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Bully
There is this girl at school and she hates me. I have no idea why because she hated me since middle school. I'm 15. She keeps asking me why I am staring at her and when i try to answer, she says to shut up and says not to talk to her. Everyone else in her posse laughs. I even lost a friend to her. The rumor that she (the bully) spread to get my friend on her side was saying that I love her boyfriend and he hates me when, in fact, it's the opposite. One more thing, I am trying to ignore her. A couple of days ago, I was just coming out of the cafeteria when she said, "What the f*** are YOU looking at?" I didn't even look her way. Dad said to ignore and if it continues to go to the vice principal but that rarely works. Any advice would be helpful...THANKS!!!
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People are bullied because they allow themselves to be. I should know... I had a female bully for about 10 years. The problem with most schools is that they have a zero-tolerance policy... for violence. Emotional abuse is usually ignored.
What you need to do is stand up for yourself. Who is she to make you feel bad? Chances are, she's not all that bright. Bullies are insecure at heart, that's why they do what they do.
Ignoring doesn't work with this type. They do what they do for attention. If you ignore her, she'll escalate until she gets a reaction.
Next time she asks what you're looking at, say something like "not much" in a sarcastic voice. Get insulting back.
All it takes is to show her that you're not willing to be an easy victim. Stick up for yourself. Get your friends to help out.
Just remind yourself; you don't deserve to be treated like that.
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I had to quit going to high school because girls n I was pretty and popular. The drama during that age is crazy. I can guarntee she's going no where in life. Who does that? I've been thro worse then this n it sucks. If I had this girls number I'd call her n bitch at her honestly haha. I'm supposed to be a senior this yr but I graduated with ged n now am going to college n trust me after you get out of high school you will never see them or hear about them. There's so many people n this world. THEY ARE NOTHING! No matter who tells you not to let it get to you.. It will. Be strong n remember this! They must be jealous of you in some way because there trying to bring you down. If they do, don't let them see it. Why are they spending so much of there time on you? To me they sound like they have no life n are intersested in yours. Don't fight back then ur going down to there low level. Stay strong n you will win I promise.
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personaly i would say something back to her. or just go up to her and ask why me? ingnore everything she says shes not worth listening to and do something do distract yourself like maybe take extra care of your dog if u have one or start a hobbie like art or photography and just distract yourself. dont let it get to u because a bully only does it for a reaction. it might sound weird but it worked for me. good luck >_<
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Ignore her. Talking shit back to her won't help anything besides you getting your ass kicked. I don't think you should go to the principal because whenever that happens, it's usually just made worse. Adults never seem to get that.
Just ignore her. She's insecure and feels the need to tease you. Don't let what she does bother you. Showing signs of emotion around her & letting her know she's getting to you is adding fuel to the fire. Don't give her encouragement.
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you should change schools. when a bully makes her target, she'll never leave you alone. it's fun for her to make fun of you. it makes her feel like a bad ass in front of her friends. if you really want to get away, leave the school. you should get a backbone and start talking shit back to her. play her game or leave.
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