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I dont know if I cum or not, ..dif bwteen discharge and cum and orgasms
OK, so im 17 years old female. So i dont know if i cum or not. Iv heard that like it squirts out when you orgasm, but that never happens. I also dont know why i dont squirt, or have really amazing orgasms. Is it cause you only squirt from having a g-spot orgasm, cause i only do clit. And my orgasms are ok, but its not like intense like i hear its suppose to be. And when i am rubbing it feels ok, but sometimes i just cant get into it and the orgasm is ok. Am i doing something wrong? How do i make myself squirt (cum) and make my orgasms intense? thanks
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Hello,well orgasms are different for every female, and just to clarify, squirting during an orgasm is not particularly common. A small percentage of women squirt when they cum, its just the way there body reacts to orgasm , its not that it feels any better when a women squirts when they cum, its just a different method. When you cum, you simply have a bit more vaginal secretion. So when a women gets aroused, she usually has some vaginal secretion which gets her wet and prepared for sex. During an orgasm, slightly more of this secretion is present, it doesnt have to be a large gush of secretion, it can be slight and barely even noticeable. All in all, if you reach orgasm, you usualy do cum, it just appears different from women to women so dont worry about that. As far as intense orgasms go, things like porn and the way sex is displayed on television portrays orgasms to be more intense than they actually are just to grab the audiences attention. Yes orgasms feel good, but the intensisty varies from person to person and depending on the situation. If a women is very aroused before orgasm then her orgasm may be more intense and it also depends on the method in which a women reaches orgasm. If the orgasms arent feeling that great for you then maybe you should try something a bit new. Such as some girls clitorises arent as sensitive to touch as they should be and may need more pressure in certain areas. You can try to find a particular area that is really sensitive and rub in that area. You can also try fingering yourself while rubbing your clitoris for extra pleasure or just rub certain parts of your body to excite yourself even more. And no you are not doing anything wrong, its all about getting to know your body and what feels right for you. So explore and try different things and you will figure out what pleases you the most.Hope this helped, goodluck with everything, feel free to send me a message anytime. :)
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