ok so i asked a question a long time ago about my boyfriends best friend kinda took advantage of me well to day i was talking to my boyfriend on the phone and he said that we needed to talk so i called him and he said i've been acting kinda shy and he said whats wrong?
and then it was quiet and he said again Your mostly shy when my buddy comes around Did he do something to you? Luckly my mom called and i had to go so i told him i'd talk to him about it later. What should i tell him or What should i do Please help me ASAP!
kevin1986 answered Thursday June 22 2006, 5:43 pm: Tell your boyfriend that no matter what he's about to hear that he's not about to go do something stupid, like kill his friend. Then tell him. Tell him in person. Then tell your mother. [ kevin1986's advice column | Ask kevin1986 A Question ]
JBella123 answered Thursday June 22 2006, 4:52 pm: Tell him a good relationship never has secrets he will not b mad at you unless he isnt a good bf and over time of making him trust you again he will forgive you. [ JBella123's advice column | Ask JBella123 A Question ]
LiLKimmy769 answered Thursday June 22 2006, 2:13 pm: tell him. then you know it wont happen ever again. he may be pissed at his friend, but you wont be pissed at you, or at least a good boyfriend wouldnt be. tell him asap! good luck
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Melody answered Thursday June 22 2006, 12:34 pm: You need to be honest with your boyfriend. If you really like him, then you need to be truthful. Just beware, he may be a little territorial with you considering this is one of his friends.
BabyGirl1sideonly answered Thursday June 22 2006, 11:29 am: the main thing in a relationship is honesty so you really should tell your bf the truth, just break it to him calmly and explain every part of how you feel...i hope i helped.. i wish you the best of luck [ BabyGirl1sideonly's advice column | Ask BabyGirl1sideonly A Question ]
Basketball3846 answered Thursday June 22 2006, 9:59 am: You need to tell your boyfriend what happened. It wasn't right for his friend to take advantage of you and your bf needs to know exactly what happened. The key point in a relationship is communication and you should be able to tell him anything. [ Basketball3846's advice column | Ask Basketball3846 A Question ]
karie28 answered Thursday June 22 2006, 5:59 am: You should probably talk to him about this stuff.
Remember that Honesty is VERY essential in a relationship. Be as honest as you can to each other.
You're lucky if your guy stood up For you and didn't rush into conclusions because this only means one thing: he Loves you no matter what.
But you know, I guess he'll understand AND he SHOULD understand the situation so if I were you I'd EXPLAIN everything really well.
Brooke160394 answered Thursday June 22 2006, 5:27 am: I think you should talk to your bf friend and tell him that he should tell your bf cause it was his mistake and if he doesn't you should because basically he shouldnt have done anything to his buddys gf so wat ever you do dont feel guilty [ Brooke160394's advice column | Ask Brooke160394 A Question ]
grkadvisor answered Thursday June 22 2006, 1:12 am: tell your boyfriend about it tell him it because you trust him and love him also if you were taken advantage of that boy does not need to be around your boyfriend or you because that means suttin wrong wit his head if he is taking advantage of you if i ever saw him i would beat him up because thats what my dad told me he would do to me if i ever hit or touched a girl a way she didnt want to be touched so tell him and you should talk about it with your parents too and ask them if you can take some self defense classes to make you feel safer
hope i helped
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