Question Posted Tuesday September 30 2008, 5:52 pm
my used to be bff and me are having a fight. so in choir there is a thing called solo and ensemble and we've been working on our ensemble song with alot of hard work! i don't even play the piano and it took me 3 days to find out the rythm and it took ALOT of hard work!! seriously!!!! btw i'm 12 years old. well anyways so the day before the solo and ensemble contract was due (after my choir period which is 4th) she says "ummm i'm not gonna do an ensemble anymore i'm just gonna do a solo!!" btw she BRAGS ALOT on how good she sings cause when she slept over at my house she sang a song and i said "you sounded like christina aguilara!!!" and now she tells everyone she sounds like her!! and she forces it out when she sings so it doesn't sound that good!!! ANYWAYS...so i got pissed and i walked to 5th per. myself! and then after school i walked to my bus myself!!! and today this morning i walked to my 1st per. MYSELF!! and then at lunch (since we sit at the same table) we didn't even look at eachother! and she is really getting on my nerves!! and whenever we had fights i was always the one that had to bring us back together and i'm SICK OF IT!!! so then after school today i saw one of my friends' so i said " hi darian!!" she said "hi!!!" and we walked togther then i can see my ex bff looking at me trying to catch upto her "Friend" and said "hi!!" really loud!!! and then i walked to my bus!!! and also she never says sorry to me when she hurts my feelings!! like one day she was like "you need to take anger managment!!" but i really don't cause she just went on and on about how i am such a bad person so i said "okay!!!" and she was like "your so pissy today!! your always moody!!" im not cause it's just her!!!
Additional info, added Wednesday October 1 2008, 5:26 pm: my question is how do i ignore her! cause i know she is trying to make me say sorry and i know for sure SHE won't say sorry! i don't want to be her friend ANYMORE! it's just that now since i use to be her bff i KNOW THAT she is talking to ppl just to make me jealous that she has more friends than me! but don't worry i AM NOT jealous!!! but ughh she is just so annoying! how do i ignore her!!!. Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? DramaQueen63 answered Wednesday October 1 2008, 3:18 pm: Ok, so what is your question..? Like how to get along or what..? [ DramaQueen63's advice column | Ask DramaQueen63 A Question ]
schwartz answered Wednesday October 1 2008, 3:15 pm: If you guys don't get along anymore, you don't have to force a friendship. I don't understand exactly what the drama was with the whole choir thing because you failed to clearly express yourself. However, you don't have to try to get back together with her if she angers you so much. You need to be able to be by yourself though, because it sounds like walking around the school by yourself is a big deal to you. It's not, honestly. And just because your ex best friend said hi to one of your friends doesn't mean she's trying to stab you in the back. You two were best friends, so you're obviously going to have mutual friends. I don't really know what advice you want from this, but that's all I got. [ schwartz's advice column | Ask schwartz A Question ]
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