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14/m
last monday, february 15, i went out with a girl. I knew she liked me and this other guy who is older then me i think 10th grade. After the movie we kissed, nothing else. So when i get home i text her and she texts me. At the end i tell her night and i'll be thinking about her. She said night and same. Well Tuesday comes, i send her a text in the morning same time i do everyday usually. No reply, i go to school, thinking she was busy.
Later that day i send a text after school. No reply. So i called her later that night. No answer, fully rang, 6 times went to Voicemail and i didn't leave a voicemail i never do.
So now its today, Feb 17. Didn't send anything till this afternoon well actually early evening. The text said that i was sorry and it was ok that she didn't like me because i like being her friend and we've been friends for awhile now. My friend told me that she didn't wanna go on a double date this weekend. He knows because we were gonna go so it would've been her, me, my friend and his date who happens do be this girls best friend. So he told me she didn't like me because her friend said it to him.
Thats when i sent the text, sorry this is getting long haha, So she replied asking who my friend was because i said his name. I asked her if she wanted to talk on the phone. No reply. Sent her another msg no reply to that either and i called her again, rang full amount again.
What does this mean? Like i know she doesn't like me now more then likely. But im still confused on it.
Anyhelp would be appreciated thanks :) (link)
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personaly i think that you sound like a dreat guy and all but maybe she realised this isnt what shes ready for or wants atm? give her some space and shes probably confused about a few things. depending on the kissing maybe. did you go in for the first or she? and have you guys kissed before? she might just have thought of you not quite so pasionatly or she may have and then realised she only wanted to be friends because everyone knows at this age you barely talk afterwards. maybe give her some space and if you walk past her just wave and maybe smile but dont stare. dont take this all to personaly. maybe she isnt the one for you, there will be someone else out there so dont lose hope :) 14/f
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There is this girl at school and she hates me. I have no idea why because she hated me since middle school. I'm 15. She keeps asking me why I am staring at her and when i try to answer, she says to shut up and says not to talk to her. Everyone else in her posse laughs. I even lost a friend to her. The rumor that she (the bully) spread to get my friend on her side was saying that I love her boyfriend and he hates me when, in fact, it's the opposite. One more thing, I am trying to ignore her. A couple of days ago, I was just coming out of the cafeteria when she said, "What the f*** are YOU looking at?" I didn't even look her way. Dad said to ignore and if it continues to go to the vice principal but that rarely works. Any advice would be helpful...THANKS!!! (link)
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personaly i would say something back to her. or just go up to her and ask why me? ingnore everything she says shes not worth listening to and do something do distract yourself like maybe take extra care of your dog if u have one or start a hobbie like art or photography and just distract yourself. dont let it get to u because a bully only does it for a reaction. it might sound weird but it worked for me. good luck >_
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