got the guts up and asked him to Sadie's. However, I had forgotten that he told me he was going on a family trip that weekend, and he actually was. Everyone knew we like each other, but at the beginning of this year,my best friend asked him out. I've known her as long as I've known him, but they met three years ago. However, he still hugs me longer, and he still sits next to me, and other little things everyone still notices. They've been together for over a month, and they still haven't kissed. I guess, I just want to know what to do along the lines of trusting my best friend for going out with the guy she knows I like, and what to think of him about everything.
Maybe you should have a talk with your bestfriend. Talk to her about you feel.
okay ive been on the birth control shot since january, i spotted from the first time i got my shot til about june ish and when i got my third shot in july i have no spotting at all but today i had bad tummy pain and when i went to the bathroom i was spotting and idk why mean and my boyfriend has been having unprotected sex since i got on it. could i be pregnant???? oh yea another thing i believe i have a UTI because i can smell it in my pee but i never bleed when i had other UTI's could that be the reason????
Okay, I'd talk to your doctor about this.
When you get put on the shot, It can always really mess with your period. If you have a UTI that may be part of it. But chances are it's just the birthcontrol shot messsing with your period. It can be wacked out for awhile after you get put on birthcontrol. My advice, Talk to your doctor!
Good luck,
JustJamie. (:
16f and sometimes I have these weird feelings that I want to get married like when im 18. And lately theyve been getting worse.. Ive been thinking that I want to have a baby.. like now. Ill daydream and think about how horrible it would be but how cute the baby would be and with the guy that I am about to be going out with. Its creeping me out that I feel this way. I was just wondering if someone could explain kind of like why I feel this way.
Odds are- If you get pregnate. The guy will leave you. Most 18 year old boys aren't ready to man up and make the decision of being a father. Think about maybe waiting a couple years. I'd save yourself until you got married. That'd be horrible to become pregnate and get married to someone that wouldn't commit. Maybe you feel this way because your excited. Graduate and make something out of your life, Then start a family.
Good luck!
JustJamie
I asked you for some advice quite a few months back and I got a very good response for what I needed to get out in the open. Things are a little different now than then, though. Looking in from the outside I'm sure people are confused as to why I should have any reason to complain about my life. I still have so much more than I could have ever asked for. Two jobs, I'm graduating high school next month, going to the college of my dreams this fall, a good car, I recently got casted as the lead role in a movie, I'm always out and about, almost never sitting at home with nothing to do. However - when it comes to any sort of trust in people, I have none. I recently lost the two people who I considered the closest friends I've ever encountered in my life. One, Johnny, is no longer talking to me because his girlfriend told him not to talk to myself and someone he's known since they were little, John, after we told him about her cheating on him. (We tried to get through to him that she's controlling him but he's become obsessed with her, it's kind of frightening, actually.) My other so-called best friend, Elaine, moved away and has barely contacted more than 3 times since. The few months prior to her leaving I was picking up on a lot of insincerities in what she would say to me and the way she acted. Yes, I have people I hang out with but I don't trust any of them worth a damn. I'm so sick of always being in a crowd of people, the one cracking all the jokes and making everyone laugh, but inside feeling so alone. I try my best to make everyone else happy but no one tries to do the same for me. No one seems to understand the concepts behind friendship, trust, love, caring... I'm so tired of it. I've been breaking down more than usual because of this. How can I let go of this anger that's building in my heart for humans in general, just sit back and wait for a day when someone will come into my life worth trusting rather than searching so hard for something that's not there?
Trusting people takes time, And if your friend's girlfriend is going to tell him to stop talking to you, Ask yourself if it was really worth it. Maybe it's time to find a new croud. New friends. Loosing friends that move away is very hard- and no doubt it does hurt. Ask yourself why you hang with the people you do if you cant trust them. In friendship, Trust plays a big part. And not just in friendship- in any relationship.
Good luck!
JustJamie
i have been with this guy who is in a wheelchair for two years (almost 3). when we first got together things were wonderful. but now that we have been together we kinda dulled out and became one person. Its my senior year in high school, and all my friends say that i shouldnt be in a serious relationship now and to find myself. which i agree but i dont want to just break up with my boyfriend for that reason. cuz what if there is no one else out there like him. i dont know im so confused, i need serious help.
so stressed. none of my friends are getting along, so much drama. everyone is mad at each other. my boyfriend dont like my friends anyways.
please someone tell me what to do.
i dont know how to tell him if i am going to break up with him, he is very temermental.
Maybe you have heard this before. I think you need to do what your heart wants to do. If you honestly love, You'd stay with him. Otherwise, Tell him you need to find yourself. Let your heart lead the way. Being in highschool is very dramatic. Try to cut it out of your life, or avoid it as much as possible. Don't leave him if you think that you will regret it. If there is NO ONE else out there like him maybe you should keep going for a couple of days-Weeks.
Three years is a long time. Don't throw it out if you'll regret it.
Good luck!
-JustJamie