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A broken heart.
Im almost 19, and saturday my boyfriend broke up with me. He's 20 and honestly he was my first love. I dont know what to do, we were both crying so much, and he kept saying how much he still cares about me, and how he just does'nt want to be in a relationship, at all right now, and that he could be making a huge mistake, but he just does'nt know. but that he just needs time, that he wants to still talk to me, and hang out with me. I am so lost. it hurts so bad, but im just going to wait it out and see what happens.
but can you guys help me out, what can i do to make him want to work this out again? to make him miss me so much??? please help out with any advice.
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Well love and relanships are one of those things that you can’t rush,
Sometimes when you are young you are scared to make that commitment
To one another, don’t get disgorged. I know it’s hard to go from a relanship
To just wanting to be friends. I was in the same situation I really liked this
Guy we spent a lot of time together watching movies going out on dates,
But one day he said that he was not ready for a relanship that he wants to
Just stay friends. I took it hard because I fell for him really hard, but after
I got passed being sad and upset with him; I realized that I would rather
Have him as a friend in my life then not have him at all in my life. And
Now we are really good friends. And the great thing about that is that you
Never know what the future hold's. I have learned that you can’t rush love
It will take time, but stay friends with him it will hurt at first but when
You get passed all that, you will see the big picture. And you never know
What may happen with a little space he may come back to you. I hope this
Helped take care and good luck…
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You may think that what you need to do is "make" him miss you or "make" him want to work things out, but you can't "make" him do anything. Plus, would you really want him to be with you if he didn't really want to? I couldn't tell you what's going through his head right now, or exactly why he broke up with you, but chances are that he can't either right now. He's probably pretty confused and probably does need some time. Things may work out between you two, and they may not. You should get emotionally prepared for either possibility. In the mean time, do your best to not start fighting or being hurtful toward one another.
Honestly, I see two possible reasons for this, but that doesn't mean either are correct. They are only theories, and you shouldn't take them too seriously.
1) He is genuinely confused and needs time to figure himself out, get some space, and get his head on straight
2) He wants to see other girls for a while, because he isn't ready to settle down with one girl.
I know option 2 is harsh, but it's a possibility. I hope it's not the truth, though...
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Hello,well first off I want to tell you that I understand how hurt you must be, i hurts to lose your first love and be cinfused and upset. i Know it is hard to get through this and may feel rather empty not being with him but everything happens for reason rather its godo or bad. You should try to savor the fact that he still care for you and wants to soend time with you. He obviously wants time apart for a reason..once you know that reason you fel soo much better. You should talk to him about this because it will tear you apart. You have to respect his decision in not wanting to be in a relationship and hng on to that fact that he would still like to have that relationship with you without the seriousness of it all. He may be going through something and doesnt want what he is going through to effect your relationship. I think you should definitley give him his space and let him come around. Remember those who really care for you will stick aroundand you wont have to worryabout looing them completley.You cant make someone miss you but you can however not give them as uch attention as before and give them the space that they need to get things together. If things are meant to be then the two of you will end up together,however I am sure things will workout for the best,just try to keep yourself busy so you wont be focused on the fact that you two arent together anymore beause it will only serve to make things worse. I hope this helped and I wish you the best of luck:)
SINCERLY,DIAMOND :) :)
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As a woman of 24 who has been in your situation, don't beg for him to come back. If someone really cares for you, no matter what, they don't leave, saying they dont want to be in a relationship right now. Distance yourself from him and give things a little time.
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omg im soo sorry i could really feel your pain while readint hat!well i rekon is just keep spending time with him..dont over do it dont spend to much time with him just leave some distance and dont txt him as much as you use to but still b there for him..thatll give him a chance to miss you and realise that he needs you.Give him his space like he asked and just when your with him do abitta flirting..dont worry if he loves you hell come back..he will im sure of it!
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