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i was wondering..im 15/m and like when ever my g/f touches me like puts her arms around me/hugs me i kinda get a little excited if you know what i mean..i mean i dont think about sex or anything it just happens..is that normal, and will it stop after a while?

UMM...JUST MAEK THA RIGHT DESICI0N....i THINK ITS JUST LIKE WHAT Y0U SAID...Y0U JUST GET EXCITEd:]

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ok so there's this guy i know. and we met because he randomly added me on facebook and i had never talked to him in my life (usually i don't accept people i don't know on facebook.. but i'm so glad i accepted him). so, we talked only once when he first added me, and never talked after that until my birthday. so after my birthday, we kept talking and talking and i was in an awkward situation with one of his good friends, and he helped me through that. and we've been talking for a few weeks now, and he's called me beautiful TWICE (more than any other guy in my life..) and he told me he loves me?? i KNOW that he doesn't actually love me, but i can't tell if he's jokingly like, "i love you" or "i have a crush on you and i want you to know." you know? what do you guys think?

D0ES THIS GY G0 T0 YURR SCH00L??LIKE I MEAN HAVE Y0U MET HIM IN PERS0N?? i JUST WANTED T0 MAKE SURE! i MENA I SAY "i L0VE Y0U" ALL THA TYME AND S0 D0 ALL MY GUY FRIENDS...D0NT THINK T00 MUCH 0F iT:]. he could be flirting with you but i know i say i love you to like all my guy friends and they say it to me. it doesnt mean that he likes you. but him calling you beautiful might mean something. i guess it depends on what type of guy he is. you may need to find out a little more about him. he could be a total flirt that calls every girl beautiful to make them feel good so they like him or whatever. he seems interested in talking to you because you said that you talked a lot. if he didnt want to talk to you then he wouldnt.. so at least you know he likes you as a friend. and he helped you with your problems which probably means he wanted to show you he was a nice guy. i find that lots of times when guys like you they want to help you with your problems so you feel better :) theres definetly a chance he likes you so keep talking to him! and make sure you flirt back a little if you like him! or a lot.. haha ;)

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Me and this girl have been talking for a while and we both sound interested in eachother but i was wondering how to ask her out. We hardly get a chance to hang out and now i'll almost never see her in school and i want to ask her out very soon so she doesn't think we arn't going anywhere and move on...cause i seem to find that happen with girls lol. So would it be ok to ask her out via text message or what? Thanks.

i MEAN THA S00NER THA BETTER...
CUZ THEN GURLS USUALLy THiNK Y0U M0VED 0N 0R THEY JUST L00SE FEELiNGS F0R Y0U.
S0 Y0U KAN ASk HER 0UT BY A TEXT.MSG. BUT i MEAN C0ME 0N IF Y0U REALLy LIKE HER ASK HER 0UT IN PERS0N.:]

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