Cux answered Tuesday July 15 2008, 8:31 pm: Legally, you shouldn't have sex until you've passed the age of consent in your state/country.
Morally, you shouldn't have sex until you're married, or based on when you feel you're morally ready.
Emotionally, you shouldn't have sex until ready to face the consequences of sexual relationships. That is, possible pregnancy, having a child, etc.
Financially, you shouldn't have sex until you're old enough to support a possible child.
To me, you shouldn't have sex until you're married, though obviously not everyone lives up to that standard. But definitely DON'T have sex until you're ready, and I mean absolutely ready to face the consequences.
I think if you wait until you're married or at least with the person you will marry and will be with your entire life, it will mean something really special, rather than something to just throw around.
cloudy_conscience answered Tuesday July 15 2008, 4:41 pm: Well there really isn't a specific age for you to begin having sex, all it really comes down to is when you believe you are ready to have sex. You have to decide when you are ready, you can't do it because everyone else is doing it or because your partner wants you to. Losing your virginity should not be taken lightly, once it's gone you can't get it back and it shouldn't be wasted on just anyone, you should really care about them. Do it when you are ready and you won't regret it.
Melody answered Tuesday July 15 2008, 2:45 pm: Whenever you are physically, mentally, and emotionally prepared for sex. I also think sex is something you should share only when you are in a stable and loving relationship.
Some aren't ready until after marriage. That's a personal choice.
Some wait until they are a certain age. Once again, that's a personal choice.
No matter what age you are, it's up to you. I lost my virginity when I was fourteen. I have friends that lost it even younger, and I have friends now three years later who are still virgins. I found a boyfriend whom I loved with all my heart and had been with long enough to know that's who I wanted to share that with. You should wait for that.
schochie16 answered Tuesday July 15 2008, 11:26 am: I think that when ever YOU think you are ready is the right time. If you feel scared about doing it, then obviously, its to early. Who cares about to late. When you find the right guy who makes you feel safe, and you feel like you want to go to that level, then THAT is when YOU are ready. It changes from person to person. Stay smart, Stay safe. Don't do anything your not ready for or that you don't want to do. Don't let a guy talk you into doing something that you don't want to do.
DramaQueen63 answered Tuesday July 15 2008, 11:24 am: Well, there isnt exactly a "age restriction" on having sex. It's when you feel you can spend your ENTIRE life with them. And you both love each other till death. [ DramaQueen63's advice column | Ask DramaQueen63 A Question ]
ccupcake07 answered Tuesday July 15 2008, 10:43 am: There is not a certain age you should or shouldn't have it. It is when you know you love the person that you are with and you are willing to spend the rest of your life with them. And the most important thing is when you are comfortable enough to do it and that you yourself are ready. Hope this helps! [ ccupcake07's advice column | Ask ccupcake07 A Question ]
scootermclisle answered Tuesday July 15 2008, 7:56 am: It's not about age, it's about deciding to do it or deciding to wait. There is no "too late". There is however a "too early", and that would be when you are unsure of what you want - aka now. Don't do it. [ scootermclisle's advice column | Ask scootermclisle A Question ]
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