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its complicatedd
basically in the beginning of the relationship my boyfriend was all mushy and i really hated it, like i just started going out with him and i already could see how much more he loved me then i loved him.. like i just wanted to chill and have a good time. basically 6 months later we broke up at a party for dumb reasons, but now were back together. But it's different like im more in love with him and now i'm the mushy one and hes not. I've talked to him about it and he's just like you made me like this, i dont know what you want me to do. I love him so muchhhh and it hurts. =/ I know if we went on a break he would just get use to being single and move on, so dont tell me we need time away from eachother please.
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ok i hate it when people take a "break" its stupid.... look you two broke up over a stupid reason before you broke his heart once and he just doesnt feel the same love he did before what you need to do is spend bore time together alone and romantically get closer. it wil take some time but it will get better and come back
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I would tell him that you two need to talk. Give him your real feelings, and ask how he feels about you. I dont think you two need a break. Ask him what HE wants.
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I've been with my boyfriend for 2 and a half years, and I went through this stage as well. At first, I was very attracted to my bf (I went after him) and during the first few months I was just so infatuated. There came a point in time where the tables were turned, and I showed less interest, whereas he showed way more than he ever had. Don't worry, if it's meant to be, eventually everything will balance out. I'm not sure how old you both are, but I'm assuming you two are maybe 16 or 17... Anyway,if you two were to go on a break, and he really does 'love' you, he wouldn't move on. He'd still care about you, trust me. If he does move on, this wasn't on the path to being serious. Perhaps you should sit down and talk to him. Ask him whether or not he's looking to take this relationship to higher levels in the future. Basically, whether he plans on building his life next to yours. For now, just don't throw yourself to him. Show him you care, but give him space. Don't be too affectionate, and if after a couple of weeks he shows no sign of improvement towards showing you how much he cares, talk to him and let him know how it makes YOU feel. Don't put him down either. Hint some suggestions. Relationships take work ;) Good luck, and hope I helped!
Uniq
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