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17/f

i have had an eating disoder, it comes and goes since the first time i had it. the 1st time was the worst when i was 15. it came back at the end of last year and its been on and off since then.

when it comes back i start to feel sad all the time and i dnt no why... its like the feels come back when the eating disorder does.

i dnt get it, each time its different like the 1st time i stopped eating for 3 days to get my mum to notice and then when i started eating again i had bulimia, 2nd time i was so stressed i just stopped eating for like 2 weeks then i had bulimia again and this time it started from me bindge eating and throwing up. atm im scared to eat and im trying not to, i just dnt trust myself cos i never feel full or satisfied so i just keep eating. thats wat started it this time.

i dnt want to get sick again i know its not worth it but i dno wat to do its like its haunting me!! i told my mum last year when it came back that i wanted professional help but she wudnt take me.
how do i get over this i hate it and im freaking out that it will keep comin back and never truly go away!! =[

HELP! =[ _(link)

in phychology we watched a video about bulimia. It said that for the people with this condition, it took much longer to get satisfied, because the signal to the brain that u are full is so weak. So it took alot longer for a person with bulimia to become satisfied. You do need help.

Not eating anything at all is very bad for your health. You have to eat something at least.

i had this dream.... that me n my friend were going to this beach place and my friend was driving us in a big white work truck. well when we got there there were some guys working on like construction. They like were staring @ me and one took my picture. we got back in the truck and they were still staring @ me. then 3 guys(teens)came out of a house and a guy showed them a picture and then then the guys started walking to the truck and then all of a sudden we were oin a random house with them. i cant really remember what happened there but when we were leaving i hugged the first guy and we randomley kissed and the other guys were like "oh, so he gets a hug+kiss. weres our hug and kiss?" so i hugged another guy who didnt want to kiss and the third i hugged+kissed him 2. then i was my house and i got a text from the first guy and it said something like he missed me. had a great time today and goodnight. What does this dream mean?
thank you so much.... 13/F _(link)

you're gonna get layd in 7 days... then you will meet another guy, but wont get layd... then you will meet a third guy and get layd again. but then... u will realize that it all didnt matter... and then you will get bak with the first guy...

anyway im making this up... i dont know... try to google like those websights which tell you which things in your dream mean something... liek there are websites where you put a keyword in... and it tells you what it meants.

okayy so i really like this one guy g but before i liked him i liked x , so the thing with g isnt advancing fast because i cant really talk to him i get all nervous around him but i liek him alot and now the whole school knowss i like him . but i was talking to x last night and i found out that he likes me and i still have feelings for him but not as much as g.. and i dont want x to feel that if things dont work out with g ill just use x as my backup...what do i do? _(link)

just hang out with x some, so then say soemthign liek this.. "wow x... i always have so much fun when i hang out with you. you are so sweet, funny blha blha blha... no other guy is like you."
and for the g guy... find something wrong with him... like if he has a pimple (or he's rude or a jerk, or boring, or not funny, or stupid, or he smokes marijane)... say soemthing like ewww he smokes weed, so taht the whole school finds out about it. that way x will feel special... and g... wont =]

hope i help...

please help me...
ok i have been on and off with this guy austin for almost six years..i love him i do..but he doesnt treat me like i know i should be treated..sometimes he even just makes me feel shitty about myself sometimes though..he makes me feel reall good...we have been through more good times and bad times..than anyone i know...also..his family is my family..they adore me..and i feel the same about them...it that makes it harder....and everytime we break up..it never fails..i go back to him.. because i cant stand the sight of him and someone else...
but theres this justin guy that has just recently come into my life..and we have become extremely close over the last 5 or 6 months..give or take a few...but he makes me feel so good...hes so sweet..hes so good to me.he treats me like way too good i feel like..he makes me feel reall good about myself...and makes me happy...but yet so does austin..sometimes...but anyway...justin has me on this pedestle..and i dont feel like i belong there..or deserve to be there...he looks at me like no one has..ever looked at me...but i cant shake this thing that i have for austin..and i hate seeing him with anyone else...im just so confused..i dont want to hurt anyone..but i also dont want to hurt myself anymore...i really really love them both..and cant picture myself without either one...
please write me back asap. _(link)

If you have beign with someone for 6 years... thats special. You will probably never have someone like Austin. While you knew Austin for a long time, and most likely know his good sides and bad, Chriss is new, and even though you have known him for a while, you still dont know him as well as Austin.
But Austin will continue treat you badly in the future. Do you really want to put up with it? Maybe you should give other guys a chance, and see how it works out with them.

So basically, I've been asked to study my Learner's book because i want to get my licence as soon as possible, but when it comes to studying Im not good at memorizing stuff unless Im really interested in it, and well, Information about giving way and whatnot just doesn't interest me and if i feel pressured to pass the test, I will have a panic attack pretty much. My mind tends to go off into another direction when im trying to focus reading so im veryy easily distracted. Does anyone know a special way to study and remember informationn? _(link)

It is hard to memorize stuff, that is boring.
One way to go about it is to read it over and over again.
For the driver's license you could memorize te signs by their pictures. Like try to associate a certain picture with an event relevant to your life.
For the information, pretend like you are reading Harry Potter or Twilight. D= Off coarse you are not, but just try to set the mood. And Also highlighting stuff can help you memorize stuff.
And relax, the drivers test (at least the one I took) was easy.

so, i had sex for the first time about a week ago. it was really weird and sudden. and it was with someone who ive been friends for almost two years. he means a lot to me, and im sure i mean a lot to him. but its not like we go out, or even really planned on it. i mean, i always wanted to date him and we talked about it, but you'd think we'd be going out by now. we have that thing for eachother, i dont wanna call it friends with benefits, because its friends who hookup, with feelings. awkward, i know. but i kinda feel really stupid now and bad i let him take it. he's been wanting to since we started talking. and i dont know if i just gave in or i wanted to. i mean i wanted to, but now im so stressed. i feel like he's always used me just for ass... what do i do?! _(link)

talk to him about going official. See what his opinion about it is. If he's doesn't show eagerness... there is no point in forcing him. And if he wants sex again, and you feel uncomfortable... then dont do it. You dont have to do anything that you don't want to do.

What happened happened... you can't restore what has being lost. try to make the most out of it. If you feel like he's using you, then be more careful with him. If he is using you, then try to avoid such situations in which he could ask you for sex, like being alone with him at his or your house, or basicly anywhere.

And you mentioned that he wanted to since you guys started talking. I find it a bit disturbing, because if I understand this correctly it means from the start he wanted to have sex with you. which leads to another conclusion. He might have became friends with you "for all the wrong reasons".

Hi!

I like this guy names Matt. We have been talking on my space recently, and I have been noticing that he has been glancing at me...a couple times during our school week. Do you think he might like me? Is he thinking about me ?I really NEED a confidence boost. I can't talk to him at school...he's a nice guy..I think. It's just so hard for me!!! I like him SO much.. and he knows it. I've told him. How, should I communicate with him threw the day? He changed his 4th period study hall ..that's the only class we had together...because he's and 8th grader...and we don't have gym with each other anymore...because of the new semester . So, what can I do...to gain confidence?? I just always think I don't have a chance...my friends ...say " You never know... he might fall for you ". I REALLY like him... on our Christmas break ...I cried over him ...because I can't talk to him.. and ...I kept thinking that he's to perfect...for me. So, how can I communicate with him...at school ? Do you think he'll talk to me ? Do you think he likes me?
Please, anyone help!

- Teenage + romance = HELL _(link)

It's hard to start talking to a guy. What you could do is maybe just say hi to him. =D
Maybe he is as shy as you, and needs a confidence boost. If you glance at him occasionally and smile, and greet him, it might be enough of a confidence boost for him to talk to you.

And you could tell him something like this over myspace... "I wish we were able to talk like this at school. But I'm always so nevous to talk to you, and I never really get a chance to start up a conversation."
And see what his reaction is. Maybe he can relate to this.

are there any diet pills or anything like that...that actually works and doesnt harm you?

I have been eating healthy and working out regularly and im getting no where...I just need a jumpstart or something _(link)

If nothing works, then try taking a step up in your dieting technique, like not eating dinner and lunch, and not eating bread, meat, junk food. Becoming a vegetarian worked for my cousin.

You could try buying dieting cookies, and crap like that, but I advice you not to, because mostlikely it's bad for your health.

hii well I haven't had my period in about 2 months =\... and my friend who is pregnant (Marlene) and told my friend katie who told me that when she got her period and it ended it about 2 days later something like that, she ended up being pregnant afterwards.. which is weird. and she said that its like you get your period for the last time.. is this true, because I'm pretty scared, and when my friend marlene was pregnant she didn't puke or anything.. and that's how I'm feeling.. I feel dizzy at points and have huge stomach pains.. (boob pains)... but idk if thats normal or maybe I'm getting it soon... idk please help! what do yout think? is this fact true?!?

Thanks so much. _(link)

I dont really understand your question. But I think you are pregnant. All the signs are there. Yeah I read that stomach pains, boob pains, and dizziness is normal, cuz your body goes through rapid hormone changes or something like that. I might be messing my facs up. And you should have ur period back after you stop being pregnant.

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