does he like me or not? i thought he likes his ex?!
Question Posted Thursday September 17 2009, 12:59 pm
thing is that i like this guy who recently told me he still has feelings for his ex. yet he always seems to act like he likes me? i mean he told me that yesterday he looked for me during the whole break (which is 30 minutes long), he always aks me where i am and talks to me whenever he sees me. he often asks me where i am in the break and looks for me. and when we walk together he always touches my arm etc. and when he sits next to me he always sits as close to me as he can. i mean i was convinced that he likes me until he told me he likes is ex. i dont want to be his second choice but i reeaally like him sooo much <3 what should i do?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Kitchel17 answered Thursday September 17 2009, 9:29 pm: I bet he is as confused as you are. I have a feeling he likes you too. I'm guess his afraid of these strong feelings for you. He still get over a relationship, so you need to give him time. However, continue with your flirting and make him comfortable around. Your not his second choice, he's just stuck and does not know what to do. I'm guessing he just not ready to jump into another relationship. DON'T GIVE UP!! He's not shutting you out or messing around. He doesn't understand
it enough to let you in yet. Hang tough and trying asking him again straight out. Try saying: I like you and you act like you have feelings for me. So tell me the truth because I'm not going to be your second choice. Or something like that. Just be confident and stay positive.
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HotSauce answered Thursday September 17 2009, 6:39 pm: Maybe he is scared to get into a relationship with you. Or perhaps he does have feelings for his ex but, as the feelings for his ex grow weaker the feelings he has for you grow stronger. So, if you give it sometime and hang out with him and do what you're already doing maybe he'll realize your a munch better choice! [ HotSauce's advice column | Ask HotSauce A Question ]
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