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Ex Effect.


Question Posted Friday September 18 2009, 8:33 pm

15F US.

Hello,
Me and this guy started dating about two weeks ago. He seems to really like me, And I really like him.

But then just last night. He broke up with me out of no where. He told me we should give eachother time.

But the thing is he and I dated for about three months. (We broke up, And started dating again.)

I really think I loved him, Because everytime someone would bring him up I would just cry. I got a text from him saying "Just because I broke up with you doesn't mean we cant be friends." And well- I don't want to be friends. It hurts so bad that he broke up with me.

I thought the only way to get over him was to move on. So I started dating this cute new guy from school. But everyone wants to fight him, Because I guess he talks crap. I don't care what anyone thinks, Because I might really like him.

But I still think that I like my Ex. So how long will it take for me to get over my ex. Should I stay with the guy I'm dating right now? Or should I take time. My ex found out I was dating him, And he thinks that just because I'm dating this new Guy that I should be happy. And I am. For sure. But I heard that my ex was going to date this other girl, and he shoves it in my face saying how hot she is. But I could never shove anything in his face like that. He's calling me a slut because I'm dating this new guy. This is basically my symapathedic cry for help. ):
-Lost and in love?


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xomellanie answered Saturday September 19 2009, 1:55 am:
the fact that you are your ex keep going on a break probably means that he's just not really ready for a relationship. yeah, he may be dating this one girl right now, but who knows how long that's gonna last.
and as for the boy you are dating right now, you need to get over your ex before you should be dating again. and that does take time.
your ex could be shoving it in your face that he's with this new girl because he is jealous that you have a new boyfriend. so don't get too down about that.
but don't lead this other boy on if you still have feelings for your ex. it's not fair to him.

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lexiesays answered Saturday September 19 2009, 1:24 am:
You need to tell him if he wants to be friends, he needs to not be so immature. tell him he should be happy for you and remind me that you dont judge his love life. you should stick with this new guy. the faster you start liking him, the faster you'll get over your ex.

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