ok so there's this guy i know. and we met because he randomly added me on facebook and i had never talked to him in my life (usually i don't accept people i don't know on facebook.. but i'm so glad i accepted him). so, we talked only once when he first added me, and never talked after that until my birthday. so after my birthday, we kept talking and talking and i was in an awkward situation with one of his good friends, and he helped me through that. and we've been talking for a few weeks now, and he's called me beautiful TWICE (more than any other guy in my life..) and he told me he loves me?? i KNOW that he doesn't actually love me, but i can't tell if he's jokingly like, "i love you" or "i have a crush on you and i want you to know." you know? what do you guys think?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? kATARiNA answered Sunday January 27 2008, 3:07 pm: D0ES THIS GY G0 T0 YURR SCH00L??LIKE I MEAN HAVE Y0U MET HIM IN PERS0N?? i JUST WANTED T0 MAKE SURE! i MENA I SAY "i L0VE Y0U" ALL THA TYME AND S0 D0 ALL MY GUY FRIENDS...D0NT THINK T00 MUCH 0F iT:]. he could be flirting with you but i know i say i love you to like all my guy friends and they say it to me. it doesnt mean that he likes you. but him calling you beautiful might mean something. i guess it depends on what type of guy he is. you may need to find out a little more about him. he could be a total flirt that calls every girl beautiful to make them feel good so they like him or whatever. he seems interested in talking to you because you said that you talked a lot. if he didnt want to talk to you then he wouldnt.. so at least you know he likes you as a friend. and he helped you with your problems which probably means he wanted to show you he was a nice guy. i find that lots of times when guys like you they want to help you with your problems so you feel better :) theres definetly a chance he likes you so keep talking to him! and make sure you flirt back a little if you like him! or a lot.. haha ;) [ kATARiNA's advice column | Ask kATARiNA A Question ]
XoXoXoXo77 answered Sunday January 27 2008, 10:29 am: this guy goes to your school right? like you know hes a real person right..? just making sure.. anyways a lot of people say "i love you". i wouldnt really think that much of it. he could be flirting with you but i know i say i love you to like all my guy friends and they say it to me. it doesnt mean that he likes you. but him calling you beautiful might mean something. i guess it depends on what type of guy he is. you may need to find out a little more about him. he could be a total flirt that calls every girl beautiful to make them feel good so they like him or whatever. he seems interested in talking to you because you said that you talked a lot. if he didnt want to talk to you then he wouldnt.. so at least you know he likes you as a friend. and he helped you with your problems which probably means he wanted to show you he was a nice guy. i find that lots of times when guys like you they want to help you with your problems so you feel better :) theres definetly a chance he likes you so keep talking to him! and make sure you flirt back a little if you like him! or a lot.. haha ;) [ XoXoXoXo77's advice column | Ask XoXoXoXo77 A Question ]
orphans answered Sunday January 27 2008, 9:33 am: Okay, so I think that he is trying to say: I can love you so why don't we get to know eachother some more.
So let him lead and you follow, he's probably hinting that he has a crush on you.
Good luckk [ orphans's advice column | Ask orphans A Question ]
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