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torn between the two
i have been with this guy who is in a wheelchair for two years (almost 3). when we first got together things were wonderful. but now that we have been together we kinda dulled out and became one person. Its my senior year in high school, and all my friends say that i shouldnt be in a serious relationship now and to find myself. which i agree but i dont want to just break up with my boyfriend for that reason. cuz what if there is no one else out there like him. i dont know im so confused, i need serious help.
so stressed. none of my friends are getting along, so much drama. everyone is mad at each other. my boyfriend dont like my friends anyways.
please someone tell me what to do.
i dont know how to tell him if i am going to break up with him, he is very temermental.
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Maybe you have heard this before. I think you need to do what your heart wants to do. If you honestly love, You'd stay with him. Otherwise, Tell him you need to find yourself. Let your heart lead the way. Being in highschool is very dramatic. Try to cut it out of your life, or avoid it as much as possible. Don't leave him if you think that you will regret it. If there is NO ONE else out there like him maybe you should keep going for a couple of days-Weeks.
Three years is a long time. Don't throw it out if you'll regret it.
Good luck!
-JustJamie
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I see where you're coming from. The first-dating chills and feelings can diminish with time but it's up to the both of you to keep it alive. I know it has to be difficult dealing with a boyfriend who is physically disabled, I mean-it's hard enough dealing with one that's physically fit, haha. All I cann say is, please don't listen to your friends and their opinion on high school dating and serious relationships. Because- what I have learned from people- is that they DON'T really care what you do. They offer advice, but if you were to break up with him and feel heartbroken, they will display some care but not really give a damn. I think you should stick with your boyfriend, like you have been doing. I know it means SO much to him that you are still here despite his disability. Just talk to him about how you really feel. I hope I helped :)
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