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boyfriend vs. best friend
my boyfriend of almost five months has been kinda standoffish towards me lately. it's really starting to bother me. i really miss him. and now, to add to that problem, my best friend kinda flirts with him. she like goes out of her way to talk to him and make him laugh and write on his facebook and so on and i feel like he pays more attention to her than me. it drives me insane. i don't know what to do, it's breaking my heart. how can i bring this up to both of them without making them upset with me? what can i do to solve this problem? thanks in advance.
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Woah does this sounds so fimilar to me!
my boyfriend, well ex now did the same thing, and he like asked her to go to laser tag and stuff!
but what i did was kinda just make little comments like wowww, your texting her alot lol or like woww you and sarah are getting to be really close. i jsut made comments like that every now and again and he would take notice and slow down with talking to her for a few weeeks and than start until i made a little comment, and than when they wwere going to hangout i made a big deal out of it and said listen this has to stop or were over, because his ex girlfriend and him broke up because he did the same thing with her best friend and than when they broke up he asked her out! (she declined)
bbut yeah just make little casual commetns about it, after that if he doesnt stop, make it a little more obvious your annoyed
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well you really need to confront them and heres a way to do it.Ask you friend does she like him or if you dont think thats a good idea tell someone else to do it and you could ask your boyfriend about it and if he gets fired up tell him what you noticed same thing with your friend if you never try you never know and you have to get it of your chest and remmber i am always avalibe
Goold Luck
Tatianna:))
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be careful fo that!even though shes your bestfriend girls are horrible when they want something they cant have..ages ago i had a bf and my best friend use to do the samething next minute he dumps me for her and she goes off with him.i think you should talk to the best friend not the boy friend and just tell her that your feeling alittle threatened by the way shes bonding with your bf and if she can just step back abit.just before you tell her just say that you love her to bits and you dont mean it in a bad and hurtful way.if shes a true friend she will stand back but if she keeps going then something is wrong and you should be worried and next step would b to talk to your boyfriend
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